[FairfieldLife] Re: Bliss

2008-06-15 Thread Irmeli Mattsson
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, off_world_beings [EMAIL PROTECTED]
wrote:


 True. 
 Emotions can be exacerbated by bliss. A lot of people in the world 
 never experience the purifying power of the white-hot fire of the 
 bliss fire-iron, and they bury emotions deep down in a prison, then 
 they grow old and gray beings.

As you stated in your earlier post no one can escape bliss. It seems
to be the driving force behind creation and evolving. There are
however differences in the levels of bliss-fire people can consciously
contain and hence be aware of. However if you can be aware of even a
little of it, and also appreciate this subtle energy or fire, you can
also gradually learn to contain more of it. 

 
 I think it is true that infusing the bliss-fire into your being can 
 help with physical pain, and it can even cure it completely. It 
 regenerates the cells. However, I think all emotion either must come 
 out of its prison, or it must be dissolved. The bliss-fire purifies 
 like a hot iron in a wound.
 
True bliss, if you manage to experience it for a while, has a tendency
to activate many kinds of hidden emotions, affects, feelings, bodily
sensations, you have not been aware of earlier. If you cannot contain
these activations and appropriately work with them, you most probably
start to act them out, or you feel illness related symptoms. I suspect
this phenomenon has created the interpretation that bliss is stupid.
Bliss is not stupid. People just are not capable of consciously
harnessing this energy appropriately.

The bliss-fire includes in it both the light and the dark. It is
nondual. People tend to appreciate only the light aspect, and may have
wishes that it will wipe out the darkness. It won't, because the
heavy, dark energies are included in the bliss-fire. If you can
appreciate only the light aspect of bliss-fire, you will be in
trouble. With that bias you will likely end up with the conclusion
that bliss is stupid. And it does not occur to these people, who can
even claim themselves to be enlightened, that it is their attitude,
their perspective, that is biased.Or they are not enough evolved in
their emotional, interpersonal etc. intelligence. 


If you can gradually learn to appreciate equally the light and dark
aspects of life in yourself keeping them present simultaneously, the
whole picture changes. There will be less alternation with periods of
bliss and heavy ppurification, the so called `dark nights of the
soul'. Everything becomes gradually bliss-fire.


 
 The people seeking something higher than bliss here are delusional, 
 thinking that you can escape it. You cannot. The comments of people 
 regurgitating what some guru or other said about bliss being bondage 
 merely shows that they have never experienced the bright white 
 purifying fire, and they think it is a game. If they ever encounter 
 it in reality, they will likely go mad because they are not ready
for it.

I agree with this.

Irmeli



[FairfieldLife] Re: Bliss

2008-06-15 Thread Irmeli Mattsson
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, R.G. [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 Pardon me, Sir, Madame:
 Could you spare me some Bliss?
 I hold out my cup, with sad eyes.
 No, that's ok.
 
 Where do I go, what do I do?
 I scared, I'm all alone.
 Where am I?
 
 I'm watching everything go by, fast.
 I'm in New York City, with my son.
 I see a little girl, standing behind a gate near a brownstone house,
 In Queens...
 I see the innocence surrounding her, and say, 'Hi, little girl!'
 My son says, Dad, what the hell are you doing?
 Did you see how scared she was?
 No, I said, I saw innocence.
 Look at these people we pass;
 Can you see the adults, stuck in their little petty ego thoughts?
 Do you see the innocent child, baby, tree, bird?
 Do you see the difference?
 See how it's all spinning around, now?
 It's really simple you know.
 
 Sorry to say, my son, is not that into meditation at the present time;
 And is more into beer as his meditation technique...
 And that's ok.
 
 The bliss is located in the oneness.
 It's not of the intellect, more of the heart.
 Babies know it.
 Egos don't.
 Simple, just drop the ego, stop thinking, 
 Allow the energy of the mind to fall into the heart.
 Feel your center, your feeling center.
 It will never steer you wrong.
 The mind will cause you great grief.
 The heart will cause you great love.
 You choose which it will BE.
 R.G. Sunday, June, 2008

 
Thank you R.G. for your beautiful poem. You and I both know there is
nowhere to go. Life unfolds as we are capable of receiving at each moment.

Irmeli



[FairfieldLife] Re: Bliss

2008-06-14 Thread Irmeli Mattsson
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, off_world_beings [EMAIL PROTECTED] 

 
 No, bliss is an energy unlike any emotion of love or compassion. 
 Bliss is purifying, more like fire than love, yet love and compassion 
 are entirely bound up within it. It courses through the body and the 
 brain re-wiring the neurons, changing the electromagnetic state, and 
 rebuilding wasting muscle tissue. It crashes in through your window 
 at night like waves crashing in from an ocean. It flows and courses 
 through your energy field and outwards and all over the cosmos. Bliss 
 is indestructible, it cannot be destroyed. Those who want 
 enlightenment over bliss are fools because your are made of bliss and 
 there is no way out, and no-where else to go. They live in self-
 delusion, inventing worlds and universes that do not exist. Bliss is 
 THE ONLY PERFECT SOLID. It has no cracks, it has no particles that 
 make it up. It has no atoms or sub-atoms. It is a wall of bliss, a 
 block, an unbreakable block, and it is everything in the universe. 
 Only fools think there is something 'outside' of that which is 
 everything and in which they have lived and breathed since birth, and 
 even before that. 
 
 You cannot escape bliss, and one day, bliss will rise up from below 
 the surface of ignorance, like molten lava coming up from the ground 
 all over the world, and will engulf all beings and all things will be 
 changed. This is not belief, this is an artifact of the electro-
 magnetic field, the gravity field (and the fields which underlay 
 that). The Earth's electro-magnetic and gravity fields and their 
 connection to the Sun and the Suns electro-magnetic/gravity 
 connection the the black hole at the center of the vast spinning 
 galaxy, and the galaxy's connection to all the other galaxies -- 
 those fields ARE your brain and you are it, and the neurons always 
 connect in sub-servience to bliss as coherence engulfs the field. You 
 are not a flesh brain, you are a field of energy processing through 
 the world.
 
 Bliss is Awesome.
 
 OffWorld


I loved this post.
 
In my opinion bliss is stupid only if you use it in stupid ways.
MMY had a profound understanding of its value in life. However it
seems to me that he used this invaluable, but extremely powerful form
of  subtle energy partly in stupid ways to enhance his self inflation
and narcissism. 

Bliss is irreplaceable, when you have to work through heavy emotions,
physical pain etc. Skill in action means infusing the stuck energies,
heaviness, intense subtle fear etc, with bliss, and the result is
transformation of the blocked energies and deep healing.

I have myself been lucky to have been born with hereditary progressive
distal muscular dystrophy. I have done a lot of work in my body using
bliss as I described above. Now at age 57 I'm in good shape. Actually
I suspect I live physically more active life than most other women of
my age.

The process I have gone through has not always been energetically
easy, but I claim that it would have been impossible had I not had
consciously available plenty of subtle energies sensed as bliss.

Irmeli



[FairfieldLife] Re: The Most Dangerous Dogma ?

2008-05-18 Thread Irmeli Mattsson
When a politician tells lies and manages to foul up people's judgment
and gets elected as president, maybe nature wanted him to do bad
things to test you. You trusted this candidate, because he had
influential supporters, who affirmed you him to be very trustworthy
and basically faultless.You voted for him, and now you are responsible
for the consequences?
This is what I understand you to be explaining here.

Irmeli


--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, TurquoiseB no_reply@ wrote:
 snip
  Who here still believes that enlightenment confers 
  perfection on the one who claims to have realized (or
  who actually *has* realized) enlightenment? Who here
  believes that the actions of the enlightened are *by 
  definition* in accord with the laws of nature and 
  thus are *always* life supporting? 
 
 I don't rule it out.
 
 BUT:
 
 As I understand the premise (and have argued before
 a number of times), it has *NO* implications for the
 behavior of others.
 
 It does NOT mean, for example, that if someone who
 is enlightened tells you to do something, you should
 do it. It does NOT mean that if the enlightened
 person does Bad Things him/herself, you should accept
 them.
 
 This is where folks tend to get fouled up.
 
 The perfection, if it exists, is in the enlightened
 person saying, Do this. Nature wants the person
 to say that.
 
 But Nature does not necessarily want you to do it,
 only for the enlightened person to *tell* you to do
 it. Nature may want you to say to yourself, That's
 dumb, I'm not going to do that.
 
 Nature wants the person to do the Bad Things (we
 cannot know why), but NOT for everyone else to
 accept them. Nature may want others to be outraged
 and prevent the person from doing the Bad Things, or
 punish him/her for having done them.
 
 It all goes back to the old Unfathomable is the
 course of action. You can't second-guess it; you
 aren't relieved of the necessity of making your
 own decisions. The perfection of the enlightened
 person's actions is relevant ONLY to the
 enlightened person.
 
 Those of us in ignorance shouldn't respond to the
 enlightened person any differently than we do to
 anybody else. That the person is enlightened is
 irrelevant to the rest of us.
 
  And who thinks that this piece of dogma is a self-
  serving and often-abused piece of...uh...ignorance that 
  deserves to be flushed down the commode once and for all?
 
 The dogma that the enlightened person's actions are
 perfect is one thing. The dogma that THEREFORE you
 should accept everything the enlightened person does
 is something else entirely. That's the piece that's
 ignorant, IMHO.





[FairfieldLife] Re: The Most Dangerous Dogma ?

2008-05-18 Thread Irmeli Mattsson
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:


 
 Another angle to it is that whatever actions you assume
 authorship of, you get to take (karmic) responsibility
 for. Michael Dean Goodman has pointed out that in the 
 phrase spontaneous right action, the emphasis is on
 spontaneous, not right. The premise about
 enlightenment is that the enlightened person always acts 
 spontaneously according to the dictates of nature,
 without mistakenly assuming authorship of his/her actions.
 


If a president feels himself to be waging a war on behalf of God and
don't take authorship for this war, he will get to heaven for so
dutifully obeying God's will?

Irmeli



[FairfieldLife] Re: The Most Dangerous Dogma ?

2008-05-18 Thread Irmeli Mattsson
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 
 If he takes authorship of obeyeing God's will in waging
 the war, he takes on its karmic consequences, according
 to the premise.

 
If a guru takes authorship of believing he is enlightened and that all
his actions are life-supporting, then according to that line of
reasoning, he will be karmically responsible for the fruits of his
actions.

Enlightenment is an elusive concept. 

The guru can have access to a high unity state consciousness, and at
the same time be very low in many lines of development : morally,
psychosexually,emotionally, in values etc. This is a very common
combination in gurus who have come from the Eastern traditions to the
west. And most probably this problem is very common in the East also,
but it is not always so easy to expose those.
Eastern people have not yet been able to question the morality of
their gurus. So strong this belief is in those cultures.

Basically access to unity consciousness can highly accelerate one's
cognitive,moral, emotional, psychosexual etc.development. 
This isn't however often the case in people who believe strictly to
this dogma. This belief gives a promise of a spiritual by-pass people
dream of. It is rather heavy to work through one's shadow issues,
question one's values and morals. But there is no development in those
lines without that kind of work.

I believe that without that belief the eastern gurus and hence also
their followers would be spontaneously morally, emotionally, and
psychosexually much more responsible persons.
I personally don't consider a person enlightened if he/she is not
spontaneously capable of responsible behavior of high standards.

Irmeli



[FairfieldLife] Re: TM and Elevated Eye Pressure

2008-05-16 Thread Irmeli Mattsson
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, freeradicalfederation
[EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Rick Archer rick@ wrote:
  
  And congrats on maintaining excellent vision. I assume you at at least
  55+ years old. If you don't require reading glasses, you are doing
  great -- and it might even be fair to attribute your excellent vision
  to the reduced stress you enjoy from TM practice. If you wanted to
  make that argument, I would not oppose it. 
  
  I'm 58. I don't require any glasses except for reading tiny print.
 Have you
  noted an above-average occurrence of glaucoma in long-term
 meditators? It
  seems that would follow from elevated eye pressure, if this is
 anything to
  worry about. Or wouldn't we expect to see the glaucoma until we got
 older?
  
  
 
 I'm not suggesting that TM causes glaucoma. That's a much different
 statement from saying that TM elevates intraocular pressure in some
 cases. Our data only shows that TM can elevate intraocular pressure.


This is interesting information. I have been meditating for 35 years.
A few months ago an optician found out that I have slightly elevated
intraocular pressure in the other eye. The value was between 20 to 21.
If I remember correctly the upper limit for normal pressure is 20.
Next monday there will be a follow-up measurement.
MY eyesight is good, except mild nearsightedness in the other eye, and
 somewhat more nearsightedness in the eye that had elevated pressure.
I can still read at age 57 even tiny texts without glasses.

Irmeli






Irmeli: (Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Religion as Opium)

2008-03-11 Thread Irmeli Mattsson
I agree fully with what you write below.
However that is not the perspective I want to bring forth here. It is
useful to look at complex issues from many perspectives. 
If we can hold simultaneously many perspectives, we get closer to the
truth.

Irmeli

--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Angela Mailander
[EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 It seems you admit two points:
 1) an Islamic baby adopted by you would have the same
 education you have.
 2) Islam is not necessarily what you see today since
 it was quite capable of producing well educated people
 some time ago.  It can still do this and it does do
 this still today for certain people--not the ones you
 see around you, quite apparently. 
 
 That is the sum total of my argument.  Education is
 the key.  And education is planned--you don't have to
 be a conspiracy theorist to come to that conclusion. 
 I've spent my entire adult life in a university
 context.  What gets taught in kindergarten is not
 determined by the kindergarten teacher but by graduate
 school professors who are paid by someone and whose
 work and research are funded by someone. 
 
 
 
 --- Irmeli Mattsson [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:
 
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Angela
  Mailander
  mailander111@ wrote:
  
   The Bible contains statements that women are to be
   obedient to their fathers and husbands, yet we
  manage
   to transcend that—though probably only because the
   powers that be want to collect taxes from two
  incomes
   instead of just one and they want the children
  earlier
   than they would get them if mothers stayed at
  home. 
   Even so we can, for example, try to understand
  what
   obedience really is.  The word comes from a
  Latin
   root meaning to listen to and, deeper, from to
   hear.  So, in the original sense, obedience
  isn't
   the mindless thing it has to be in a military
  context.
I am sure that Hatice didn't ask the Prophet,
  How
   high, my Love, whenever he said, Jump.  She was
  his
   teacher, so she would have listened not to what
  his
   mouth was saying but to what his soul's need was
  and
   respond to that. 
  
  I like the etymology of the word obedience as you
  describe it.
  I however am afraid that being able to live it in
  that context lies
  more in our future than in the past as it requires
  rather advanced
  interpersonal skills. A person who is at mythical
  fundamentalist level
   cannot have those skills, because this stage is
  about control and
  following. Individuals on their own right don't
  exist yet in that
  world view.
  The Sharia law in Islam accepts beating of wifes as
  long as you don't 
  inflict permanent physical injury. In that worldview
  the notion of
  psychic trauma caused by beating, doesn't apparently
  even exist yet.
  When there is also stated the idea that women are
  clearly lower in
  their moral development that men, it makes me doubt
  that this kind
  vicious circle that keeps people stuck in violence,
  can be broken even
  by the best kind of obedience.
   
   Islam has been made into a religion of fear, but
  it
   was not that and is not that in its essence.  This
  is
   a relatively modern interpretation, which suits
  the
   rulers that be, just as fundamentalist American
   Christianity is a religion of fear that very much
   suits the rulers that be and who have made it into
   what it is.   Remember that Islam produced Harun
   al-Rashid, one of the wisest rulers our world has
   seen, and Islam, as you know, flourished under
  him. 
   Islam also produced great poets (Rumi, among them)
  and
   great philosophers and mathematicians.
  
  Islam was an advanced culture in medieval times
  compared with Europe.
  But it has been stuck, or regressing already for
  many centuries.
  Blaming dictators makes people helpless and
  powerless.
   
   Maharishi did say that we get the rulers we
  deserve. 
   I take that with a very large grain of salt
  because I
   do not know that this is true any more than you
   probably do.  You believe it, just as others
  believe
   what their religion tells them.  Maharishi also
  said
   that mothers should stay at home—and you can see
  for
   yourself what the status of women is in the TMO. 
  Do
   you believe him when it comes to the status of
  women?
  
  I did quote MMY only because this is a forum where
  people have
  TM-background. MMY has never been my guru. However I
  do perceive
  myself that on a large scale people get the rulers
  they deserve.
  In democracies we elect them, and even dictators
  cannot stay in power
  without enough supporters.
   
   Do we in fact get the rulers we deserve?  In a
  way, no
   doubt.  In another way, who knows?  How did
  Germany
   get Hitler, for example?  Well, for one thing,
  the
   Catholic vote for him was mandated from the pulpit
  of
   every Catholic Church in Germany, and his vice
   chancellor, the power behind the throne, was a
  Papal
   Chamberlain.  Even so, Hitler had

Irmeli: (Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Religion as Opium)

2008-03-06 Thread Irmeli Mattsson
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Angela Mailander
[EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 Irmeli, your question is right on the money.  Hitler
 was schooled in Le Bon's 1895 The Crowd: A Study of
 the Popular Mind.  It is still a good source for how
 social engineering is done.  Young Dove recently
 posted an excellent rant on how easy it is to sway
 the masses.  It is the result of education or,
 rather, programming, and brainwashing that you see
 in the Muslim world today.   You can also see it in
 American fundamentalists and in the American black
 community.   
 

I think it goes far deeper than that. I remember even MMY said that
people get the kind of leaders they deserve.
I perceive the reason of the Muslim world being stuck in many places
to medieval times, is due to the structure of their religion.
In it there are ultimate beliefs that are not easy to go beyond,
transcend to a higher level.
One is the command that women have to be always fully submissive to
their husband, father etc.
Another is that the government of a state can never been separated
from Islam. Islam is the state.
Third is that these commands are the eternal truth, and cannot never
be criticized. By doing so you are going to eternal hell. But if you
have made some transgressions, becoming a martyr guarantees
your place in heaven.
Islam is a religion based on fear. This fear keeps its followers on
the level of shame/honour communication. This is bound to create
violence and retaliation.

Irmeli



[FairfieldLife] FW: A university where everyone meditates.

2008-03-06 Thread Irmeli Mattsson
A university where everyone meditates.


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A university where everyone meditates.   
 

This blew me away. 

In April, David Lynch and Moby (along with a 
number of other luminaries) are joining together for a weekend on Creativity, 
Sustainability, and Peace. This is big news in itself, but what's even more 
impressive, to me, is who's hosting the weekend. Maharishi University of 
Management (MUM) is a school in Iowa that offers programs much like those found 
in any mainstream university—from a BA in Computer Science to an MBA in 
Sustainability—but it's unique in that it provides consciousness-based 
education: all students learn Transcendental Meditation as part of the 
curriculum.

This seems like one of those compelling pieces 
of evidence that the world really IS changing and that the shift so many of us 
speak of is having an effect.  I mean, really. Did you ever dream we'd see 
meditation as a part of a standard university program?

If you're at all intrigued by this, now's an 
excellent time to find out more. Again, in April, the university is holding its 
Visitors Weekend on Consciousness, Creativity, Sustainability, and Peace. If 
you know anyone who'd be interested, or if you're personally curious about a 
university that incorporates the development of consciousness and awareness 
into the standard fields of study, then have a look:  

The details of the weekend are as follows: 

When: April 25 to 28
Where: Maharishi University of Management 
(MUM), Fairfield, Iowa
What: The schedule can be found here, though 
highlights include the following:

Filmmaker David Lynch: Catching the Big Fish: 
Creativity and Pure Consciousness 
Brain researcher Fred Travis, PhD: What 
happens to your brain when you meditate? (includes a live brain wave 
demonstration) 
Physicist John Hagelin, PhD: “Quantum physics 
and consciousness—going beyond thought” 
Donovan, with special guest Moby: A free 
concert for all visitors

You can find out more (and register) here: 
http://www.lynchweekend.org. It's an amazing opportunity to hear some 
incredible speakers (not to mention seeing a few performances); all the 
participants are volunteering their time because they believe in the school's 
core values. 

Even if you're not interested, please pass this 
on! MUM is a wonderful example of what more universities could do. Part of 
what's so great about the program is that it's a model that works: graduates 
have gone on to schools such as Harvard Business School, Johns Hopkins Medical 
School, Stanford, Yale, and others, and (perhaps even better...), ACTs national 
alumni survey found out that MUM's alumni are more satisfied with their college 
education than graduates from over 1,000 other colleges. 

To me this seems obvious—they're given time to 
meditate and supported in developing their own awareness, and after all, how 
can any of us expect to fulfill our educational potential if our inner creative 
potential isn't cultivated as well? (Still, sometimes those who haven't yet 
explored such practices can use a little convincing. :) 

Have a look, though, and imagine what the world 
would be like if all educational institutions were like this. 

Here's to a future where our inner awareness 
balances the outer...
Siona (and the Gaia Team)


PS. One more thing. :) The David Lynch 
Foundation, which helped sponsor this newsletter, just announced that all new 
students who enroll at Maharishi University will receive a scholarship covering 
the full tuition for the Transcendental Meditation course... so anyone who 
attends will get this benefit for free. 
 
 
 
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Irmeli: (Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Religion as Opium)

2008-03-05 Thread Irmeli Mattsson
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, do.rflex [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Irmeli Mattsson
 Irmeli.Mattsson@ wrote:
 
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Hagen J. Holtz
  hagen.j.holtz@ wrote:
  
   Irmeli said:
   
   Practically every time they (the nuslims) publicly say
   something, they make themselves just ridiculous, and show that their
   capacity to formal operational thinking, or abstract conceptual
   thinking, is poor. They combine categories in a wrong way all the
   time. And this is not about belief systems. It is about where
they are
   in their cognitive development. And I consider their
beliefsystems to
   be the cause of their backwardness.
   
 Irmeli, what you report from Finland fits perfectly into the
  picture, which we also have on German grounds with this ethnic group
  from time to time. So your description illustrates it very
  felicitously. But for all that I personally consider their
  beliefsystem not as being the main cause of their backwardness, but
  rather their lack of willingness to go one step ahead. And I think,
  that western influence has been contributing to this disclaiming
  attitude a lot, because the interests of the west had predominantly
  been of economic and earlier even of generally subdueing nature,
  living the reckless fruitless hubris of feeling superior. And now we
  harvest a little the fruits of our sowing.
   
 Hagen
  
  
  I have just read the book `Infidel' by Ayaan Hirsi Ali. On this basis
  I would claim that many of the Muslim beliefs are really weird and
  scary. Reading the book convinced me that these beliefs truly are
  behind their severe problems. I also saw that it is not easy to
  interpret those commandments in a more `advanced' more humane way,
  because they actually are very literal concrete practical
  instructions. And one fundamental instruction is not to question these
  instructions. It is about submitting yourself without questioning.
  
  Irmeli
 
 
 All human beings are the same. They all have the same emotions. All
 laugh when happy and weep when sad. There are no broad civilizations
 that produce radically different behavior in human beings.
 
 All are capable of violence. (Christians killed tens of millions in
 the course of the 20th century, far, far more than did Muslims). Few
 commit much violence except in war.
 
 You can walk around any place in Cairo at 1 am perfectly safely, but
 cannot do that everywhere safely in many major US cities, including
 the nation's capital, Washington, DC.
 
 Even the idea of Islam as a cultural world or civilization opposed to
 the Christian West is a false construct. Eastern Mediterranean honor
 cultures (Greece, Bulgaria, Lebanon, Syria) have more in common with
 each other across the Christian-Muslim divide than either has in
 common with Britain or the US.
 
 And, Muslim states don't make their alliances by religion.
 
 Egypt was allied with the Soviet Union in the 1960s, then switched to
 the US in the 1970s and until the present.
 
 Four of the five non-NATO allies of the US are Muslim countries.
 Turkey is even a full NATO ally and fought along side the US in the
 Korean War. [...]
 
 The Bush administration policy is to continually insinuate that the
 Muslim world is the new Soviet Union and full of sinister forces that
 require the US to go to war against them. But at the same time,
 America has warm relations with Morocco, Algeria, Tunisia, Senegal,
 Egypt, Jordan, Saudi Arabia, Yemen, Oman, Qatar, the UAE, Bahrain,
 Turkey, Pakistan, Bangladesh, Malaysia, Indonesia, Kyrgyzstan,
 Kazakhstan, Turkmenistan, Tajikistan, Afghanistan, etc., etc. When
 Saudi Arabia's then crown prince (now king) Abdullah came to the US,
 Bush brought him to the Crawford ranch, held hands with him and kissed
 him on each cheek.
 
 This two-faced policy and self-contradictory rhetoric has contributed
 to growing hatred and bigotry toward Muslims in the US, which is no
 less worrisome than the hatred Jews faced in Europe in the 1920s. It
 is dangerous because of what it can become.
 
 Read the whole thing:

http://www.juancole.com/2006/03/bigotry-toward-muslims-and-anti-arab.html
 
 
 =
 
 Most Muslims 'desire democracy'
 
 BBC News, February 27, 2008
 http://news.bbc.co.uk/go/pr/fr/-/1/hi/world/americas/7267100.stm
 
 
 The largest survey to date of Muslims worldwide suggests the vast
 majority want Western democracy and freedoms, but do not want them to
 be imposed.
 
 The poll by Gallup of more than 50,000 Muslims in 35 nations found
 most wanted the West to instead focus on changing its negative view of
 Muslims and Islam.
 
 The huge survey began following the 11 September 2001 attacks in the US.
 
 The overwhelming majority of those asked condemned them and subsequent
 attacks, citing religious reasons.
 
 The poll, which claims to represent the views of 90% the world's 1.3
 billion Muslims, is to be published next month as part

Irmeli: (Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Religion as Opium)

2008-03-05 Thread Irmeli Mattsson
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Stu [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Irmeli Mattsson
 Irmeli.Mattsson@ wrote:
 
  Hi Angela!
  
  I also know personally some Muslims or former Muslims, who have come
  as refugees to Finland, and they are truly fine people. E.g. I have
  learned to know a conductor from Afghanistan, to whom I'm hiring an
  apartment. I don't perceive any serious defects in his reasoning.
  During the years I have also hired apartments to many kinds of
  Muslims. And I have seen severe domestic violence.The Muslim men are
  allowed to beat their wifes. The women are practically always very
  submissive, fearful.They don't speak to me, even if I'm a woman.
  
  Even the man interviewed in TV, I described earlier seemed to be a
  decent human being. However there were glaring defects in his
  reasoning concerning those matters.In other areas of life he probably
  would do better.
  Strong religious beliefs makes it almost impossible to think clearly,
  because then you would need to start questioning the ultimate truths
  of the doctrine.The same problem is in other religions. Although
  questioning is in them usually easier. The sanctions of doing it are
  not so horrifying.
  
  Irmeli
  
 
 Healthy humans can generally be really nice, spiritual, friendly
 people.  However, they are also capable of subscribing to belief
 systems whose realization can shock modern liberal minds.
 
 We westerners put a value on freedom of expression.  We have no
 problem with rational dialog on any subject.  These nice friendly
 spirits have made death threats to anyone making the slightest
 satirical comment on their icons.  They shut down dialog with threats.
  These wonderful neighbors can be very kind, but they also have
 iron-age values that clash with the modern.
 
 Imagine if we transplanted a group of brilliant ancient minds like
 Aristotle's into modern times.  They may come off as polished,
 intellectual, astute people.  However they would be offended by they
 way we treat our women, look for non-military solutions, give freedom
 to slaves, question authority and so on.
 
 No doubt many third world people embrace modernity, assimilate it and
 contribute wonderfully to society.  Part of this process requires
 understanding ancient tribal/religious identities as secondary to
 modern beliefs in humanism, tolerance, and science.
 
 s.


Stu, I again agree with you in this.
However I have recently started to ask myself this question:
Muslims were in medieval times probably a more evolved and tolerant
culture than the Christian Europeans. 
In an absolute sense they probably were not more evolved than they now
are, but the Europeans were then even lower.
Then why is it that the Christian Europe, or the western culture
generally has been able to evolve hugely, while the Muslim culture has
got stuck in the their medieval times level?

Irmeli



Irmeli: (Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Religion as Opium)

2008-03-05 Thread Irmeli Mattsson

Hi Angela!
At least you can have that kind of job. You can choose your husband,
and divorce him, if he treats you badly.If a man rapes you, you are
not made guilty for it, and being killed by your family members
because of this crime.
Women's position may not be perfect in the west either, but it is
hugely better than in the east. It is worst in the Muslim culture, but
not much better in India, China, Tibet etc. The Tibetan word woman,
means 'born low'.
The Purusha men probably have been in their attitudes been strongly
influenced by the Indian culture.

Irmeli

--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Angela Mailander
[EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 Who's we, white man?
 We think we don't hold slaves only because we don't
 understand that a sweat shop in China is tantamount to
 slavery.  When China tried, recently, once again, to
 do something about it, American corporate interests
 blocked their efforts completely --in a kind of
 non-military solution.
 
 We seek non military solutions?  Since when?  Wasn't
 the 20th century one of the bloodiest in history?  And
 it was all engineered by the white boys.  
 
 We have made some token progress with regard to the
 status of women, but you see how easily our Purusha
 men forgot all about that.  Last time I taught at a
 university in the States, I got $10,000 less per year
 than the men, less qualified, and doing the same job. 
 
 
 
 
 
 --- Stu [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:
 
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Irmeli
  Mattsson
  Irmeli.Mattsson@ wrote:
  
   Hi Angela!
   
   I also know personally some Muslims or former
  Muslims, who have come
   as refugees to Finland, and they are truly fine
  people. E.g. I have
   learned to know a conductor from Afghanistan, to
  whom I'm hiring an
   apartment. I don't perceive any serious defects in
  his reasoning.
   During the years I have also hired apartments to
  many kinds of
   Muslims. And I have seen severe domestic
  violence.The Muslim men are
   allowed to beat their wifes. The women are
  practically always very
   submissive, fearful.They don't speak to me, even
  if I'm a woman.
   
   Even the man interviewed in TV, I described
  earlier seemed to be a
   decent human being. However there were glaring
  defects in his
   reasoning concerning those matters.In other areas
  of life he probably
   would do better.
   Strong religious beliefs makes it almost
  impossible to think clearly,
   because then you would need to start questioning
  the ultimate truths
   of the doctrine.The same problem is in other
  religions. Although
   questioning is in them usually easier. The
  sanctions of doing it are
   not so horrifying.
   
   Irmeli
   
  
  Healthy humans can generally be really nice,
  spiritual, friendly
  people.  However, they are also capable of
  subscribing to belief
  systems whose realization can shock modern liberal
  minds.
  
  We westerners put a value on freedom of expression. 
  We have no
  problem with rational dialog on any subject.  These
  nice friendly
  spirits have made death threats to anyone making the
  slightest
  satirical comment on their icons.  They shut down
  dialog with threats.
   These wonderful neighbors can be very kind, but
  they also have
  iron-age values that clash with the modern.
  
  Imagine if we transplanted a group of brilliant
  ancient minds like
  Aristotle's into modern times.  They may come off as
  polished,
  intellectual, astute people.  However they would be
  offended by they
  way we treat our women, look for non-military
  solutions, give freedom
  to slaves, question authority and so on.
  
  No doubt many third world people embrace modernity,
  assimilate it and
  contribute wonderfully to society.  Part of this
  process requires
  understanding ancient tribal/religious identities as
  secondary to
  modern beliefs in humanism, tolerance, and science.
  
  s.
  
  
 
 
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Irmeli: (Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Religion as Opium)

2008-03-04 Thread Irmeli Mattsson
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Angela Mailander
[EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 You must have some very different Muslims in Europe
 than the ones I have met here.   In 1982 I taught a
 very unusual class of ESL at Kent State University. 
 All 25 guys from Muslim and Arabic speaking countries.
  They were an amazing bunch of young gentlemen, and
 the only classes I've ever taught that were similar
 were the tenth grade boys at MSAE.  Those young
 Muslims were intelligent, kind, and spiritual.  I've
 kept in touch with a number of them, and they continue
 to be what they were then, except that with age,
 kindness has become more important to them than
 intelligence. a 
 
 
Those Muslim's I described I have not met personally.  I was referring
to interviews I have seen on TV or read from a newspaper or magazine.
And every single time I have perceived errors in their conceptual
thinking.

Most recent was an interview of a Muslim spiritual leader in Finland.
He was considered to be very moderate in his thinking.
He explained a lot about what Muslim women are allowed to do, and what
not, and why their community controls so much their behaviour. He
explained how this actually benefits and protects the women. He also
said that men and women are equal.
Then the interviewer asked about the female genital mutilation. The
man told he does not accept it. Then the interviewer said that it is
done here in Finland also. The man admitted it. The interviewer asked
then what he has done to stop this practise. He answered: I'm not the
guard of my brother.

What kind of logic is this? He doesn't guard his brothers, but he says
he guards his sisters to protect them. But actually allows the most
terrible cruelty being done to girls, because he does not guard what
the Muslim community does to their girls, even if he does not accept
this doing.

This is truly convoluted reasoning. In every interview so far I have
perceived some similar sort fundamental errors in their conceptual
reasoning.

Did you ever discuss these kinds of matters with those young men?

Irmeli




Irmeli: (Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Religion as Opium)

2008-03-04 Thread Irmeli Mattsson
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Hagen J. Holtz
[EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 Irmeli said:
 
 Practically every time they (the nuslims) publicly say
 something, they make themselves just ridiculous, and show that their
 capacity to formal operational thinking, or abstract conceptual
 thinking, is poor. They combine categories in a wrong way all the
 time. And this is not about belief systems. It is about where they are
 in their cognitive development. And I consider their beliefsystems to
 be the cause of their backwardness.
 
   Irmeli, what you report from Finland fits perfectly into the
picture, which we also have on German grounds with this ethnic group
from time to time. So your description illustrates it very
felicitously. But for all that I personally consider their
beliefsystem not as being the main cause of their backwardness, but
rather their lack of willingness to go one step ahead. And I think,
that western influence has been contributing to this disclaiming
attitude a lot, because the interests of the west had predominantly
been of economic and earlier even of generally subdueing nature,
living the reckless fruitless hubris of feeling superior. And now we
harvest a little the fruits of our sowing.
 
   Hagen


I have just read the book `Infidel' by Ayaan Hirsi Ali. On this basis
I would claim that many of the Muslim beliefs are really weird and
scary. Reading the book convinced me that these beliefs truly are
behind their severe problems. I also saw that it is not easy to
interpret those commandments in a more `advanced' more humane way,
because they actually are very literal concrete practical
instructions. And one fundamental instruction is not to question these
instructions. It is about submitting yourself without questioning.

Irmeli



Irmeli: (Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Religion as Opium)

2008-03-04 Thread Irmeli Mattsson
Hi Angela!

I also know personally some Muslims or former Muslims, who have come
as refugees to Finland, and they are truly fine people. E.g. I have
learned to know a conductor from Afghanistan, to whom I'm hiring an
apartment. I don't perceive any serious defects in his reasoning.
During the years I have also hired apartments to many kinds of
Muslims. And I have seen severe domestic violence.The Muslim men are
allowed to beat their wifes. The women are practically always very
submissive, fearful.They don't speak to me, even if I'm a woman.

Even the man interviewed in TV, I described earlier seemed to be a
decent human being. However there were glaring defects in his
reasoning concerning those matters.In other areas of life he probably
would do better.
Strong religious beliefs makes it almost impossible to think clearly,
because then you would need to start questioning the ultimate truths
of the doctrine.The same problem is in other religions. Although
questioning is in them usually easier. The sanctions of doing it are
not so horrifying.

Irmeli

--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Angela Mailander
[EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 Yes, Irmeli, I have discussed female mutilation with
 these gentlemen.  They are no longer young.  Let's
 see, they were in their early twenties in 1982, so
 they are now pushing fifty.  They are all intelligent,
 kind, and spiritually inclined men who appear to
 respect women.  At least, they respect me very much. 
 I was their teacher, and they still think of me that
 way, which is a little weird from my point of view.  
 
 So it must be the case that not all Muslims are stupid
 and bigoted.  a
 
 
 
 --- Irmeli Mattsson [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:
 

  Those Muslim's I described I have not met
  personally.  I was referring
  to interviews I have seen on TV or read from a
  newspaper or magazine.
  And every single time I have perceived errors in
  their conceptual
  thinking.
  
  Most recent was an interview of a Muslim spiritual
  leader in Finland.
  He was considered to be very moderate in his
  thinking.
  He explained a lot about what Muslim women are
  allowed to do, and what
  not, and why their community controls so much their
  behaviour. He
  explained how this actually benefits and protects
  the women. He also
  said that men and women are equal.
  Then the interviewer asked about the female genital
  mutilation. The
  man told he does not accept it. Then the interviewer
  said that it is
  done here in Finland also. The man admitted it. The
  interviewer asked
  then what he has done to stop this practise. He
  answered: I'm not the
  guard of my brother.
  
  What kind of logic is this? He doesn't guard his
  brothers, but he says
  he guards his sisters to protect them. But actually
  allows the most
  terrible cruelty being done to girls, because he
  does not guard what
  the Muslim community does to their girls, even if he
  does not accept
  this doing.
  
  This is truly convoluted reasoning. In every
  interview so far I have
  perceived some similar sort fundamental errors in
  their conceptual
  reasoning.
  
  Did you ever discuss these kinds of matters with
  those young men?
  
  Irmeli
  
  
  
 
 
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[FairfieldLife] Re: Religion as Opium

2008-03-03 Thread Irmeli Mattsson
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Stu [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 
 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Irmeli Mattsson
 Irmeli.Mattsson@ wrote:
 
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Stu buttsplicer@ wrote:
  
   Its a fantastic tool to understanding how people come to religion. 
 Why
   religion still exists in advanced societies.  And how religion
 changes
   as people's life conditions vary.
  
 
  I would like to turn this around to: People's life conditions change,
  as their religious beliefs change or evolve.
 
 For the most part the role of the big religions is to make sure people's
 religious beliefs don't change or evolve.  Religions are like huge
 freighters that have difficulty changing course when facts come into
 light.
 
 
 
 
  I have recently been actively participating in discussions in some Ken
  Wilber related forums, just because it provides a conceptual
  framework, that includes the spiraldynamics related understanding
  of human evolving in many different lines of intelligences, not just
  in the values line.
  This kind of framework makes discussions about e.g. spiritual issues
  much more sensible. Often people speak about their spiritual state
  experiences in totally different terms depending on their world view,
  cultural background etc. They are speaking about similar inner states,
  but still cannot understand each other.
  Years ago I participated on this forum on a discussion with 'no I'. It
  was quite frustrating as we didn't understand each other at all. Later
  it occurred to me that we had probably pretty similar inner state
  experiences but described them very differently.
 
  Irmeli
 
 I was involved a bit with some Ken Wilber discussion groups but was
 turned off by too many bliss-ninny types who don't think out of the box.
 Many of these people may be having similar inner state experiences but
 they get caught up in religious dogma and get lost in myths.  Its like
 they are stuck in quicksand.
 
 The only thing left is to lend them a hand - and a discussion forum is
 no place for that sort of intervention.
 
 s.


I agree with this. However I have found it helpful for myself
to write down my ideas about certain issues, and let others on these
forums criticize those ideas. 
But discussions in which the participants don't understand each other
are not helpful, just frustrating. People may use the same words
meaning different things, or describe similar experiences with
different words without any significant mutual understanding.

In some Wilber forums I have experienced precisely the thing you
describe. However at I-I pod at Gaia I have been able to this way
participate in pretty high quality discussions. But then there is no
free access to write there, even if everyone can read our discussions.
The members are carefully selected through a recommendation process.

Irmeli




[FairfieldLife] Re: Religion as Opium

2008-03-02 Thread Irmeli Mattsson
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Tom [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 That was Marx. Die Religion ... ist das Opium des Volkes from his
Critique of Hegel's 
 Philosophy of Right.
 

In the late 60's I was reading Freud and remember picking it up from
there. Probably he was quoting Marx then. I have not read any books of
Marx.

Irmeli






[FairfieldLife] Re: Religion as Opium

2008-03-02 Thread Irmeli Mattsson
Islam was in many ways an advanced, and tolerant culture at the
medieval age. That was probably based on the real improvements it
brought to people’s lives. But since then Islam has got stuck. There
has been an idea that if something is good, more of it is even better.
This principle can get things really distorted, if you cannot
correctly evaluate the factors that really contributed to the
flourishing of the medieval Islam world. 
And since then the world around has been evolving. What at that time
was advanced status for women in that culture, when looked at from
modern world centric perspective, makes us perceiving women being in
the position of slaves in many Islam nations. And this greatly
contributes to poverty and violence in those societies.
I have never read the Koran, but recently heard that prophet Muhammad
married his friend’s daughter, when she was 9 years old in spite of
her father’s resistance. Now I understand better why there has been in
Iran demands to lower the age, when girls can get married, to 9 years!
I think it is at present 13 years, although I’m not quite sure. Even
that means to us westerners pedophilia!

Irmeli


--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Angela Mailander
[EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 I agree that religion can be many things, good and
 bad.  I also agree that the position of women in all
 of today's religions (that I know about) is
 questionable, especially Islam.  But remember that
 when their prophet lived, he improved the status of
 women immeasurably.  He gave them inheritance rights,
 which they had not had at the time and he gave them
 the right to say no to an arranged marriage.  The
 custom of burkas did not come into use until his
 movement was co-opted after his death.  There are
 some scholars who claim that he actually gave the
 leadership of his movement to Ayosha (spellings vary),
 who was an eighteen-year old girl at the time of his
 death.  Obviously, the guys in the organization did
 not allow that to happen.  
 
 The bottom line on him for me is that if you read his
 history carefully, you can see that his first wife,
 Hatice, who was quite a bit older than he was, was
 probably his guru.  But, of course, that is not
 something that would fly in today's Islam.  a
 
 
 
 
 
 
 --- Irmeli Mattsson [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:
 
  Long ago as a young adult I agreed with Freud in his
  saying:” Religion
  is opium to the people”.
  That was what I saw: religion and its beliefs as a
  place to hide
  behind. I saw it being also a main source for
  hypocrisy, a stopper of
  inquiry and curiosity about life. It seemed to have
  a dangerous
  capacity to create a self-satisfied, numbing feeling
  of belonging,
  safety, being on the right side, giving a
  justification for condemning
  others, while belittling and hiding once own
  transgressions.
  
  No wonder religion felt as a truly filthy thing to
  me. Later I saw how
  religion has truly helped people in different kinds
  of anguish. I was
  also thinking that so many people throughout human
  history cannot have
  been completely wrong. Some important function
  religion has to have
  for humanity.
  
  After learning meditation I gradually came to the
  insight that certain
  forms of prayer are actually also functioning as
  meditation. And
  simultaneously I started to perceive that also
  meditating communities,
  which considered themselves to be much above
  ordinary religions, had
  belief systems, that were considered as ultimate,
  were not accepted to
  be questioned, and became again a kind of opium. In
  some aspects even
  the more advanced approaches seemed to create the
  very opposite to
  what they were advocating.
  
  Concerning mythic fundamental level of development,
  and lower, I feel
  I have started to understand, what might cause this
  pathology. People
  who have not gone through a true individualization
  process, are not
  really capable of being in dialogue with others.
  True others on their
  own right don’t actually exist in that reality.
  The same is true
  internally. These people cannot be in a true
  dialogue with themselves.
  It is all about controlling, trying to control
  others, and also
  themselves.
  
  People who have evolved further know pretty well how
  inefficient a
  tool control is in truly working through one’s
  shadows. If you want to
  feel good about yourself and see good results with
  controlling,
  hypocrisy, and focusing on the sin’s of others
  becomes a lucrative
  solution.
  
  Religions can have also incorporated in themselves,
  when looked at
  from a modern perspective, truly pathological values
  and beliefs, the
  most notable of these being the position of women.
  As I see it, the
  relationships at home are reflected directly in the
  functioning of
  societies. 
  
  Christianity has in its old doctrines had a best
  respect for human
  rights that also includes women. And there has been
  also a respect

[FairfieldLife] Re: Religion as Opium

2008-03-02 Thread Irmeli Mattsson
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Hagen J. Holtz
[EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:
 
 Any form of religion therefore has to be banned as a public issue
like preventing people from ingenuous touching radio-active material
or negligent smoking in open halls . On the other hand, what someone
privately believes, should still be his respected personal matter,
because you cannot try to prevent someone from making up his personal
mind, even if it might be objectively not tenable. The same way like
children should have their right to believe in matters, which adults
see through. Therefore such believes should be prevented as something
a human being has to go through more or less. It is a legitimate part
of his personal evolution and therefore on the other hand should get
prevailed at any cost.  But the moment someone tries to publically
issue his believes in the very sense of what he holds to be true (as
already nicely been defined recently in this list), there have to be
well-acceptable objective criteria in order to get a public license
for it.
 
 Hagen


This is the principle that has already been followed with good results
in Europe. In USA political decision making seems to be still somewhat
mixed with obeying God’s will according to religious beliefs. Someone
making aloud such claims in Finland would make him/herself totally
ridiculous. Political decisions are not made here in the name of God.

The Islam world is fighting frantically against every effort to
separate these sphere’s using as their weapons threatening, fear, and
violence. Recently in Finland the Muslim’s demanded that they have to
be allowed to follow in Finland their own Sharia law instead of
Finnish law!

We have had these Muslim’s only a short time. The first refugees
arrived in the 90’s. Practically every time they publicly say
something, they make themselves just ridiculous, and show that their
capacity to formal operational thinking, or abstract conceptual
thinking, is poor. They combine categories in a wrong way all the
time. And this is not about belief systems. It is about where they are
in their cognitive development. And I consider their beliefsystems to
be the cause of their backwardness.

Irmeli




[FairfieldLife] Re: Religion as Opium

2008-03-02 Thread Irmeli Mattsson
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Stu [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:
 
 Its a fantastic tool to understanding how people come to religion.  Why
 religion still exists in advanced societies.  And how religion changes
 as people's life conditions vary.
 

I would like to turn this around to: People's life conditions change,
as their religious beliefs change or evolve.

I have recently been actively participating in discussions in some Ken
Wilber related forums, just because it provides a conceptual
framework, that includes the spiraldynamics related understanding
of human evolving in many different lines of intelligences, not just
in the values line.
This kind of framework makes discussions about e.g. spiritual issues
much more sensible. Often people speak about their spiritual state
experiences in totally different terms depending on their world view,
cultural background etc. They are speaking about similar inner states,
but still cannot understand each other. 
Years ago I participated on this forum on a discussion with 'no I'. It
was quite frustrating as we didn't understand each other at all. Later
it occurred to me that we had probably pretty similar inner state
experiences but described them very differently.

Irmeli




[FairfieldLife] Religion as Opium

2008-03-01 Thread Irmeli Mattsson
Long ago as a young adult I agreed with Freud in his saying:” Religion
is opium to the people”.
That was what I saw: religion and its beliefs as a place to hide
behind. I saw it being also a main source for hypocrisy, a stopper of
inquiry and curiosity about life. It seemed to have a dangerous
capacity to create a self-satisfied, numbing feeling of belonging,
safety, being on the right side, giving a justification for condemning
others, while belittling and hiding once own transgressions.

No wonder religion felt as a truly filthy thing to me. Later I saw how
religion has truly helped people in different kinds of anguish. I was
also thinking that so many people throughout human history cannot have
been completely wrong. Some important function religion has to have
for humanity.

After learning meditation I gradually came to the insight that certain
forms of prayer are actually also functioning as meditation. And
simultaneously I started to perceive that also meditating communities,
which considered themselves to be much above ordinary religions, had
belief systems, that were considered as ultimate, were not accepted to
be questioned, and became again a kind of opium. In some aspects even
the more advanced approaches seemed to create the very opposite to
what they were advocating.

Concerning mythic fundamental level of development, and lower, I feel
I have started to understand, what might cause this pathology. People
who have not gone through a true individualization process, are not
really capable of being in dialogue with others. True others on their
own right don’t actually exist in that reality. The same is true
internally. These people cannot be in a true dialogue with themselves.
It is all about controlling, trying to control others, and also
themselves.

People who have evolved further know pretty well how inefficient a
tool control is in truly working through one’s shadows. If you want to
feel good about yourself and see good results with controlling,
hypocrisy, and focusing on the sin’s of others becomes a lucrative
solution.

Religions can have also incorporated in themselves, when looked at
from a modern perspective, truly pathological values and beliefs, the
most notable of these being the position of women. As I see it, the
relationships at home are reflected directly in the functioning of
societies. 

Christianity has in its old doctrines had a best respect for human
rights that also includes women. And there has been also a respect for
truthful intellectual inquiry. On the other hand in Islam world the
poor position of women has kept the whole area slowly evolving or even
regressing. 

Religion and spirituality have the important function of a helping us
to connect to our depth, or the collective depth and creating values
to follow. But this area has also severe defects and pitfalls. The
most severe of them is the intense fight against opening their own box
of worms of ultimate truths to inquiry.

Irmeli




[FairfieldLife] Re: Letter to NPR re Commentary on Maharishi's Death

2008-02-10 Thread Irmeli Mattsson
I have been surprised how much MMY's death has been in the newspapers
here in Finland.
The news was in the big nationwide Helsingin Sanomat in the net
already 1 am on Wednesday 06. Feb. The next day I saw the news in two
other newspapers I follow regularly. All of them were matter of fact,
although focusing mainly on his relationship with the Beatles.

Today in the local newspaper there was a beautiful picture from the
funeral at Vlodrop.

Irmeli


--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Rick Archer [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 From Jim Greenfield:
 
  
 
 I just sent the following email to NPR re: their comments today.  
 
  
 
 Re: Scott Simon's commentary on death of Maharishi Mahesh Yogi.  
 
  
 
 NPR took the easy way with shallow remarks about Maharishi,
characteristic
 of the American press's coverage of just about everything.  If you'd
done
 ten minutes of research you might have found information more
appropriate to
 cover the passing of a great spiritual leader.  You might have
mentioned the
 universities Maharishi founded on two continents, or the fascinating
 seminars he held with the world's leading intellectuals, including
 innumerable Nobel laureates in physics, chemistry, biology, etc.
involving
 profound discussions on the nature of the universe from perspectives
ranging
 from astrophysics to Vedic philosophy.  Or you might have mentioned his
 scholarship and books, or the millions of people who benefited from the
 healing, restorative effects of Maharishi's Transcendental
Meditation, as
 documented by hundreds of scientific studies at major medical schools,
 universities, and research institutes throughout the world.  But
instead you
 went with snide comments about how much enlightenment you can buy
with $300
 million, and with the Beatles' rumors about sexual impropriety even
though
 you yourself mentioned that Paul McCartney and George Harrison later
 repudiated the shameful story.  This is not the first time in history a
 great spiritual leader has been derided at the time of death.  There
was a
 Rabbi in Israel who was once mocked with a crown of thorns.  Is that the
 precedent you wish to follow, Scott?  Not much of an obituary.  
 
  
 
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[FairfieldLife] Re: Maharishi drops the body

2008-02-06 Thread Irmeli Mattsson
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Vaj [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 
 On Feb 5, 2008, at 4:32 PM, Angela Mailander wrote:
 
  A man like that always picks a significant moment to die-- 
  significant to those, that is, who are left behind.  You can see  
  this in the death of parents and grandparents also.  The  
  significance of the moment is not always immediately apparent, but  
  it is there.
 
 
 Pretty cool synchronicity that Across the Universe was being sent  
 out across the cosmos at the same time his consciousness left! Great  
 music for the journey! Turn it up!


This is interesting. A baby son, their first born, was born to my
older son and his wife yesterday Feb 5, 2008 in the afternoon Finnish
time.

Irmeli



[FairfieldLife] Re: Maharishi drops the body

2008-02-06 Thread Irmeli Mattsson
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, shempmcgurk [EMAIL PROTECTED]
wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Irmeli Mattsson 
 Irmeli.Mattsson@ wrote:
 
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Vaj vajranatha@ wrote:
  
   
   On Feb 5, 2008, at 4:32 PM, Angela Mailander wrote:
   
A man like that always picks a significant moment to die-- 
significant to those, that is, who are left behind.  You can 
 see  
this in the death of parents and grandparents also.  The  
significance of the moment is not always immediately apparent, 
 but  
it is there.
   
   
   Pretty cool synchronicity that Across the Universe was being 
 sent  
   out across the cosmos at the same time his consciousness left! 
 Great  
   music for the journey! Turn it up!
  
  
  This is interesting. A baby son, their first born, was born to my
  older son and his wife yesterday Feb 5, 2008 in the afternoon 
 Finnish
  time.
  
  Irmeli
 
 
 
 Was a north star, a manger, and some frankincense involved?


Not those, but it was a special day in Finland, as two feasts
coincided. This happens only once in 100 years. And the flags were up
everywhere.

Irmeli



[FairfieldLife] Re: I Hate 55%off FFL Posts by Three Posters. Give them time-outs?

2006-09-22 Thread Irmeli Mattsson
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, new.morning [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:


   
   Anyone else sick of thus choking of FFL? If so, open your window and
   shout I'm not going to take in any longer. Or simple post it.
 


I visit FFL only occasionally, and select my reading according to the
titles and also by the poster. I appreciate many of the inputs of the
frequent posters. If their postings style annoys me I skip reading
them. This is  the case in the ever lasting snapping between Judy and
Barry. 
 On the other hand the big number of posts makes it laborious to find
those posts that would interest me.
Apparently I cannot use the new system of  following the  threads 
effectively. For example for this thread I didn't easily find  the
starting post I'm now responding to.

Irmeli







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[FairfieldLife] Re: The Pope's speech on Faith and reason

2006-09-18 Thread Irmeli Mattsson
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, jim_flanegin [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Irmeli Mattsson 
 Irmeli.Mattsson@ wrote:
 
  I just cannot see the speech as offensive. The quotation becomes
  offensive only,  when it is taken out of the context of the whole 
 speech.
  The pope is quoting a Christian Byzantine Emperor, who is trying to
  challenge an educated Persian by his claims and questions. 
  I have very difficult to imagine that the Christians would feel 
 deeply
  hurt and offended had the claim been made by a muslim about
  Christianity. 
 
 It really depends who holds global power. Muslims feel under attack 
 nowadays by Christians, so there is a strong tendency by Muslims to 
 feel every slight, real or imagined, because it is the Christians 
 who are in power. Those who would view this situation logically or 
 dispassionately miss this point. 
 
 There is a popular talk show host on TV in the USA, Dr. Phil McGraw, 
 (Dr. Phil) who speaks about 'psychological sunburn'- a phenomenon 
 whereby a person or group feel so upset about the practices of 
 another, that even expressions that are not offensive, but that 
 remind the upset group of abuse, are only dealt with by outbursts of 
 violence and anger.
 
 The situation isn't helped any by those in the West who then point 
 to this logically misplaced anger and declare the angry group as 
 extremists and madmen.


The pope was not pointing to a logically misplaced anger through
choosing the quotatation, but wanting to open a discussion about the
basic beliefs and structures between Islam and Christianity that
differ in some essential features. It was an invitation to a dialogue.
The muslims responded to it by misplaced anger and violence. Is the
pope to be considered responsible for the reactions of the Muslims?
Do we have to accept any kind of behavior from the Muslims just
because we want to condescend them to mere poor incompetent victims
with little capacity to more advanced moral reasoning than the
principles of shame and revenge.

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[FairfieldLife] Re: Intellect

2006-09-18 Thread Irmeli Mattsson
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Michael Dean Goodman
[EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 
  So, where does mind stop and intellect start? Any hard criteria?
 
 The mechanics of perception and discrimination that our intellect
 would LIKE us to believe in goes like this: sensory input comes in
 from the objective world, is registered by the mind and turned into
 thoughts, and the intellect objectively evaluates that input, dis-
 criminates, and makes intelligent decisions.
 
 But the mechanics of perception and discrimination that Maharishi laid
 out goes like this: first, we have a belief on the level of the heart,
 the faint feeling level, deeper than the intellect.  That means that the
 heart has a feeling - an attraction or repulsion - then the whole
rest of
 the individuality (the intellect, and its servants, the mind and senses)
 go out and FIND evidence to support, to validate, that belief.  They ig-
 nore evidence that doesn't support that belief - that evidence, that
sen-
 sory experience, that knowledge, that interpretation does not register.
 
 So it turns out that we're not objective at all.  The intellect has been
 lying, and puffing up its own importance, by pretending to be objective
 and in charge, when really it's just a lackey for the heart.

Irmeli:
Intellect is not lying, we lie if we use it to cover up something.
Intellect just IS as you point out in the end of your writing.
However there are huge differences in our capacity to use the intellect.
It is very helpful to be all the time aware that the intellect does
not reveal to me the absolute truth, but is always coloured by my deep
and often subconscious beliefs.


 
 When we have a deep personal belief, then even the strongest intellect
 will ignore logic and even ingore direct experience that invalidates
 that belief, and will use all of its skill to argue for the validity of
 that belief, and to find evidence to support that belief.

Irmeli: 
There are huge differences in which degree different individuals 
ignore logic or misuse it. Some people apply wrong logic much more
readily than others. Some even claim that their wrong use of logic is
their deeper intuition and therefore represents a deeper truth. People
with strong intellect don't easily ignore logic in that way, but also
their use of logic and intellect is coloured  by their deep beliefs.











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[FairfieldLife] Re: The Pope's speech on Faith and reason

2006-09-17 Thread Irmeli Mattsson
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, jim_flanegin [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 The current conflict continues as long as the West thinks that by 
 killing enough of the third world people, we can force the rest into 
 submission and servitude. It isn't working, nor will it. 
 


Is this really how the majority of people and the politicians in the
USA think?
Certainly not in Europe and by no means in Finland. Here I feel we are
too understanding of everything people in the Muslim world do and we
don't dare to criticize their values and moral thinking. They are seen
as just the poor victims.

I don't think they are in the first place victims. I think they are a
culture and religion in deep crisis.  Something developmental arrest
there must be, when big parts of people live in deep poverty in spite
of the huge oil riches, and their attitudes and values are on the
level people in Europe had in medieval times.
I think in 2001 the gross national product of the whole Arab world,
when the oil incomes where reduced, was as big as  that of Finland's.
Finland has 5 million inhabitants. I find that very telltale. 

In my opinion the pope addresses this issue in the speech relatively
tactfully by a quotation of the issue that he sees to be at the core
of the problem. 
Interesting is also his main theme of the speech that Chistianity has
helped in the development of reasonable communication, and moral
reasoning among the people in Europe.
He also says that he appreciates highly science and its achievements.
He is only critical about the narrow use of reason and intellect in
scientific thinking.
Which I think almost all spiritually inclined people can agree about.

His courageous quotation was good also in that sense that it made me
and many others read his speech, that I found to be fine. I have never
before read a speech by a pope, and got very positively surprised. I'm
not a Christian.

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[FairfieldLife] Re: The Pope's speech on Faith and reason

2006-09-17 Thread Irmeli Mattsson
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Sal Sunshine [EMAIL PROTECTED]
wrote:

 On Sep 17, 2006, at 2:31 AM, Irmeli Mattsson wrote:
 
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, jim_flanegin jflanegi@ 
  wrote:
 
  The current conflict continues as long as the West thinks that by
  killing enough of the third world people, we can force the rest into
  submission and servitude. It isn't working, nor will it.
 
 
 
  Is this really how the majority of people and the politicians in the
  USA think?
 
 OF course not.  What do you think?  A few lunatics on the right do, and 
 unfortunately they've cheated and bullied their way into power.  It 
 won't last, it never does.
 
  Certainly not in Europe and by no means in Finland. Here I feel we are
  too understanding of everything people in the Muslim world do and we
  don't dare to criticize their values and moral thinking. They are seen
  as just the poor victims.
 
 Not a particularly healthy attitude.
 
  I don't think they are in the first place victims. I think they are a
  culture and religion in deep crisis.  Something developmental arrest
  there must be, when big parts of people live in deep poverty in spite
  of the huge oil riches, and their attitudes and values are on the
  level people in Europe had in medieval times.
 
 Yes, it's pathetic and a huge waste of resources, both material and 
 intellectual.
 
  I think in 2001 the gross national product of the whole Arab world,
  when the oil incomes where reduced, was as big as  that of Finland's.
  Finland has 5 million inhabitants. I find that very telltale.
 
  In my opinion the pope addresses this issue in the speech relatively
  tactfully by a quotation of the issue that he sees to be at the core
  of the problem.
  Interesting is also his main theme of the speech that Chistianity has
  helped in the development of reasonable communication, and moral
  reasoning among the people in Europe.
  He also says that he appreciates highly science and its achievements.
  He is only critical about the narrow use of reason and intellect in
  scientific thinking.
  Which I think almost all spiritually inclined people can agree about.
 
  His courageous quotation was good also in that sense that it made me
  and many others read his speech, that I found to be fine. I have never
  before read a speech by a pope, and got very positively surprised. I'm
  not a Christian.
 
 Now I'm interested in reading it too.  Know where I can find it?

Here:http://www.vatican.va/holy_father/benedict_xvi/speeches/2006/september/documents/hf_ben-xvi_spe_20060912_university-regensburg_en.html
 
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[FairfieldLife] Re: The Pope's speech on Faith and reason

2006-09-17 Thread Irmeli Mattsson
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Irmeli Mattsson 
 Irmeli.Mattsson@ wrote:
 snip
  In my opinion the pope addresses this issue in the speech relatively
  tactfully by a quotation of the issue that he sees to be at the core
  of the problem.
 
 Just so we know what we're talking about here,
 this is the quotation that has angered Muslims
 (from an AP report on Yahoo! News):
 
 In his speech on Tuesday, Benedict quoted from a book recounting a 
 conversation between 14th century Byzantine Christian Emperor Manuel 
 Paleologos II and an educated Persian on the truths of Christianity 
 and Islam.
 
 'The emperor comes to speak about the issue of jihad, holy war,' the 
 pope said. 'He said, I quote, Show me just what Muhammad brought 
 that was new, and there you will find things only evil and inhuman, 
 such as his command to spread by the sword the faith he preached.'
 
 Whatever the truth of the last part of the sentence
 (and it's not quite the slam-dunk some seem to think),
 it's the first part that is so offensive to Muslims:
 the only new things Muhammad brought were evil and
 inhuman.  It's not hard to grasp why that has aroused
 such fury.  Imagine the wrath of Christians if a non-
 Christian were to say the only new things Jesus brought
 were evil and inhuman, citing, say, Jesus' instruction
 to hate one's father and mother!
 
 The big problem was that the pope *did not repudiate*
 the offensive part of the quote.  He could have made
 his point about violent jihad just as well if he'd
 said to start with that he didn't condone the first
 part.
 
 It's too bad that slip (among others, but that was the
 worst) was so inflammatory that it was hard to hear
 the rest of what he said dispassionately.
 
 And he *still* hasn't apologized for it.  All he's
 said is that he was sorry Muslims were offended by
 it.


I just cannot see the speech as offensive. The quotation becomes
offensive only,  when it is taken out of the context of the whole speech.
The pope is quoting a Christian Byzantine Emperor, who is trying to
challenge an educated Persian by his claims and questions. 
I have very difficult to imagine that the Christians would feel deeply
hurt and offended had the claim been made by a muslim about
Christianity. Instead the Christians would have tried to defend their
own view by answering to questions of the emperor and trying to refute
his claims.

We have also to remember what kind of audience this speech was given
to. The pope is a former professor of theology, and he was invited to
speak at the University of Regensburg.
It is a scholarly speach for other scholars. Why do the muslims feel
the need to control even what can be expressed in the academia of a
western country?

Irmeli






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[FairfieldLife] Re: The Pope's speech on Faith and reason

2006-09-17 Thread Irmeli Mattsson
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Irmeli Mattsson 
 Irmeli.Mattsson@ wrote:
 
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend jstein@ wrote:
 snip
   Imagine the wrath of Christians if a non-
   Christian were to say the only new things Jesus brought
   were evil and inhuman, citing, say, Jesus' instruction
   to hate one's father and mother!
   
   The big problem was that the pope *did not repudiate*
   the offensive part of the quote.  He could have made
   his point about violent jihad just as well if he'd
   said to start with that he didn't condone the first
   part.
   
   It's too bad that slip (among others, but that was the
   worst) was so inflammatory that it was hard to hear
   the rest of what he said dispassionately.
   
   And he *still* hasn't apologized for it.  All he's
   said is that he was sorry Muslims were offended by
   it.
  
  I just cannot see the speech as offensive. The quotation becomes
  offensive only,  when it is taken out of the context of the whole
  speech. The pope is quoting a Christian Byzantine Emperor, who is 
  trying to challenge an educated Persian by his claims and 
  questions. I have very difficult to imagine that the Christians 
  would feel deeply hurt and offended had the claim been made by a 
  muslim about Christianity. Instead the Christians would have tried 
  to defend their own view by answering to questions of the emperor 
  and trying to refute his claims.
 
 Some might; others would be outraged.  And bear in
 mind that there's no one in Islam equivalent to the
 pope, with his power and influence and international
 status as a religious leader.
 
  We have also to remember what kind of audience this speech was given
  to. The pope is a former professor of theology, and he was invited 
  to speak at the University of Regensburg. It is a scholarly speach 
  for other scholars. Why do the muslims feel the need to control 
  even what can be expressed in the academia of a western country?
 
 With his prominence as a public figure, the pope
 can't just give a scholarly speech for other
 scholars and expect it to stay within that context.
 Whatever he says is going to be widely reported and
 taken to be the official view of the Roman Catholic
 Church.
 
 Whether the quote was taken out of context or not, he
 should have known better than to use it without
 explicitly saying it didn't reflect his own views.
 That he did not do so makes him, at the very least,
 insensitive.
 
 That's just Public Relations 101.


I think he made a courageous and respectful gesture by a little bit
challenging the Muslims and inviting them to a deep and serious
discussion.

I feel rather frustrated about the attitude of the press here in
Finland. The Muslims are here seen as the poor oppressed victims of
the west. Their actions are not criticized. However I suspect that the
deeper motivator of this kind of behaviour is a fear of the
consequences of possible revenge in the form of terrorism. As long as
the Muslims can control our behaviour and thinking by the threat of
terrorism they will increasingly use that weapon.

The pope ends his speech by a sincere invitation to dialogue:  Not to
act reasonably, not to act with logos, is contrary to the nature of
God, said Manuel II , according to his Christian understanding of
God, in response to the Persian interlocutor. It is to this great 
logos, to this breadth of reason, that we invite our partners in the
dialogue of cultures.

It was an invitation to a deep dialogue by expressing some challenging
questions about Islam. I think we need more this kind of approach
instead of warfare, or trying to close our eyes and pretend that there
are no problems ,or to see all the problems being caused by the west
as the press does in Finland. 

Actually by seeing only the West as a responsible part in this
conflict Muslim hides an extremely condescending attitude towards the
Muslims, as if they were totally lacking the capacity to responsible,
reasonable actions on their own, lowering them in a way to the same
level with animals.

Irmeli






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[FairfieldLife] The Pope's speech on Faith and reason

2006-09-15 Thread Irmeli Mattsson
The Pope's recent speech the Muslims feel so agitated about is really
very good. It is about the old historical connection Christianity in
its essence has to reason due to strong Hellenistic influences from
the times of the inception of Christianity. He also mentions that this
adherence to reason has not always been a lived reality in
Christianity especially during the Middle Ages. He states that Europe
has got moulded to what it is nowadays under a strong influence of a
Christian religion that sees God revealing himself as logos. In the
beginning was the logos, and the logos is God, declares Evangelist John.
In Islam the understanding the idea of likeness between our reason and
that of God's is missing. There God's transcendence and otherness are
so exalted that our reason, our sense of true and good are not an
authentic mirror of God.

The link:
http://www.vatican.va/holy_father/benedict_xvi/speeches/2006/september/documents/hf_ben-xvi_spe_20060912_university-regensburg_en.html


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[FairfieldLife] Re: Question on suitability of experiences

2006-08-23 Thread Irmeli Mattsson
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, nablus108 [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Irmeli Mattsson 
 Irmeli.Mattsson@ wrote:
 
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, sparaig sparaig@ wrote:
  

   
   
   From the idea that enlightened states of consciousness are STATES 
 OF
  CONSCIOUSNESS, 
   complete with physiological styles of functioning.
  
  
  I'm curious, is there any observation of people losing their
  enlightened  brainwave pattern, when  they get old and senile, and
  hence also having lost their TMO style enlightenment. People's
  brainfuctioning generally deteriorate, when they get old. MMY's
  behavior has for some time shown clear signs of his deteroriating
  brainfunctioning (which is of course natural considering his
  respectably high age).
  
  Irmeli
 
 And from where have you cooked up this rubbish ?



Could you explain to me in which way my questions are rubbish? What I
see around me is that people's brainfuctioning deteriorates generally
deteriorates when they get older. I think it is also a scientifically
proven fact. 

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[FairfieldLife] Re: Question on suitability of experiences

2006-08-23 Thread Irmeli Mattsson
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, sparaig [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Irmeli Mattsson
Irmeli.Mattsson@ wrote:
 
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, sparaig sparaig@ wrote:
  

   From the idea that enlightened states of consciousness are STATES OF
  CONSCIOUSNESS, 
   complete with physiological styles of functioning.
  
  
  I'm curious, is there any observation of people losing their
  enlightened  brainwave pattern, when  they get old and senile, and
  hence also having lost their TMO style enlightenment. People's
  brainfuctioning generally deteriorate, when they get old. MMY's
  behavior has for some time shown clear signs of his deteroriating
  brainfunctioning (which is of course natural considering his
  respectably high age).
  
  Irmeli
 
 
 Actually, brain-functioning doesn't deteriorate all that much just
because you get old, and 
 MMY doesn't show any signs of a stroke that I can see. Would you ask
if people lose the 
 ability to sleep or dream just because they got old?


People don't lose their ability to dream, but many other functions
deteriorate with aging. People get more sleep disturbances, they have
more difficult to keep their balance, when moving. Balance keeping is
a demanding function of coordination in the  brain. Mental problems
increase with aging often in the form of irrational fears and mild
paranoia. If you asked a pathologist, he would definitely claim that
there is clear age related deterioration happening in the brain, even
if there may appear new structures also.
I see a certain kind of deterioration in myself even if I'm only 55. I
tend to forget names more easily  now. I also have to put my
appointments and many tasks on calendar to be sure to remember them on
time. When younger I remembered all my appointments easily without any
calendar. But I can see improvement also in some other areas.

MMY's very weird behaviour and his many irrational claims and
stumbling in his speaking I have considered to be a result from weaker
brain functioning that is very common in people of his age. I don't
claim his behaviour to be a result of a massive stroke.

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[FairfieldLife] Re: Question on suitability of experiences

2006-08-23 Thread Irmeli Mattsson
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, sparaig [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Irmeli Mattsson
Irmeli.Mattsson@ wrote:
 
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, sparaig sparaig@ wrote:
  
   --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Irmeli Mattsson
  Irmeli.Mattsson@ wrote:
   
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, sparaig sparaig@ wrote:

  
 From the idea that enlightened states of consciousness are
STATES OF
CONSCIOUSNESS, 
 complete with physiological styles of functioning.


I'm curious, is there any observation of people losing their
enlightened  brainwave pattern, when  they get old and senile, and
hence also having lost their TMO style enlightenment. People's
brainfuctioning generally deteriorate, when they get old. MMY's
behavior has for some time shown clear signs of his deteroriating
brainfunctioning (which is of course natural considering his
respectably high age).

Irmeli
   
   
   Actually, brain-functioning doesn't deteriorate all that much just
  because you get old, and 
   MMY doesn't show any signs of a stroke that I can see. Would you ask
  if people lose the 
   ability to sleep or dream just because they got old?
  
  
  People don't lose their ability to dream, but many other functions
  deteriorate with aging. People get more sleep disturbances, they have
  more difficult to keep their balance, when moving. Balance keeping is
  a demanding function of coordination in the  brain. Mental problems
  increase with aging often in the form of irrational fears and mild
  paranoia. If you asked a pathologist, he would definitely claim that
  there is clear age related deterioration happening in the brain, even
  if there may appear new structures also.
  I see a certain kind of deterioration in myself even if I'm only 55. I
  tend to forget names more easily  now. I also have to put my
  appointments and many tasks on calendar to be sure to remember them on
  time. When younger I remembered all my appointments easily without any
  calendar. But I can see improvement also in some other areas.
  
  MMY's very weird behaviour and his many irrational claims and
  stumbling in his speaking I have considered to be a result from weaker
  brain functioning that is very common in people of his age. I don't
  claim his behaviour to be a result of a massive stroke.
 
 Without a massive stroke, I see no reason to assume he's become
unenlightened due to 
 age, and I'm not sure that even that would do it. States of
consciousness (and I suspect 
 that at least CC and certainly TC, qualify as unqiue states of
consciousness) are pretty 
 hard to get rid of.
 
 89 year old (90?) enlightened sages may be a little forgetful and
irritable, but they're still 
 enlightened sages, I think.


I agree, but do their brainwave scans still qualify for the TMO
style enlightenment? Has any research been made on this issue?

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[FairfieldLife] Re: Question on suitability of experiences

2006-08-22 Thread Irmeli Mattsson
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, sparaig [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Alex Stanley
j_alexander_stanley@ wrote:
 
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Rick Archer groups@ wrote:
  
   on 8/21/06 3:11 PM, sparaig at sparaig@ wrote:
   
 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com
mailto:FairfieldLife%40yahoogroups.com
 , curtisdeltablues curtisdeltablues@ wrote:
 
 My prediction is that anyone who gets on the enlightened
  list will
 be banned from future courses.  MMY's organization is not
  built for
 people who claim to have reached the goal. The only one
  beard in the
 room rule still applies.  Am I wrong?
 
 
 That's why Fred Travis has been able to publish physiological
  studies on
 people who reported
 witnessing 24/7 for years on end: they're afraid to step
forward...

   Fred was very condescending and dismissive of an Awake friend
   of mine whose brain waves didn¹t happen to match Fred¹s
   expectations.
  
  Where did TMO folks get the idea that being awake/enlightened is a
  measurable, dualistic phenomenon?
 
 
 
 From the idea that enlightened states of consciousness are STATES OF
CONSCIOUSNESS, 
 complete with physiological styles of functioning.


I'm curious, is there any observation of people losing their
enlightened  brainwave pattern, when  they get old and senile, and
hence also having lost their TMO style enlightenment. People's
brainfuctioning generally deteriorate, when they get old. MMY's
behavior has for some time shown clear signs of his deteroriating
brainfunctioning (which is of course natural considering his
respectably high age).

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[FairfieldLife] Re: Maharishi's name//now - The threat of Bliss

2006-07-04 Thread Irmeli Mattsson
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, sparaig [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Irmeli Mattsson
Irmeli.Mattsson@ wrote:
 
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, off_world_beings no_reply@
  wrote:
  
   Well, I may not be enlightened, but due to Maharishi's techniques I 
   have had experiences of the universe that I could not possibly have 
   through any other way that I know of(except maybe brain damaging 
   drugs). And, my direct experience, entirely as a result of his 
   techniques, is that the world we play in is like flotsam
floating on 
   a vast ocean of very intensified bliss energy. It is so powerful, 
   and it is just below the surface of things, and it threatens to 
   burst into, and overflow our universe at any time. Such an event 
   would be so powerful that everyone would be transformed in a matter 
   of minutes. It would be like the magma under the surface of the 
   Earth, bursting out and flowing all over the surface...only it
would 
   not be fire, but bliss. I believe this cataclysm is only years, 
   maybe a few decades away, at most. This is not what I learned
from 
   Maharishi, but my direct and very common experience. It is
physical, 
   spiritual, and real. 
   
   OffWorld
  
  
  You experience a lot of bliss and ascribe it to be possible only
  through the techniques that MMY has brought out, mainly because those
  techniques are the only ones you have seriously dedicated yourself to
  practise.
  I too experience a lot of bliss in a similar way that you describe,
  but I don't ascribe it solely due to the basic very simple TM
  technique that is the only technique I have learned through the TMO
  and only practised for half a year, as it was taught. Most people who
  have learned this simple technique have benefited very little from it.
 
 
 And you go so far as to violate a solemn promise you made just so
you can teach 
 something that people can benefit very  little from?
 
 BTW, how do you know that people have benefited very little from it?
 

When MMY came to the west, he didn't know that most people don't
benefit from it ? 
95% of those people, whom I persuaded to start TM, didn't experience
anything they considered special and important for themselves and
dropped the technique very soon.

 
 
  So it cannot be just the technique. For some reason you give MMY
  credit for something much bigger in which bringing out some simple
  techniques plays just a minor role. Why?
 
 Why do you say that this is so anyway?
 

Cannot you understand what I have written?

 
  
  But MMY's role for the values you have adopted is much bigger through
  the belief system you have adopted from him. That is: all we need is
  enough bliss to transform and enlighten the whole world.  The TMO has
  been trying to force it to happen. Trying to force one's belief system
  to become reality is called fundamentalism. But it won't become
  reality, because reality doesn't obey you. In there being more bliss
  now many different sources have been playing an important role. The
  TMO is just one of them. According to my understanding an enlightened
  person could give appreciation to them all.
  
  Bliss solving all the problems is a belief of your's and MMY's, not
  the reality. And trying to force more bliss to appear has got the TMO
  to resort to the principle `end justify means'. This principle usually
  goes together with forcing and manipulation, and often causes more
  harm than good.
  Bliss is not all that is needed to transform the world. It is one
  ingredient, but not sufficient alone.
 
 
 Sure it is. Bliss is based on the functioning of the nervous system.
Change the nervous 
 system in the right way and you transform a person. Transform enough
people and you 
 transform the world, whether or not the Maharishi Effect works or not.
 

Sure. But by concentrating to create bliss and being oblivious to
other important factors in the functioning of human nervous system,
doesn't make this kind of transformation to appear.

 
 Seeing it being all that is
  needed is MMY's biggest fallacy. It has justified him dishonest
  behaviour, because for him how his mind operates doesn't matter, only
  bliss matters. His thinking has probably gone in the following routes:
  Because I'm bringing to the world this absolute bliss, I'm beyond the
  karmic consequences of my gross level behaviour. It is allowed for me
  just to make a powerful impression and manipulate people following me.
  When the bliss transforms the world, I too will be automatically
  purified.What I now do behind the curtains doesn't really matter. 
  Maybe not on the big cosmic scale. He is too small a speck there. But
  for his personal evolution it certainly does, and karma he cannot
  escape.Accepting one's defects and being open with them is in itself
  transformative. Pretending to be something one is not, even if it
  happens in the name of a higher good, is degenerative. This is easy

[FairfieldLife] Re: Maharishi's name//now - The threat of Bliss

2006-07-04 Thread Irmeli Mattsson
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, sparaig [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Irmeli Mattsson
Irmeli.Mattsson@ wrote:

  When I read your responses, I get now, as I have got earlier too the
  impression, that you work very hard internally, to not to understand
  and to distort, what people, who don't agree with your thinking,
  write. Apparently you do this with good conscience, because in your
  world it is only bliss that matters.
  Are you happy with the results this internal methodology has created
  in your life? Are you happy? Or maybe it doesn't matter for you. Just
  simple bliss matters. Not being happy can be solved eating Prozac? 
  
  
 
 For me, Prozac helps counter the effects of the 3-year allergy
attack I suffered a few years 
 ago. And ALL of my doctors, counselors and whatnot agree that TM is
essential to my 
 health and well-being.

 
I agree with you here. And I apologize. I was rude in my comment here.

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[FairfieldLife] Re: Maharishi's name//now - The threat of Bliss

2006-07-03 Thread Irmeli Mattsson
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, off_world_beings [EMAIL PROTECTED]
wrote:

 Well, I may not be enlightened, but due to Maharishi's techniques I 
 have had experiences of the universe that I could not possibly have 
 through any other way that I know of(except maybe brain damaging 
 drugs). And, my direct experience, entirely as a result of his 
 techniques, is that the world we play in is like flotsam floating on 
 a vast ocean of very intensified bliss energy. It is so powerful, 
 and it is just below the surface of things, and it threatens to 
 burst into, and overflow our universe at any time. Such an event 
 would be so powerful that everyone would be transformed in a matter 
 of minutes. It would be like the magma under the surface of the 
 Earth, bursting out and flowing all over the surface...only it would 
 not be fire, but bliss. I believe this cataclysm is only years, 
 maybe a few decades away, at most. This is not what I learned from 
 Maharishi, but my direct and very common experience. It is physical, 
 spiritual, and real. 
 
 OffWorld


You experience a lot of bliss and ascribe it to be possible only
through the techniques that MMY has brought out, mainly because those
techniques are the only ones you have seriously dedicated yourself to
practise.
I too experience a lot of bliss in a similar way that you describe,
but I don't ascribe it solely due to the basic very simple TM
technique that is the only technique I have learned through the TMO
and only practised for half a year, as it was taught. Most people who
have learned this simple technique have benefited very little from it.
So it cannot be just the technique. For some reason you give MMY
credit for something much bigger in which bringing out some simple
techniques plays just a minor role. Why?

But MMY's role for the values you have adopted is much bigger through
the belief system you have adopted from him. That is: all we need is
enough bliss to transform and enlighten the whole world.  The TMO has
been trying to force it to happen. Trying to force one's belief system
to become reality is called fundamentalism. But it won't become
reality, because reality doesn't obey you. In there being more bliss
now many different sources have been playing an important role. The
TMO is just one of them. According to my understanding an enlightened
person could give appreciation to them all.

Bliss solving all the problems is a belief of your's and MMY's, not
the reality. And trying to force more bliss to appear has got the TMO
to resort to the principle `end justify means'. This principle usually
goes together with forcing and manipulation, and often causes more
harm than good.
Bliss is not all that is needed to transform the world. It is one
ingredient, but not sufficient alone. Seeing it being all that is
needed is MMY's biggest fallacy. It has justified him dishonest
behaviour, because for him how his mind operates doesn't matter, only
bliss matters. His thinking has probably gone in the following routes:
Because I'm bringing to the world this absolute bliss, I'm beyond the
karmic consequences of my gross level behaviour. It is allowed for me
just to make a powerful impression and manipulate people following me.
When the bliss transforms the world, I too will be automatically
purified.What I now do behind the curtains doesn't really matter. 
Maybe not on the big cosmic scale. He is too small a speck there. But
for his personal evolution it certainly does, and karma he cannot
escape.Accepting one's defects and being open with them is in itself
transformative. Pretending to be something one is not, even if it
happens in the name of a higher good, is degenerative. This is easy
to see to be true also for MMY.
He has been a messenger boy and brought something important to the
west, as have many other teachers. And many people have benefited from
his teachings in spite of its weaknesses.

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[FairfieldLife] Re: Caste system

2006-03-22 Thread Irmeli Mattsson
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Irmeli Mattsson 
 Irmeli.Mattsson@ wrote:
 
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend jstein@ wrote:
 snip
   Again, I'd suggest that what you're calling hair-
   splitting is in fact analysis of the facts, premises,
   assumptions, and logic of a particular conclusion.  If
   these are not sound, the conclusion itself has no merit.
   
   It appears that you prefer to deal only with the
   conclusions without worrying about whether what
   the conclusions are based on has any validity.
  
  
  
  I didn't answer your first post because I partly did answer your
  questions in my respond to your other post.
 
 You responded to all my posts *except* the most recent
 one (the one right before the P.S. post).
 
  I have limited time available to write here. Sorry!
 
 Uh-huh.  So you chose to spend your limited time
 responding to my P.S. post at length instead of
 to the substantive one.
 
  To your questions in this post I have no time or interest to 
  answer. I don't understand your reasoning or as I understand them I 
  see you resorting to very crooked thinking. Of course it possible 
  that I'm too stupid to understand the subtle purity and ethic of 
  your reasoning. So I let it be with you.
 
 One more time: You might want to ask yourself why you
 feel the need to attack me personally when my previous
 posts were entirely polite and made no personal remarks
 about you.
 
 Could it be because you have the sense that a challenge
 to your views, no matter how rational, is equivalent to
 a personal attack?



I have observed that you have not much criticized my posts. Why not,
if you don't like them ?
I have only occasionally read your posts and felt them to be quite
weary, because of your style of diverting attention away by picking up
some minor unessential details.
When I observed you did the same to me in a quite gross and
transparent way, by taking one sentence from MMY's talk, that only
vaguely possibly was not in line with the overall theme of the talk
and you started bombarding me with it, quoting only that sentence and
starting to claim that I misinterpreted MMY. This is no challenge to
my views. I just feel angry, when people use these kinds of tricks in
communication. Maybe I don't get angry, when a person does this just
once, but when she does it repeatedly, I do. And my reasoning does not
go like, if you don't criticize me, I don't criticize you. 
My criticism is more based on issues, styles of communication etc.
Although I may not criticize somebody's writing because, I judge that
person to be a hopeless case, meaning she cannot benefit from the
criticism.
And I don't understand criticism to be a harmful attack. If you see a
person to behave in less constructive ways, and out of indifference
don't tell her about it, I consider that to be harmful behaviour.
And I would appreciate it, if you could really challenge my views. I
understand, that I have my blind spots, and I can only start to
perceive them by the help of others.
And I'm sorry that I cannot discuss with you more, because I'm just
now very busy with my work. At the weekend I'm leaving for two weeks
holiday abroad. Before it I have to finish many tasks and also find
time to pack etc.

Irmeli





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[FairfieldLife] Re: Caste system

2006-03-22 Thread Irmeli Mattsson
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Irmeli Mattsson 
 Irmeli.Mattsson@ wrote:
 
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend jstein@ wrote:
 snip
   One more time: You might want to ask yourself why you
   feel the need to attack me personally when my previous
   posts were entirely polite and made no personal remarks
   about you.
   
   Could it be because you have the sense that a challenge
   to your views, no matter how rational, is equivalent to
   a personal attack?
  
  
  
  I have observed that you have not much criticized my posts. Why not,
  if you don't like them ?
 
 Where did I say I didn't like your posts??
 
 I usually find your posts pretty interesting.  I
 happened to disagree with you on this one point
 about MMY being senile.  How do you transform
 that into my not liking your posts in general?
 
 If you'll recall, Irmeli, this exchange started
 when I agreed with Jim's comment to you that he
 didn't think MMY was senile.  You responded to
 my post by saying you didn't see how anyone with
 their full mental faculties could take MMY
 seriously but that you supposed it was possible if
 the person saw MMY as their guru.
 
 In other words, your very first response to me was
 a none-too-subtle ad hominem, implying that the only
 reason I said I didn't think he was senile was
 because, as a devotee, I was blind to his faults.
 
 Of course, I'm *not* a devotee, and I see plenty
 of MMY's faults; I just don't happen to think he's
 senile.
 
 But you couldn't deal with my comment by simply
 taking it as another point of view; you had to
 dismiss it as invalid by suggesting I was blind
 to his purported senility because I was a TB.
 
 I ignored this attack and responded by addressing
 your one substantive point, which seemed to be
 that the fact that he says nutty things meant his
 mental capacities were in decline.  I pointed out
 that people who are obviously in full possession
 of their mental capacities can say nutty things
 too; the latter isn't necessarily an indication
 of the former.
 
 You replied by saying that the way he grouped
 things together in his remarks on caste showed
 he was either an uncivilized Hindu fundamentalist
 or mildly retarded.  And you *again* leveled the
 ad hominem at me, saying I'd perceive these
 fallacies if it was someone other than MMY who
 had come up with them.
 
 You really need to review the exchange.  I
 repeatedly addressed your *substantive* points--
 your reasons for thinking MMY is senile--and
 you did attempt to defend those points, but then
 you issued your rant on how I was nitpicking
 and that I must be doing so because I couldn't
 address your conclusion, as if addressing your
 reasons for your conclusion somehow wasn't kosher,
 and that I was only doing that because I didn't
 want to confront that conclusion.
 
 That makes no sense, Irmeli.
 
  I have only occasionally read your posts and felt them to be quite
  weary, because of your style of diverting attention away by picking
  up some minor unessential details.
 
 I was addressing the reasons you were giving for
 your conclusion that MMY was senile, for goodness'
 sake!  Why on earth would you consider them minor
 inessential details and diverting attention away?
 
  When I observed you did the same to me in a quite gross and
  transparent way, by taking one sentence from MMY's talk, that only
  vaguely possibly was not in line with the overall theme of the talk
  and you started bombarding me with it, quoting only that sentence 
  and starting to claim that I misinterpreted MMY.
 
 I did not bombard you with it.  I pointed it out
 once in a different thread some time back.  You didn't
 respond at that time.  Then I mentioned it once in this
 exchange, and again you didn't respond, so I repeated
 it once.
 
 But I mentioned it only as a side point; it was
 really a different discussion than the one about
 whether he's senile or not that went back to things
 he'd said much earlier about caste.
 
 I didn't start to claim that you had misinterpreted
 MMY.  To the contrary, I said you might very well be
 right in your interpretation of that one remark of his.
 I just suggested that there was another possible
 interpretation.
 
  This is no challenge to my views.
 
 Right, it was a different discussion entirely.
 The views I was challenging were your views on
 MMY being senile.
 
  I just feel angry, when people 
  use these kinds of tricks in communication. Maybe I don't get 
  angry, when a person does this just once, but when she does it 
  repeatedly, I do.
 
 No tricks, Irmeli, sorry.  You didn't like being
 challenged on your view that MMY is senile.  If
 there's a trick here, it's *your* trick of trying
 to divert the discussion of MMY's mental faculties
 into one about my purported faults.
 
  And my reasoning does not
  go like, if you don't criticize me, I don't criticize you.
 
 You *attacked* me

[FairfieldLife] Re: Caste system

2006-03-21 Thread Irmeli Mattsson
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Irmeli Mattsson 
 Irmeli.Mattsson@ wrote:
 
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend jstein@ wrote:
  
   --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Irmeli Mattsson 
   Irmeli.Mattsson@ wrote:
   snip
P.S.When I read your posts I have quite often got the 
 impression 
that you excersice hairsplitting to divert attention away from 
 the 
main theme or the main problem the poster is successfully 
presenting. When you cannot disprove the claims of the poster, 
 you 
start hairsplitting with unessential details. This happens 
 possibly 
because you have a preset agenda to defend, not because you 
wouldn't understand. You cannot allow any bigger cracks to your 
   aim, 
just small ones so you can keep people perceiving you with some 
credibility. You do understand, but you are not in a position 
 to be 
able to freely look at phenomenon and investigate ideas and 
 claims 
with an open mind, which could lead to conclusions not fitting 
 to 
your preset goal. 
   
   P.S.: Irmeli, you might want to think about why you
   felt the need to launch an ad hominem attack at me
   when my responses to you contained no ad hominem at
   all.
  
  
  I have not the slightest idea what ad hominem means. I checked my
  dictionary of foreign words and the closest item there was ad
  honorem, but I suppose you don't mean it.
 
 http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ad_hominem
 
 See in particular under the headings Ad Hominem
 Abusive and Ad Hominem Circumstantial.
 
  Why you got the rant was because I felt you were resorting to
  hair-splitting with my post to divert attention away from the
  essentials of my criticism.
 
 Yes, you said that already.  And I responded that I
 thought you were resorting to ad hominem to divert
 attention away from the fact that your criticism
 didn't hold up when its premises were examined.
 
 That you've chosen to reply *only* to my P.S. rather
 than the post in which I continued to address those
 premises suggests that my conjecture was right on
 target.
 
  The sentence you picked up form MMY:s talk
  was not in line with the spirit of the talk for caste system in 
  general.
 
 Yes, you said that already.  And I pointed out that
 I cited that sentence *because* it was not in line
 with your *assumptions* about the spirit of the rest
 of what he had said.  I suggested that this one
 sentence *might* throw a different light on what he
 said.
 
  Did you really read my first comment on the talk? I state my claim 
  in different words, maybe you will better get it.
 
 No, Irmeli, I got it the first time  Perhaps you
 didn't really read my replies, because I directly
 addressed your points.
 
 I'm not going to repeat what I said, since you apparently
 weren't able to respond to my most recent reply in
 our exchange.
 
 snip
  I also criticized you because I have generally got quite weary of 
  your hair-splitting responds to many other posters here. This has 
  lead to the situation that I don't read your posts. You are 
  intelligent and have a lot of deep understanding and insight. 
  Without hair-splitting you could do much better.
 
 Again, I'd suggest that what you're calling hair-
 splitting is in fact analysis of the facts, premises,
 assumptions, and logic of a particular conclusion.  If
 these are not sound, the conclusion itself has no merit.
 
 It appears that you prefer to deal only with the
 conclusions without worrying about whether what
 the conclusions are based on has any validity.



I didn't answer your first post because I partly did answer your
questions in my respond to your other post. I have limited time
available to write here. Sorry!
To your questions in this post I have no time or interest to answer. I
don't understand your reasoning or as I understand them I see you
resorting to very crooked thinking. Of course it possible that I'm too
stupid to understand the subtle purity and ethic of your reasoning. So
I let it be with you. 

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[FairfieldLife] Re: Caste system

2006-03-20 Thread Irmeli Mattsson
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Irmeli Mattsson 
 Irmeli.Mattsson@ wrote:
 
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend jstein@ wrote:
 snip
   Judy:I can think of quite a few people that I don't understand
   how anyone with their full mental faculties could take
   seriously, whom no one accuses of regressing in their 
   mental capacities, let alone becoming senile.  One doesn't
   have to be mentally incompetent to spout nonsense.
   
   *I* don't take a lot of what MMY says seriously, but
   I don't assume that means he's regressed in his mental
   capacities.  Those are really two different issues with
   different symptoms.
  
  Irmeli:As the title of this thread refers to I commented MMY:s
  reasoning around the concept caste.
  If I read that kind of text not knowing whose it is, I would very
  spontaneously think that the person is either an uncivilized Hindu
  fundamentalist, or the person to be mildly retarded in his/her
  mental capacities. There were too many inconsistencies in the text. 
  Concepts were put in groups where they don't belong. People's 
  intelligence is tested mainly how they can place items in correct 
  groups.
  
  I think that you would also perceive these fallacies, if you didn't
  know the text was MMY's, or at the latest, when the Hindu concepts
  where replaced by let's say communist or Muslim  slogans.
 
 Judy:What makes you think I don't perceive these fallacies?
 
 I said explicitly that I don't take a lot of what MMY
 says seriously.  Why would you assume his comments on
 caste were among the things he's said that I take
 seriously?
 
 However, I think your primitive Hindu fundamentalist/
 mildly retarded in his mental faculties is a false
 dichotomy; and I don't necessarily agree with your
 assertion that because he doesn't put things in groups
 the same way you would, therefore his intelligence is
 failing.

Irmeli: These categories or groups cannot be formed arbitrarily as it
suits you.For perceiving them correctly intelligence is needed. It is
 as if you claimed having created your own mathematics, when when you
cannot count correctly.
MMY's claims are like hydrogen atoms and skin cells belong to the same
category.They don't. Hydrogen atoms belong to the group atoms and skin
cells to the group cells. They are quite different  phenomenon on the
level of complexity. Atoms are a subgroup of cells several hierarchies
beneath.


 
 I would also ask again what you think he meant when
 he said he wanted to do away with castes entirely.

Irmeli:You take here just one sentence from from a confused talk. The
main theme in the talk is however: Without caste there will be
hodgepogdge. Caste is everywhere, it is a natural pehenomenon. When
MMY says: We want to eliminate caste ,I understand him to mean:
People want to eliminate caste and then he continues explaining why
it will never work.
 
 Irmeli: Also the other thread here, where MMY's press conference
behaviour 
  was discussed, is rather revealing. Try yourself to respond to a 
  person, who does questions to you, as MMY does, and observe how 
  people around you start to perceive you. Occasional slip-up is 
  understandable. We all have our bad days. But when it is a 
  repeating pattern, other conclusions have to be made.
 
 Judy:You assume that his goal is to have the reporters
 think well of him, and that therefore because he hasn't
 managed to do so, it must be because his mental
 faculties are failing.
 
 But I'm not at all sure that's what his goal is.

Irmeli: Why otherwise would he have press-conferences. If he makes a
fool of himself, how can people appreciate his message.
It has been of utmost importance for MMY to be seen as a great guru,
to whom world's leaders come to ask solutions to their problems.
He has used manipulation, lies and exaggerations to achieve this dream
of his. And the result is that he has got a very poor reputation.
I want to emphasize here the word SEEN. If world peace would appear
now, he would immediately claim ownership of that peace, even if his
role in creating the peace were a minor one. Such is his nature. And
it is OK, he serves as he is many important purposes. 

Nature's goal with him has been already for a while to make a fool of
him. It most probably is not his conscious goal, rather his
subconscious goal. 
On a very subtle level he however has succeeded with the task that was
given to him. And that is the most essential thing, and he can be
proud of that. We should not mix with each other two different levels
of reality.

P.S.When I read your posts I have quite often got the impression that
you excersice hairsplitting to divert attention away from the main
theme or the main problem the poster is successfully presenting. When
you cannot disprove the claims of the poster, you start hairsplitting
with unessential details. This happens possibly because you have a
preset agenda to defend

[FairfieldLife] Re: Caste system

2006-03-20 Thread Irmeli Mattsson
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Irmeli Mattsson 
 Irmeli.Mattsson@ wrote:
 snip
  P.S.When I read your posts I have quite often got the impression 
  that you excersice hairsplitting to divert attention away from the 
  main theme or the main problem the poster is successfully 
  presenting. When you cannot disprove the claims of the poster, you 
  start hairsplitting with unessential details. This happens possibly 
  because you have a preset agenda to defend, not because you 
  wouldn't understand. You cannot allow any bigger cracks to your 
 aim, 
  just small ones so you can keep people perceiving you with some 
  credibility. You do understand, but you are not in a position to be 
  able to freely look at phenomenon and investigate ideas and claims 
  with an open mind, which could lead to conclusions not fitting to 
  your preset goal. 
 
 P.S.: Irmeli, you might want to think about why you
 felt the need to launch an ad hominem attack at me
 when my responses to you contained no ad hominem at
 all.


I have not the slightest idea what ad hominem means. I checked my
dictionary of foreign words and the closest item there was ad
honorem, but I suppose you don't mean it.

Why you got the rant was because I felt you were resorting to
hair-splitting with my post to divert attention away from the
essentials of my criticism. The sentence you picked up form MMY:s talk
was not in line with the spirit of the talk for caste system in general.
Did you really read my first comment on the talk? I state my claim in
different words, maybe you will better get it. 

In the talk MMY's claims that castes are unavoidable because it is how
nature works. Nobody can make or unmake caste system.
Mango is one caste. Apple is one caste. You cannot unmake caste
system, similarly as you cannot unmake different fruits to appear.

He makes many wrong simplifications and generalizations in the talk.
And that leads him to the wrong conclusion, that caste system is as
inevitable as it is inevitable that mangos and apples are different
fruit. But caste system can be unmade and it will when the society in
India evolves.

Wrong categorizing leads him to wrong conclusions. Categorizing and
grouping can be made of course in many ways, but certain rules must be
obeyed just as in mathematics. People's intelligence is often tested
by asking them to place items in alternative groups. Only one is correct.

I also criticized you because I have generally got quite weary of your
hair-splitting responds to many other posters here. This has lead to
the situation that I don't read your posts. You are intelligent and
have a lot of deep understanding and insight. Without hair-splitting
you could do much better.

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[FairfieldLife] Re: Caste system

2006-03-20 Thread Irmeli Mattsson
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Rick Archer [EMAIL PROTECTED]
wrote:

 Regarding caste, Maharishi said at Amherst in 1971 that he opposed
 interracial marriage because the best qualities of both races are
lost in
 the offspring. Also, he is alleged to have opposed the geographic
 intermingling of races, when it was brought to his attention that
this was
 sometimes a point of tension in the US (e.g., segregation issues).


***
Caste in India is a rigid system of social classes based on birth.
You can see interracial marriages to be problematic for other reasons
than because they are frobidden in Indian caste system. When people
from different cultural backgrounds marry more challenges are to be
expected than usual.

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[FairfieldLife] Re: Caste system

2006-03-20 Thread Irmeli Mattsson
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Vaj [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:


 Danielou points out that a society who bases education and training  
 for jobs on IQ testing are essentially already recognizing and  
 recreating a new caste system based on an individuals innate skills  
 and karma. 

***
This is not an Indian caste system.

I quote what I have written earlier here on this topic:

Caste in India is a rigid system of social classes based on birth.
This rigidity brings with it awful, unnatural tensions. All children
are not born with the same inclinations and capacities as their
parents. Societies in which there are no rigid caste systems are doing
much better than those, which have it. Caste can be undone.
On the other hand hierarchies and differentiations cannot be undone.
They form a pillar of a well functioning society. In modern societies
hierarchies are more and more based on competence and capacity to take
responsibility. 

MMY uses apparently the concept caste for hierarchies and for the
different roles people have in society. And the he proceeds to
announce that the rigid caste system is inevitable natural law. It is not.
But hierarchies and specializations seem to be crucial to a society.
And as societies evolve we are getting away from suppressive dominator
hierarchies.

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[FairfieldLife] Re: Caste system

2006-03-20 Thread Irmeli Mattsson
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Vaj [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 
 If you want to have your mind blown  
 in regards to why democracy is an aberration and how the caste system  
 reflects the real natural condition of society, you should read this  
 book. From this POV, the idea that all people are created equal is  
 one of the greatest lies ever perpetuated on human society. Higher  
 education or education in domains which potentially could cause great  
 harm to society should only be given to those with innate and  
 excellent moral qualities.
 

History has already proved this kind of reasoning wrong.
That people are not created equal is probably true, but not the idea
that education should not be given to all people. Societies were a lot
of people are illiterate or have poor education are left behind,
suppressive, and often violent.

Finland's school system is considered to be one of the best in the
world by its results. Here the weaker students get a lot of support,
not necessarily the talented ones. We concentrate less on spurring
talented students. The resources are directed for everyone being
literate and getting a vocational training. If you are under 25 and
you are jobless, you lose your unemployment benefit, if you don't 
engage yourself in some training program. 

Giving everyone a chance in life, and making even the weaker
individuals feel that they are accepted and useful and important
members of societies is the best prevention of harmful tendencies.

Also democracy works much better, when people in general are well
educated. Good educations provides better means of making one's own
judgements.

Irmeli






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[FairfieldLife] Love Chooses You (was Re: Illusion of individuality; labels; true bhakti; the s

2006-03-19 Thread Irmeli Mattsson
--- In [EMAIL PROTECTED] 
 Almost always, when I write an essay to this list, I get private
 e-mails thanking me, or expressing how it was useful to them, or
 asking deep questions.  Many times they say that they don't write
 to this list because of the rough atmosphere here, because of the
 fear of being attacked or ridiculed or made fun of, because they
 don't want to expose their tender feelings to that kind of response.

I don't even visit lists, which atmosphere I don't like. I suppose
these people feel attracted to the rough atmosphere here even if they
are afraid of getting exposed, if they would write themselves.
I still I wonder why they are afraid of thanking you publicly? I have
never observed that my honest accounts, and exposing my personal
feelings, had gotten ridiculed here. Questioned sometimes, but mostly
in good spirit.

 
 So I applaud you for having the courage to speak your truth here,
 for all to see.  You are great.

 
And no one ridiculed Jim for doing that.

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[FairfieldLife] Re: Caste system

2006-03-19 Thread Irmeli Mattsson
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, jim_flanegin [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Irmeli Mattsson 
 Irmeli.Mattsson@ wrote:
 snip
  MMY says here: Those who do not know, they can say anything. Like 
 a
  mad man, they can say anything. I think he is by that statement
  subconsciously describing himself.
  
  MMY has been successful in surrounding himself with yes-men. That
  success has however created a situation were he can get no critical
  assessment and he is totally free to publicly humiliate himself, 
 when
  he clearly is getting old and senile. Usually the nearest people
  protect the elderly person from this kind of humiliation. I guess 
 MMY
  has no one near him, who really cares about him.
  
  Irmeli
 
 Funny how two people hearing, or reading the same thing can have 
 completely opposite points of view. I find this latest transcript 
 refreshing in that MMY is lucid and honest with his remarks. No 
 signs of senility that I see.



Yes it is very informative to observe. I remember myself sitting as a
child on a rock and looking at the blue sky and wondering if other
people saw the blue sky as I saw it. I was not sure then but
tentatively I came to the conclusion that they don't. This fact is
very challenging , when it comes to constructive communication and
interaction between people, who see differently. World peace would be
ours if we collectively mastered that skill.

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[FairfieldLife] Re: Caste system

2006-03-19 Thread Irmeli Mattsson
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, jim_flanegin jflanegi@ 
 wrote:
 
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Irmeli Mattsson 
  Irmeli.Mattsson@ wrote:
 snip
   he clearly is getting old and senile. Usually the nearest people
   protect the elderly person from this kind of humiliation. I guess 
   MMY has no one near him, who really cares about him.
   
   Irmeli
  
  Funny how two people hearing, or reading the same thing can have 
  completely opposite points of view. I find this latest transcript 
  refreshing in that MMY is lucid and honest with his remarks. No 
  signs of senility that I see.
 
 I think he may be somewhat less focused in his responses
 than he has been in the past, but I don't see any signs of
 senility either, certainly not enough to warrant
 protecting him from humiliation.



Possibly not advanced senility, but clear regression in his mental
capacities.
Of course I read only those talks by him that appear here at FFL. It
is possible that only his worst  goofs get here.

I quite honestly have difficulties to understand how anyone in full
mental faculties could take him seriously. I guess, when it comes to
someone perceiving him as one's guru, even that kind of thing becomes
possible.

And I do respect people's devotion. FFL just is a place were people
can air the absurdities and problems they perceive at the spiritual
market.

For me MMY is nowadays just a cosmic clown, who is very useful in
demonstrating what narcissism can create. I do  however appreciate a
lot of the wisdom that he earlier has brought out.

Irmeli





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[FairfieldLife] Re: Caste system

2006-03-19 Thread Irmeli Mattsson
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Irmeli Mattsson 
 Irmeli.Mattsson@ wrote:
 
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend jstein@ wrote:
  
   --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, jim_flanegin jflanegi@ 
   wrote:
   
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Irmeli Mattsson 
Irmeli.Mattsson@ wrote:
   snip
 he clearly is getting old and senile. Usually the nearest 
 people
 protect the elderly person from this kind of humiliation. I 
 guess 
 MMY has no one near him, who really cares about him.
 
 Irmeli

Funny how two people hearing, or reading the same thing can 
 have 
completely opposite points of view. I find this latest 
 transcript 
refreshing in that MMY is lucid and honest with his remarks. No 
signs of senility that I see.
   
   I think he may be somewhat less focused in his responses
   than he has been in the past, but I don't see any signs of
   senility either, certainly not enough to warrant
   protecting him from humiliation.
  
  
  
 Irmeli: Possibly not advanced senility, but clear regression in his
mental
  capacities.
  Of course I read only those talks by him that appear here at FFL. It
  is possible that only his worst  goofs get here.
  
  I quite honestly have difficulties to understand how anyone in full
  mental faculties could take him seriously.
 
 Judy:I can think of quite a few people that I don't understand
 how anyone with their full mental faculties could take
 seriously, whom no one accuses of regressing in their 
 mental capacities, let alone becoming senile.  One doesn't
 have to be mentally incompetent to spout nonsense.
 
 *I* don't take a lot of what MMY says seriously, but
 I don't assume that means he's regressed in his mental
 capacities.  Those are really two different issues with
 different symptoms.
 

Irmeli:As the title of this thread refers to I commented MMY:s
reasoning around the concept caste.
If I read that kind of text not knowing whose it is, I would very
spontaneously think that the person is either an uncivilized Hindu
fundamentalist, or the person to be mildly retarded in his/her mental
capacities. There were too many inconsistencies in the text. Concepts
were put in groups where they don't belong. People's intelligence is
tested mainly how they can place items in correct groups.

I think that you would also perceive these fallacies, if you didn't
know the text was MMY's, or at the latest, when the Hindu concepts
where replaced by let's say communist or Muslim  slogans.

Also the other thread here, where MMY's press conference behaviour was
discussed, is rather revealing. Try yourself to respond to a person,
who does questions to you, as MMY does, and observe how people around
you start to perceive you. Occasional slip-up is understandable. We
all have our bad days. But when it is a repeating pattern, other
conclusions have to be made.







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[FairfieldLife] Re: Caste system

2006-03-18 Thread Irmeli Mattsson
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Rick Archer [EMAIL PROTECTED]
wrote:

 Question - - - - - - - - - - In your vedic system, India establish caste
 system.  If so, is this most harmful for society?
 
 Maharishi - - - - - - - - - -(Laughs)  Caste is not harmful.  That
is what
 which makes a society.  Caste.  Mango is one caste.  Apple is one caste.
 Banana is one caste.  We want to eliminate all the different caste.
(laughs)
 Who can make and unmake?  Nobody can make and unmake caste system. 
They are
 natural phenomenon.  Caste system is a natural phenomenon.  Caste
system is
 a natural phenomenon.  People are different.  The soul of all the
people is
 the same.  So something is different.  Something is the same.
 
 Caste system is the most systematic, it's a system.  It's a system of
 society.  Without caste there will be hodgepodge.  Nobody would know
who is
 what, who is what, who is what.  Caste system is everywhere.  It's a
natura
 l phenomenon.  It's a natural existence.  It's a natural thing. 
Those who
 do not know, they can say anything.  Like a mad man, they can say
anything.
 But what does it mean to any sensible man?
 
 Eyes, ears, nose, tongue, touch.  Each is a caste by itself.  And
all the
 caste make a body, make a man, make a society, make a country.
 
 Those who want to disrupt the harmony, they come with all these
slogans and
 disrupt the harmony, make the people confuse and all that, all that.
 But
 that does not mean it has any substance in its content. No.
 
 Indian Press Conference - - - - - - - - - 7/17/03



Some people may want to believe this nonsense, because the guru is
claimed to be enlightened and they perceive some simplicity and beauty
in the claims. Even if the statement has parts in it that are true
like People are different, the whole here makes an awful hodgepodge.

Apples and mangos are not different castes. They are different fruits.
Eyes, ears tongues are not caste. They are organs. Common to fruits,
organs and caste is that they are groupings.
 
Caste in India is a rigid system of social classes based on birth.
This rigidity brings with it awful, unnatural tensions. All children
are not born with the same inclinations and capacities as their
parents. Societies in which there are no rigid caste systems are doing
much better than those, which have it. Caste can be undone.
On the other hand hierarchies and differentiations cannot be undone.
They form a pillar of a well functioning society. In modern societies
hierarchies are more and more based on competence and capacity to take
responsibility.

MMY says here: Those who do not know, they can say anything. Like a
mad man, they can say anything. I think he is by that statement
subconsciously describing himself.

MMY has been successful in surrounding himself with yes-men. That
success has however created a situation were he can get no critical
assessment and he is totally free to publicly humiliate himself, when
he clearly is getting old and senile. Usually the nearest people
protect the elderly person from this kind of humiliation. I guess MMY
has no one near him, who really cares about him.

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[FairfieldLife] Re: Self-doubt and cynicism vs. profound trust - the role of surrender as the fo

2006-03-13 Thread Irmeli Mattsson
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, TurquoiseB [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 I still believe that it owes a lot to Buddhism...

That's a stretch. Many translations of the First
Noble Truth have it as Life is suffering, but
that's not related in any way to God, since they
don't believe in one.
   
   To say life is suffering implies there is something--
   a condition or state--that is *not* suffering.
   
   If suffering is said to be a lack, there is something--
   a condition or state--in which nothing is lacking.
   
   What is it?
 
  ++ State of mind?
 
 In a way. If (as the Four Noble Truths state) the
 cause of suffering is attachment to desire/aversion,
 then living in a state of mind that is *not* attached
 to achieving the fruits of desire or avoiding the
 things one is averse to is a way beyond suffering.
 
 The input to life doesn't change, only one's
 ability to greet it with equanimity. Try to force
 the square peg of that input into the round hole of
 one's desires, and you get suffering. Treat it as
 a square peg and be neither attached nor averse,
 no suffering. 
 
 Nothing to achieve, no obstacles to remove from
 the path to non-suffering, nowhere to go. Same 
 old same old...just life dealt with as What Is, not 
 What You'd Like Life To Be.
 
 Just for fun, compare and contrast this to MMY's
 latest U.N. rap, in which he once again presents his
 S-V theories and suggests that the problems of the
 world can't be solved unless one starts over with
 all-new buildings. In the Buddhist view, this 
 approach to resolving suffering can never work
 because it is based upon trying to change the input
 of life to avoid suffering, rather than change the 
 inner being's ability to deals with the input with-
 out attachment. 
 
 In the Buddhist view, the richest, most successful
 person in the world, living in a perfectly-aligned
 S-V house but still attached to his desires, will
 be lost in suffering. Whereas the poor person who
 lives in a cardboard box, if he is not attached to 
 his desires, is beyond suffering.



The basic division between suffering and non-suffering lies in, as
Barry puts it, if you can accept  `What is', or if you want to make
life what you want or dream it to be. Paradoxically also accepting
'what is' much more effectively leads to transformation and true healing.

The latter way was my way of functioning until age 16. I perceived
many faults and defects in myself and wanted to become like some of my
peers I admired. The efforts I made to change myself lead mainly to
big disappointments and even to worsening of my problems. 

Then at 16 I got the realization that life doesn't expect me to be
like someone, it accepts me as nothing. Life accepts me as no one.
There is an evolutionary impulse deep in life's functioning. All I
need to do is to align with this evolutionary impulse. It meant
`active passivity'.  Passivity meant accepting yourself as you are, or
being nothing, and not trying to become something. Active meant being
alert in nothingness and acting when an impulse appeared from deep inside.

This was a start of a highly interesting and exciting journey of life
consciously appreciating transformation. And I want to emphasise the
word start. I had just got a stable platform. Being established on
that I can keep basic stability and calm in the whirls of true
transformation and even enjoy the journey, just as you can find a
roller coaster ride very enjoyable.

For a person, who does not rest on this kind of very stable platform,
enlightenment as a dream state means a blissful end station, where all
the whirls of painful creation and destruction have ceased. There the
essential nature of life is a threat, and enlightenment means you
don't need to re-incarnate anymore.

Felt pain, mental or physical, is an important source of suffering.
Pain that one can accept I don't call suffering. It is just a very
intense sensation. Fear makes pain worse. Embracing resolves it. This
is of course much more easily said than done. I know this myself
thoroughly through my own life experience.  I have a hereditary
muscular disease. For a very long time (from childhood on, getting
worse when I became adult) I felt very uncomfortable pain in my hands
and feet. At worst it felt like an awful pain in my bones. I was
afraid of this pain. It made me react physically to it by contraction,
which made the disease progress. The culmination of this process
happened in –92, when intense burning and tingling sensations appeared
in my feet. My feet were like burning, and simultaneously it could
feel like they were in ice and freezing. It was awful. However I
recognized hidden rage in this pain and started to work with it. I
engaged myself also in long psychotherapy to help the rocess.

Gradually the burning sensation started to diminish and my perception
of it to change. I can still occasionally have intense burning
sensations in my feet, but now I can appreciate this 

[FairfieldLife] Re: Self-doubt and cynicism vs. profound trust - the role of surrender as the fo

2006-03-13 Thread Irmeli Mattsson
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Irmeli Mattsson
[EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, TurquoiseB no_reply@ wrote:
 
  I still believe that it owes a lot to Buddhism...
 
 That's a stretch. Many translations of the First
 Noble Truth have it as Life is suffering, but
 that's not related in any way to God, since they
 don't believe in one.

To say life is suffering implies there is something--
a condition or state--that is *not* suffering.

If suffering is said to be a lack, there is something--
a condition or state--in which nothing is lacking.

What is it?
  
   ++ State of mind?
  
  In a way. If (as the Four Noble Truths state) the
  cause of suffering is attachment to desire/aversion,
  then living in a state of mind that is *not* attached
  to achieving the fruits of desire or avoiding the
  things one is averse to is a way beyond suffering.
  
  The input to life doesn't change, only one's
  ability to greet it with equanimity. Try to force
  the square peg of that input into the round hole of
  one's desires, and you get suffering. Treat it as
  a square peg and be neither attached nor averse,
  no suffering. 
  
  Nothing to achieve, no obstacles to remove from
  the path to non-suffering, nowhere to go. Same 
  old same old...just life dealt with as What Is, not 
  What You'd Like Life To Be.
  
  Just for fun, compare and contrast this to MMY's
  latest U.N. rap, in which he once again presents his
  S-V theories and suggests that the problems of the
  world can't be solved unless one starts over with
  all-new buildings. In the Buddhist view, this 
  approach to resolving suffering can never work
  because it is based upon trying to change the input
  of life to avoid suffering, rather than change the 
  inner being's ability to deals with the input with-
  out attachment. 
  
  In the Buddhist view, the richest, most successful
  person in the world, living in a perfectly-aligned
  S-V house but still attached to his desires, will
  be lost in suffering. Whereas the poor person who
  lives in a cardboard box, if he is not attached to 
  his desires, is beyond suffering.
 
 
 
 The basic division between suffering and non-suffering lies in, as
 Barry puts it, if you can accept  `What is', or if you want to make
 life what you want or dream it to be. Paradoxically also accepting
 'what is' much more effectively leads to transformation and true
healing.
 
 The latter way was my way of functioning until age 16. I perceived
 many faults and defects in myself and wanted to become like some of my
 peers I admired. The efforts I made to change myself lead mainly to
 big disappointments and even to worsening of my problems. 
 
 Then at 16 I got the realization that life doesn't expect me to be
 like someone, it accepts me as nothing. Life accepts me as no one.
 There is an evolutionary impulse deep in life's functioning. All I
 need to do is to align with this evolutionary impulse. It meant
 `active passivity'.  Passivity meant accepting yourself as you are, or
 being nothing, and not trying to become something. Active meant being
 alert in nothingness and acting when an impulse appeared from deep
inside.
 
 This was a start of a highly interesting and exciting journey of life
 consciously appreciating transformation. And I want to emphasise the
 word start. I had just got a stable platform. Being established on
 that I can keep basic stability and calm in the whirls of true
 transformation and even enjoy the journey, just as you can find a
 roller coaster ride very enjoyable.
 
 For a person, who does not rest on this kind of very stable platform,
 enlightenment as a dream state means a blissful end station, where all
 the whirls of painful creation and destruction have ceased. There the
 essential nature of life is a threat, and enlightenment means you
 don't need to re-incarnate anymore.
 
 Felt pain, mental or physical, is an important source of suffering.
 Pain that one can accept I don't call suffering. It is just a very
 intense sensation. Fear makes pain worse. Embracing resolves it. This
 is of course much more easily said than done. I know this myself
 thoroughly through my own life experience.  I have a hereditary
 muscular disease. For a very long time (from childhood on, getting
 worse when I became adult) I felt very uncomfortable pain in my hands
 and feet. At worst it felt like an awful pain in my bones. I was
 afraid of this pain. It made me react physically to it by contraction,
 which made the disease progress. The culmination of this process
 happened in –92, when intense burning and tingling sensations appeared
 in my feet. My feet were like burning, and simultaneously it could
 feel like they were in ice and freezing. It was awful. However I
 recognized hidden rage in this pain and started to work with it. I
 engaged myself also in long psychotherapy to help the rocess.
 
 Gradually

[FairfieldLife] Re: Self-doubt and cynicism vs. profound trust - the role of surrender as the fo

2006-03-13 Thread Irmeli Mattsson
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, claudiouk [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 The really problematic dimension of suffering is not personal (if one 
 can indeed become detached from internal desire or aversion) - it 
 is interpersonal. Try being detatched whilst your loved ones are 
 being tortured... 
 

It is not about being emotionally detached. It is about embracing all
the awful emotions the situation arises, and by no way trying to
diminish the horror of the situation.
This is much easier to accomplish when the `I ` is firmly established
on a ground where it does not anymore identify with these emotions.
Not identifying does not mean not feeling intensely. It means that you
can keep yourself separate from the emotions. It is a situation where
you have emotions in your system, body and mind. You are not the
emotions, you have them, you witness them and simultaneously observe
and feel them very intensely. 

I went  through this kind of torture experience when my father was
very sick and he was given wrong kind of medication. For a month he
was in a catatonic state, very stiff, not capable of speaking. He
could only scream for help, which he did whenever he had enough energy
for screaming. And he was full of panic and fear and pain, which they
tried to medicate down, but actually made only worse. He deep inside
himself knew this and wanted away from the hospital, but couldn't
express himself. And even if he had been, they wouldn't have let him
go. It was awful to sit in the hospital at his bedside and be with him
in his enormous suffering. Once when I went to the hospital, my
husband said to me:You look like you were going to a beheading. I
did not understand at that time the medication caused this torture to
my father. After a month they moved him to the University Hospital and
there they immediately realized it was the medication that caused his
suffering. They stopped the medication and after one week he was much
better, and after two weeks again at home. 

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[FairfieldLife] Re: Self-doubt and cynicism vs. profound trust - the role of surrender as the fo

2006-03-13 Thread Irmeli Mattsson
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Irmeli Mattsson
[EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, claudiouk claudiouk@ wrote:
 
  The really problematic dimension of suffering is not personal (if one 
  can indeed become detached from internal desire or aversion) - it 
  is interpersonal. Try being detatched whilst your loved ones are 
  being tortured... 
  
 
 It is not about being emotionally detached. It is about embracing all
 the awful emotions the situation arises, and by no way trying to
 diminish the horror of the situation.
 This is much easier to accomplish when the `I ` is firmly established
 on a ground where it does not anymore identify with these emotions.
 Not identifying does not mean not feeling intensely. It means that you
 can keep yourself separate from the emotions. It is a situation where
 you have emotions in your system, body and mind. You are not the
 emotions, you have them, you witness them and simultaneously observe
 and feel them very intensely. 
 
 I went  through this kind of torture experience when my father was
 very sick and he was given wrong kind of medication. For a month he
 was in a catatonic state, very stiff, not capable of speaking. He
 could only scream for help, which he did whenever he had enough energy
 for screaming. And he was full of panic and fear and pain, which they
 tried to medicate down, but actually made only worse. He deep inside
 himself knew this and wanted away from the hospital, but couldn't
 express himself. And even if he had been, they wouldn't have let him
 go. It was awful to sit in the hospital at his bedside and be with him
 in his enormous suffering. Once when I went to the hospital, my
 husband said to me:You look like you were going to a beheading. I
 did not understand at that time the medication caused this torture to
 my father. After a month they moved him to the University Hospital and
 there they immediately realized it was the medication that caused his
 suffering. They stopped the medication and after one week he was much
 better, and after two weeks again at home. 
 
 Irmeli



 One emotion there is however that I don't easily experience and that
is getting hurt of something someone says to me. Often I may not even
observe the insult, or if I observe I may react by getting furious and
try to express why I felt the person's behaviour was inconsiderate or
stupid.

Irmeli





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[FairfieldLife] Re: Self-doubt and cynicism vs. profound trust - the role of surrender as the fo

2006-03-13 Thread Irmeli Mattsson
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, TurquoiseB [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Irmeli Mattsson 
 Irmeli.Mattsson@ wrote:
 
  One emotion there is however that I don't easily experience 
  and that is getting hurt of something someone says to me. 
  Often I may not even observe the insult, or if I observe I 
  may react by getting furious and try to express why I felt 
  the person's behaviour was inconsiderate or stupid.
 
 Who is being insulted?
 
 If you've experienced every notion you've ever had of who 
 and what you are dissolving into light, over and over and
 over, what's left to be insulted, or to resent the insult?


What makes me react by fury sometimes is, when my husband keeps on
nagging and nagging to me about some minor details in a weary tone.
There maybe  some drops of juice on the kitchen floor that he feels on
his soles. Or there is something in the layout in my work he does not
like, which I think is very easy for him to change.  I just cannot
know exactly what he wants. He expresses it as if I were deliberately
tormenting him by this kind of behaviour.

 Usually I don't  care about his nagging at all. And then suddenly I
feel insulted and frustrated by it and get ballistic. And then he
often runs off, because I tend to put my words in a way that hurt him
deeply. No name-calling. I just do a deep analysis of him.

Earlier he could feel hurt for a week or two, during which he didn't
speak to me. Nowadays most of it goes away in one day.  When I get
hurt, it lasts only for the moment of my blast and then it is gone. 

This probably is not the most smart behaviour. However I have not come
upon a better way of dealing with my frustration. I have also tried to
correct the details he gets irritated about. That is however no
solution, because then he gets irritated about something that didn't
irritate him before.

But this is not a cause of suffering to me, but a challenge it is,
that I have not been capable of solving. To be quite honest I also
enjoy these blasts.

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[FairfieldLife] Re: Self-doubt and cynicism vs. profound trust - the role of surrender as the fo

2006-03-12 Thread Irmeli Mattsson
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Michael Dean Goodman
[EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 SELF-DOUBT AND CYNICISM VS. PROFOUND TRUST
  From a Talk by Adyashanti
 
 There is nothing more insidiously destructive to the attainment of
 liberation than self-doubt and cynicism.  Doubt is a movement of the
 conditioned mind that always claims that it's not possible ... that
 freedom is not possible for me [or for you - or at least it is very
 very difficult, very distant].  Doubt always knows; it knows that
 nothing is possible.  And in this knowing, doubt robs you of the pos-
 sibility of anything truly new or transformative from happening.  Fur-
 thermore, doubt is always accompanied by a pervasive cynicism that
 unconsciously puts a negative spin on whatever it touches.  Cynicism
 is a world view which protects the ego from scrutiny by maintaining
 a negative stance in relationship to what it does not know, does not
 want to know, or cannot know.  Many spiritual seekers have no idea
 how cynical and doubt-laden they actually are.  It is this blindness
 and denial of the presence of doubt and cynicism that makes the birth
 of a profound trust impossible - a trust without which final libera-
 tion will always remain simply a dream. - Adyashanti
 

A complementary perspective to Adhyasanti's view:

For evolving to higher stages of consciousness, more destructive than
self-doubt and cynicism, is an unquestioning mind with no capacity to
inner inquiry and dialogue. Whatever grandiose idea of oneself appears
is taken to be the absolute truth, doubts are immediately suppressed,
if they ever appear. 
Doubts and cynicism can be quite destructive. However I see even that
kind of tormenting doubt as one of the first steps into an acquisition
of capacity to inner dialogue. Denial of the presence of doubt leads
to suppression. Working with doubts canlead to a transformation, where
doubt becomes a constructive inner voice and opener to inner inquiry.

A person who suppresses doubt has an internal structure that could be
called fundamentalism. A person who has no doubts is  even below that
developmentally. Being beyond fundamentalism means capacity to handle
doubts and also difficult emotions in an constructive way.

In my teens I remember myself spending long ours almost daily in an
inner dialogue. An idea came to my mind. Soon after that appeared an
opposing idea that doubted or disapproved with the first idea.
I calmly just witnessed this discussion and dialogue inside and it
gradually got more and more subtle, and dealt with many important
existential questions.  I still remember one pearl that was created
through these dialogues: If there is God, and he is the embodiment of
Truth, he can only expect from me that I do what I understand to be
true and right. Even if that meant the denial of God. And it actually
meant it for me then. I think this insight appeared at 14. I also
claim that it was this kind of inner dialogue that lead to the
powerful experience of realization I had at age 16, that I have
described more in details many times here at FFL

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[FairfieldLife] Re: Self-doubt and cynicism vs. profound trust - the role of surrender as the fo

2006-03-12 Thread Irmeli Mattsson
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Michael Dean Goodman
[EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 [That trust is also often called homage, or even devotion or
 surrender - and the path that encompasses this openness of heart
 is called bhakti.  Once Self-realization is ripening, this open-
 ness of heart in devotion is essential in order to expand out and
 meet and imbibe your god/goddess. - MDG]
 
 
 BHAGAVAD GITA ON HOMAGE, REPEATED INQUIRY, AND SERVICE
 
 For example, in the Bhagavad Gita, 4:34, Lord Krishna says:
 
Through homage, repeated inquiry, and service,
 the men of knowledge who have experienced Reality
 will teach you knowledge.
 
 Maharishi's commentary says:
 
By 'homage' is meant submission or surrender.
 
 The commentary says that surrender to the teacher (ultimately to the
 Truth that the teacher is a reflector of), is the prerequisite for
 asking questions (repeated inquiry, or curiosity).  After devotion,
 the questions are true seekings for deeper understanding.  There is
 no hint of any intention to diminish the teacher or test the teacher
 or argue with the teacher or improve the teacher - no hint of any in-
 tention to doubt the teacher or the Truth.  There is no intention to
 play the game I'm more OK, based on making you less OK. The teacher
 has already been accepted fully as a conduit of Truth, and the inten-
 tion of the inquiry is to make everyone more and more OK, more and
 more infinite/vast/divine.
 
 Then the heart of the teacher opens wide, any and all questions are
 welcome and appropriate, and deep knowledge flows in response to
 them.  This acceptance of the teacher is actually a surrender to the
 unbounded Truth; it invites the unbounded to shine forth through the
 teacher.  This trust or surrender means that the individual has
 gotten out of the way to some extent, has dropped their ego-defend-
 ing patterns, has dropped their guard.
 
 Before trust, before devotion, the questions are not really from a
 surrendered place.  The questioner has not accepted the teacher as a
 teacher, the questioner has not accepted the limitations of his/her
 own relative ego/intellect, and therefore there is not that open flow
 of knowledge.  In the questions there may be some lack of respect for
 the teacher, some implication that the teacher is not competent, some
 belittling or depreciation of the teacher.  The teacher's heart is
 not opened by this, the recipient's guard is not put down, and the
 flow of Truth is not profound.
 
 We all know from everyday experience that questions (curiosity) gener-
 ally can have two very distinct purposes, even in mundane conversation:
 
 1. To actually gain understanding, as sincere inquiries; to create
 love/togetherness/unity by going deeper into knowledge; to open
 the conduit for richer flow of knowledge.
 
 2. To hide something behind the smokescreen of a question:
 a. To hide our criticism/anger, to avoid making a directly critical
statement.
 b. To hide that we're trying to control or dominate someone - to
hide that we're trying to manipulate someone or trying to engage
someone in a game.
 c. To create doubt/division/fear.
 
 In this case, questions are actually deceptions, a kind of passive/
 aggressive behavior.  Rather than saying what we feel in direct
 statements, we hide behind questions.  If challenged, if our true
 but hidden feelings or motives are noticed, we can always say I
 didn't mean any criticism - I was just wondering  Often it is
 apparent to observers, and to the recipient of the question, that
 we were NOT just wondering.  The question has an obvious edge to
 it, or it asks for an answer that we already know or could figure
 out, or it is pretty blatantly a manipulation, or it just leaves
 the recipient feeling odd, as though they've been tricked or mess-
 ed with.
 
 Although not so easy to say in words, the difference in how it feels
 to receive these two different kinds of questions (inquiries) is
 energetically obvious to most of us.  Sincere questions, without
 hidden emotional agendas or motives, evoke an open flow of
knowledge,
 evoke more unity and deepening, and don't leave a strange
aftertaste.
 
 The nature of a person's speech (and writing), especially their style
 of spiritual inquiry and discussion (as on this list), is very reveal-
 ing about the condition of their heart and mind.  They reveal so clear-
 ly whether they are swimming in the sea of doubt and cynicism and ego-
 defense, or whether they've found the life-preserver of surrender and
 simplicity and concern for others.
 
 
 Namaste,
 
 Michael
 

Also a complementary perspective to Goodman's view:

Bhagavad Gita, 4:34, Lord Krishna says:

Through homage, repeated inquiry, and service, the men of knowledge
who have experienced Reality will teach you reality.

My dictionary translates homage to mean respect, reverence, and not

[FairfieldLife] Re: Self-doubt and cynicism vs. profound trust - the role of surrender as the fo

2006-03-12 Thread Irmeli Mattsson
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Irmeli Mattsson 
 Irmeli.Mattsson@ wrote:
 snip
  Although I think that also God makes mistakes and learns
  through and from them.
 
 Question on this one point: By what standard can it
 be said that God makes mistakes?

It is just the observation that evolving in nature happens through
errors and in animals also by avoiding the mistakes and as even in a
more advanced form  humans can sometimes also learn from mistakes. I
consider the manifest creation to be expression of God or one aspect
of God.

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[FairfieldLife] What is art? (was Re: What is Spirituality?)

2006-03-10 Thread Irmeli Mattsson
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, TurquoiseB [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 Bhakti is that thing that t3rinity thinks that Michael
 Dean Goodman practices, and that he blasted Irmeli for 
 attacking when she criticized MDG's logic. The fact that, 
 AFAIK, neither MDG or Irmeli ever used the word 'bhakti'
 and almost certainly didn't have bhakti in their minds 
 when they wrote what they wrote has nothing to do with it. 
 

There are a few things that intrigue me about t3rinity. Does he
consciously distort our views just because they irritate him? Or does
he have some sort of dyslexia and he does not properly understand
written text?

Or  probably he is not competent in formal operational thinking and
hence puts together concepts and ideas illogically, forgets what he
attacked at and claimed in  an earlier post and claims the opposite in
the next post. His rules of throwing out ideas seem to be that 
something sounds good, and he has heard someone use the phrase, and it
seems to make a good striking weapon at the very moment. He has no
hesitation using ideas this way even if he one post earlier claimed
opposite. And there seems to be an ego in him that gets very easily
hurt. All this points to weak skills in formal operational thinking,
where principles rule, not the egos needs and hurts.

He has apparently also found the principles: attack is the best
defence and   blame others for your own weaknesses successful
survival strategies. 

There he however has made a grave mistake. If he uses these strategies
also in his personal relationships, he must have faced many
disappointments on that front. He most probably blames others for the
disappointments and cannot see how the problems come from his way of
relating to others. In this kind of situation he can get a lot of
consolation from cherishing sentiments of bhakti towards a distant
guru, with whom he cannot be in personal relationship. And that is
fine, if it helps him.
 
I'm sure he gets furious about this. If he does not, and laughs to
this nonsense, then I certainly have wrong here.

I don't feel totally comfortable posting this, but here inside me
resides also a challenger, who thinks, that an effective way of
confronting certain repeating dysfunctional patterns, is by trying to
bring  the structures to the open, even if it might cause some
turmoil. I really find t3rinity's way of communicating appalling.

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[FairfieldLife] What is art? (was Re: What is Spirituality?)

2006-03-10 Thread Irmeli Mattsson
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, TurquoiseB [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 I'm outa this, having written a let's let it drop
 note to t3rinity, and having meant it. 
 
 On the other hand, I just can't wait to see how you
 rip MDG a new one for his latest novel...uh...I mean
 post...if *it* gets your dander up.  :-)  :-)  :-)
 

I just thought it might be too lengthy for me to bother to read it.
Let's see now. At least earlier he has not had the same appalling
problems of in communication as t3rinty has.

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[FairfieldLife] Re: Illusion of individuality; labels; true bhakti; the story of Guru Dev and hi

2006-03-10 Thread Irmeli Mattsson
I liked this post a lot. It is an honest account of Goodman's personal
path and of his own insights and discriminations. I find Goodman's
relationship to MMY have similar qualities than the TM-teacher I meet
every now and then at lunch. That teacher has done the
re-certification course. All the apparent absurdities in the movement
don't bother him. He is somehow happily beyond them. There is
something very beautiful and innocent in his relationship to MMY. The
absurdities of the movement seem to have had a softening and moulding
effect on his earlier quite rigid beliefs and attachments. I respect
his devotion very much and I consider him to be doing fine. 

To be a `true believer' in this way is a fine and beautiful thing. To
be a TB in a way as to using one's only right belief as a
justification to morally low actions, and abuse and control of others
is an distorted form, but quite common. This form of the TB phenomenon
has mostly been discussed here and this discussion is very important.

 My main criticism is of  Goodman's post is that he tries to make
wrong this kind of discussion. Or at least he claims reasoning in
those lines to be at the same level as the fundamentalist's reasoning,
only  from the opposite direction. I disagree. Sometimes
fundamentalism can become wrapped in rigid rationality or
rationalisations and use of science as religion. In those cases his
criticism is appropriate, otherwise not.
  
I also disagree with the idea that no one is objective until they are
re-established in the Self. I claim that we cannot even then be fully
objective, to be representing  the absolute truth. The absolute is
beyond the manifest phenomenal world. When the I becomes established
in the transcendental, it becomes very stable and dis-identified with
ideas of oneself, gross or subtle emotions etc. This I has no form,
not even truth as we understand it.

This kind of I does not so easily identify with subjective states and
therefore it is capable of looking at also internal phenomenon from a
stable and calm position. It is very difficult to hurt this kind of I.
Still it also always looks at things from a perspective, maybe from
several perspectives, but never from all the possible and valid
perspectives.

I agree fully of the importance of surrendering the gross level
calculating intellect as an ultimate guiding light. We cannot evolve
to higher ways of being, or stages of development by relying on our
intellect. Our intellect can create only variations of structures
familiar to us. If we want to evolve we have to surrender and let
ourselves to be guided. But simultaneously our discriminative capacity
and sound judgement are great assets in avoiding pitfalls while
surrendering. Otherwise surrendering may insidiously change to
regression. And we start using intellect to find justifications to our
morally low actions. However the reality is usually more complicated
than this division because often surrender and regression are both
present and we are not capable of discriminating them from each other.

I also personally feel to be strongly guided. Not by any single being
in physical form, present or past, rather by all of them. I have also
surrendered to and am also guided by the transcendental  that is
beyond my understanding and intellect.

Irmeli



--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Michael Dean Goodman
[EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 THE STRUGGLE OF INDIVIDUALITY TO PERPETUATE ITS ILLUSION
 
 I feel compassionately sad whenever I meet those who still cling
 to the idea that their individuality (individual intellect) can
 guide them to the goal of realization, of remembering, of waking
 up again to Reality.  They're sure that they don't need a guide
 on the path, don't need to surrender control, don't need to ask
 for help, and don't need to embrace their intellect's incompetence
 and impotence to handle the job.
 
 They are sure that their relative, finite intellect, bound in the
 world of space and time, can grok and master infinity, the field
 without boundaries, far beyond the ken of the relative intellect.
 That is delusion, that is arrogance of the deepest kind, that is
 the very essence of ignorance.  Their individual ego/intellect has
 convinced them to trust it (not only to trust it, but to actually
 believe that they ARE it), and to never entertain the idea that the
 ego/intellect's assertion of its importance and ability to guide
 them back home IS ITSELF THE VERY CRUX OF THE PROBLEM, the very
 core of the ignorance.
 
 HIRING THE THIEF TO CATCH THE THIEF
 
 It is like hiring the master cat burglar (albeit in his clever dis-
 guise as the 'great detective') to solve the string of (his) burglar-
 ies.  The great detective (master burglar) will will NEVER EVER turn
 himself in, never participate in his own exposure, but instead will
 always have some encouraging progress report, and some inspiring vi-
 sion of possibilities, to string us along as long as possible, as
 he secretly continues his 

[FairfieldLife] Re: TM Course Fees and The Real Goals of the Movement

2006-03-09 Thread Irmeli Mattsson
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, sparaig [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Irmeli Mattsson 
 Irmeli.Mattsson@ wrote:
 
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, sparaig sparaig@ wrote:
  
   --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Irmeli Mattsson 
   Irmeli.Mattsson@ wrote:
   
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Michael Dean Goodman
Tantra@ wrote:
big snip
The trends of time are
being changed; Kali herself is being challenged! 

big snip


I  wonder why in the Hindu beliefsystems the pathologies of the
present world are seen as female energies?
I personally see the problems being more in patriarchal male 
   energies
that are very much addicted to power, money and control over 
 others,
especially over women. These narcissistic energies are the main 
   cause
of violence, suffering and poverty in our time. And these 
 tendencies
are more prevalent in males. Women have naturally more capacity 
 to
empathy.
The population explosion is a main cause of poverty and 
 illiteracy.
And the subjugation of women is the cause of excessive breeding 
 in a
time, when birth control is easily available.
Motherhood is the only means to these women get some 
 appreciation.

Male chauvinism and patriarchal structures have been challenged 
 with
very good results in the west and should be challenged in the 
 east 
   also. 
The concept Kaliyuga tells me that in Hindu culture the males 
 in 
power project their inner darkness and pathologies on their 
   subjugated
women. Disgusting!  
   
   so what's your take on Mother Divine as a Hindu term?
  
  
  
  Mother Divine, and Kali as her one aspect, I consider to be 
 important
  myths and powerful symbols.
  
  I understand Mother Divine to represent the all-pervading influence
  the mother has in a new born child's world. The mother's influence 
 on
  the future development of the child is huge. Many modern 
 psychologists
  say that  all the important structures in humans are established
  during the first three years of life. The way the mother relates to
  and communicates with the child largely determines how he/she later 
 in
  life relates to people around. The course of the life of an 
 individual
  after those important years is just repetition in different external
  forms of those early structures. 
  And in that respect the kali energies are very real also. Mothers 
 are
  not perfect. They easily transfer their own pathologies to their 
 children.
  
  My main criticism of the Kali concept, was the idea of these kali
  energies being the cause of the malaise of our time.
  
  Subjugated women and mothers have very little possibilities of 
 working
  through their internal tensions. Submissiveness hides the problems,
  and that way they go direct to the next generation. Women should 
 have
  in relationships and marriages equal rights to men. Women can evolve
  only if they can feel free and safe to express their true nature.
  
  From one perspective one could say that Kaliyuga is gone, when the
  important and highly responsible role of mothers is fully 
 understood,
  and men have evolved beyond their patriarchal need for power, 
 control
  and a sense superiority over women, and women are encouraged to 
 study
  and make their own careers so that they don't need to realize their
  own power trips through children.
 
 
 You realize, of course, that many of the world's cultures originally 
 had matriarchal societies with matriarchal godesses? Get ahold of 
 _When God Was a Woman_. Also, Evangeline Walton's Mbnogian tetrology 
 tells the legends from the perspective of the transition of female-
 dominated Ireland to male-dominated Ireland.


Thank you for the reading suggestions!

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[FairfieldLife] Should Bhakti be beyond criticism? (was TM Course Fees and The Real Goals )

2006-03-08 Thread Irmeli Mattsson
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, t3rinity [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Irmeli Mattsson
 Irmeli.Mattsson@ wrote:
 
 snip
 
  Generally I dislike in this post the tone of idealizing one person's
  work, and the egoistic approach of trying to make his work crucial to
  human consciousness evolution in this time. 
 
 You *dislike* it right? It's just judgement, that's okay. But I can
 tell you why: Michael idealizes MMY's work, simply because he *loves*
 MMY. The explantions he gives are logical, but the idealization is of
 his heart. That's Bhakti, reverence, in Michaels case for the guru.
 You dislike it, showing me that you don't have Bhakti, cannot
 recognize it when you see it, and have even may feel disgust for it.
 Poor you! Not that you should idealize or appreciate the MMY. But if
 you have Bhakti yourself, that is Love for God, or for your teacher
 etc, you will easily recognize it in others, like - lets say Muslims
 who pray and don't like to be ridiculed for their religion. There is
 nothing wrong with disagreement, but its the *tone* you dislike, and
 you even think he is egoistic in that. Nothing could be further from
 truth. Egoistic are those missing Bhakti. Again, poor you!
 
 I have tried to make the case, that one can view MMY's action in an
 impersonal way, as a tool of Brahman, like anybody else knowingly or
 unknowingly. From all indications that we get from MMY it is very much
 Knowingly, but never mind, one can look at this whole theme of a
 staged evolution, as Michael was expounding it, in a completely
 impersonal way, MMY only being a tool at the time, with no real
 judgement involved. In that sense there is neither a necessity for
 condemnation nor appreciation. But the appreciation shows Bhakti, and
 there is a mutual appreciation among Bhaktas, as the Self is seen in
 the Other, and not just narcistically inside oneself, as in CC. For
 many the first focal point of the Self outside is the Guru. So much
 for your *dislike* ;-)


***
Are you saying that the ideas of a person, who shows Bhakti should not
be discussed or evaluated? You expect everyone to know, that people
having Bhakti are untouchable and their thoughts and actions are
beyond criticism. Who has created that law ? The true believers, and
they threaten by it anyone, who  challenge their holy notions. That is
a very dangerous idea as human history shows. A lot of cruelties have
been done in so called righteous anger by the true believers.

I dislike your tone much more than Michael Goodman's, because in you I
sense the fanaticism of a true believer, not in him. I also sense that
you were hurt and you deeply disliked my comment on Goodman's post.

Does your thinking go like this: Because you don't perceive Bhakti in
me, you can dislike my ideas fully freely, but not the possibly very
odd ideas of a Muslim in whom you perceive Bhakti?

I disliked in Goodman's post the way he uses his intellect to defend
MMY by denying or forgetting many important facts in MMY's track
record. When logic is used that way, it inevitably gets distorted. A
person, who uses one's intellect in that fashion is often easy prey
for people, who don't let their disturbing emotions bend their intellect. 

When someone becomes terribly hurt of  rather main stream theories
like mine here, where no personal insults, name calling or threats are
present, I interpret it to mean that I have made a hit. In other words
my theories have touched the truth you are trying to deny.

I do recognize Bhakti and I do respect it. Apparently you perceive
Bhakti only, when distorted use of intellect is present also. 
 
True believers hate clear intellect. They would want to burn alive
anyone who challenges their distorted ideas. And they have done it
innumerable times. 

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[FairfieldLife] Re: Should Bhakti be beyond criticism? (was TM Course Fees and The Real Goals )

2006-03-08 Thread Irmeli Mattsson
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, t3rinity [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Irmeli Mattsson
 Irmeli.Mattsson@ wrote:
 
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, t3rinity no_reply@ wrote:
  
   --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Irmeli Mattsson
   Irmeli.Mattsson@ wrote:
   
   snip
   
Generally I dislike in this post the tone of idealizing one
person's
work, and the egoistic approach of trying to make his work
 crucial to
human consciousness evolution in this time. 
   

  ***
Irmeli: Are you saying that the ideas of a person, who shows Bhakti
should not
  be discussed or evaluated? 
 
T3rinity: No, of course not. I haven't objected to anything you
disagreed about
 with Michael, I have solely commented on your dislike for his
 attitude. You said: Generally I *dislike* in this post the *tone* of
 *idealizing* one person's work, and the *egoistic* approach of trying
 to make his work crucial to human consciousness evolution in this time.
 
 I did not comment on any of your disagreements in the actual matters
 (which weren't at all convincing, they were just a matter of stating
 an opposing POV without giving any reasonable backup why that view was
 preferable), but about your *dislike* of Michaels *tone*. I couldn't
 help seeing your general attitude in this and commented on it. 

Irmeli:
I did not write that I dislike Goodman's Bhakti attitude. Actually I
do appreciate it. My dislike is about how he uses his intellect,  the
disagreement is in actual matters, as you express it.
 
Irmeli: You expect everyone to know, that people
  having Bhakti are untouchable and their thoughts and actions are
  beyond criticism. 
 
T3rinity: No of course their thoughts and actions can be critizised,
you are
 missing my point. Just their attitude of Bhakti itself presents a
 value in itself. I don't dump on it, but appreciate it. Very subtle
 but important point.

Irmeli: I also appreciate Bhakti as a value in itself. Where did I
claim otherwise? I just have not discussed Bhakti earlier here.
 
Irmeli:  Who has created that law ? The true believers, and
  they threaten by it anyone, who  challenge their holy notions. 
 
T3rinity: First of all: Its not 'they', but me. AFAIK I am the first
one to
 bring this anti-Bhakti attitude of yours and others up as a topic, and
 that rightly so. I don't think that you are getting my point at all.
 That is, that not the object of Bhakti is beyond of disput, but rather
 that Bhakti is a spiritual value in itself. If somebody choses to have
 Bhakti - love and dedication - to someone, its first of all a matter
 of his choice. The other thing is, I'm glad you bring it up again,
 that you constantly dump on Bhaktas as 'True Believers' as if they are
 sort of stupid, inferior etc. Truely speaking, I find this arrogance
 disgusting. People who love, who have dedication, something that you
 are obviously missing (I feel sorry for you about that) are portrayed
 and ridiculed by this term by you and others constantly, as sort of
 weak etc. The truth is that ALL Hindu scriptures regard this attitude
 as indespensible for one's Sadhana. That doesn't mean that everything
 what the object of adoration may do is therefore automatically
 justified (but Michael gave very good *logical* reasons for his POV).
 But the tone adoration itself should not be disgarded in the way you
 did, and you actually constantly do.

Irmeli: Where have expressed myself being against Bhakti. I just don't
like it, when Bhakti is used as an excuse to cherishing thoughtforms
and ideas that are not allowed to be criticised.

Irmeli:  That is
  a very dangerous idea as human history shows.
 

T3rinity: That may be, but that's not what I am doing. You crossly
misinterpret
 me. Haha, you are just blaming all the wars on believers again, while
 its clear that they were done by men of power, misusing the religions.
 While I am speaking of the simple people who *practise* religion.

Irmeli: I agree Bhakti in humble people is fine. But Bhakti in
religions quite often becomes fanatic and violent rigidity, with a lot
of denial of reality. It is not just men of power, who have misused
religion. The fanatic masses that have given power to those dictators
are even more responsible of the cruelties.For this reason I get
alarmed, when people with Bhakti show denial of facts.  

Irmeli:  A lot of cruelties have
  been done in so called righteous anger by the true believers.
 
T3rinity: I'm not talking about anger but about love. You again
misuse the term
 true believers to dump on Bhaktas

Irmeli: Even if you claim yourself to be talking about love your
earlier post came across as very hostile.
 
Irmeli:  I dislike your tone much more than Michael Goodman's,
because in you I
  sense the fanaticism of a true believer, not in him. 
 
T3rinity: That's because you don't know me and are judgemental.
 
Irmeli: It is a felt impression of you. Are you claiming that you can
avoid being judgemental

[FairfieldLife] Re: TM Course Fees and The Real Goals of the Movement

2006-03-07 Thread Irmeli Mattsson
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Michael Dean Goodman
[EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

big snip

 These money-controllers drain half of the creative intelligence off
 the face of the Earth through their money schemes; they play let's
 you and him fight with nations and foster wars for their own gain;
 they promote terrorism if it's expedient for their plans; they choose
 or eliminate the leaders of great nations and dictate their actions.
 They have money beyond belief, money beyond human ability to spend;
 they aren't even in it for the money anymore, but for pure power,
 pure control.  They are demonic.
 
 Maharishi is one of the rare people on Earth who see them clearly for
 what they are, who are not gripped by their money game, and who have
 actually taken them on, stood up to them, challenged them.  He is the
 hope of the world.
 
big snip


MMY admires rich people and loves their money and power. And most
probably he can also see through these people, because he is similar
to them himself. 
My mother always knew, when I tried to tell a lie, because she was a
brilliant liar herself. She knew all the subtle mechanics of that art
in and out. By getting immediately exposed very effectively
discouraged my own career as a liar.  In that sense she was a very
good teacher for me.

Generally I dislike in this post the tone of idealizing one person's
work, and the egoistic approach of trying to make his work crucial to
human consciousness evolution in this time. 

My own take is that collectively a readiness for a leap in
consciousness has been there already for while. And people in the west
are generally  more ready for it than the east. For the leap to happen
we just need in the west a few missing ingredients, that guru's and
teachers from the east have been bringing to us. These teachers or
messengers have played an important role here. And MMY has been only
one of many eastern teachers, who have successfully brought the
missing ingredients to the west.

The east also misses something the west has. It is the capacity to
live and realize in every day life equality between people, and the
capacity to be in a dialogue. This kind of awareness opens the
possibility of really functioning democracy and social welfare for all
people. It is a slow process for the eastern people to evolve to that
kind of awareness. No amount of meditation alone will help them.
Improving the position of women could do wonders.

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[FairfieldLife] Re: Beatles angels on earth

2006-02-20 Thread Irmeli Mattsson
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, sparaig [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Irmeli Mattsson 
 Irmeli.Mattsson@ wrote:
 
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, sparaig sparaig@ wrote:
  
  
   You've browsed the CHopra website and approve of what you find 
 there? 
   Interesting...
  
  
  I receive a newsletter from the Chopra Center. I have never observed
  anything that I wouldn't approve of there. 
  Tell me what is there I possibly couldn't accept, so I'll check it 
 out.
  
  Irmeli
 
 
 Why don't you just browse the website. It's not hard to find:
 
 http://www.chopra.com


I have done that superficially. I don't have time to do it more
thoroughly. I have my job also and a home to take care of. 

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[FairfieldLife] Re: Beatles angels on earth

2006-02-19 Thread Irmeli Mattsson
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, sparaig [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:


 You've browsed the CHopra website and approve of what you find there? 
 Interesting...


I receive a newsletter from the Chopra Center. I have never observed
anything that I wouldn't approve of there. 
Tell me what is there I possibly couldn't accept, so I'll check it out.

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[FairfieldLife] Re: Beatles angels on earth

2006-02-18 Thread Irmeli Mattsson
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, sparaig [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Irmeli Mattsson 
 Irmeli.Mattsson@ wrote:
 
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, sparaig sparaig@ wrote:
  
   --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Irmeli Mattsson 
   Irmeli.Mattsson@ wrote:
   
  
   I have a really good
rapport with him. 
In the late 80's my participation in the TMO was mainly because 
 of 
   him.

I lost my interest in the TMO, when Chopra left and I saw how 
 the
movement treated him.
   
   How was that? He left and the movement ignored him. He rewrote 
 his 
   books to delete virtually all mention of TM and MMY and hasn't re-
   released Return of the Rishi since he left the TMO. What other 
 famous 
   person have you ever heard of who won't publish his previously 
   published autobiography?
   
   Why do you suppose he hasn't republished it?
   

I think the vehemence is actually envy.
  
   
  Sparaig: Perhaps, or perhaps you're projecting your own feelings.
  
  Irmeli: Could you explain to me what emotions I'm projecting and on
  whom?  Maybe you can help me find out some of my blind spots?
 
 
 You're saying the TMO has vehemence towards Chopra. Actually, the 
 official policy of the TMO is to not talk about Chopra at all. At 
 least for a few years *after* Chopra left the TMO, the son of 
 Chopra's publicist continued to be on Perusha. He was a tad defensive 
 to me about his mother's identity when we spoke on the phone once, 
 but obviously, his mother's professional (and likely personal) 
 relationship with Chopra had not gotten him kicked off the program 
 simply because of the choices of his mom and her professional clients.
 
 If there was a genuine vehemence on the part of the TMO itself, they 
 would have found some reason to get him gone, don't you think?
 
 BTW, you never answered my question:
 
 Why do you suppose he hasn't republished it? [Chopra's autobiography]



I got plugged into this thread by reading Barry's post, where he was
wondering about the vehemence towards Chopra in the discussion by you
and some others. I have no opinion about the republishing, because I
have no background information.

I don't understand, why you connect an adult man's doings and career
choices to what his mother is doing. Are you saying that the rules on
the Purusha and MD are such, that a person cannot stay there, if his
or her parents are found to have careers that are unsuitable to the
present TMO dogma. For example, the parent is a politician and a
devout adherent of democracy.

Are you in a leading position on the Purusha, or why did you question
the man about his mother's identity?

I found it very odd that, when Chopra left the TMO, one was not
anymore allowed to talk about him. Earlier he was talked about almost
as much as MMY, and suddenly he or his books didn't exist anymore. The
teachers actually behaved like he had never existed. 
I had met this kind of behaviour earlier only in the former Soviet
Union, and considered that kind of denial of history to be very
pathological.

 You didn't answer this question of mine: Could you explain to me what
emotions I'm projecting and on whom?  Maybe you can help me find out
some of my blind spots?

I have now answered to your questions. Maybe you could answer to my
questions now?
 
Irmeli





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[FairfieldLife] Re: Beatles angels on earth

2006-02-18 Thread Irmeli Mattsson
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, sparaig [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Irmeli Mattsson 
 Irmeli.Mattsson@ wrote:
 

  I think the vehemence is actually envy.

 
Sparaig: Perhaps, or perhaps you're projecting your own 
 feelings.

Irmeli: Could you explain to me what emotions I'm projecting 
 and on
whom?  Maybe you can help me find out some of my blind spots?
   
   
  Sparaig: You're saying the TMO has vehemence towards Chopra.
Actually, the 
   official policy of the TMO is to not talk about Chopra at all. At 
   least for a few years *after* Chopra left the TMO, the son of 
   Chopra's publicist continued to be on Perusha. He was a tad 
 defensive 
   to me about his mother's identity when we spoke on the phone 
 once, 
   but obviously, his mother's professional (and likely personal) 
   relationship with Chopra had not gotten him kicked off the 
 program 
   simply because of the choices of his mom and her professional 
 clients.
   
   If there was a genuine vehemence on the part of the TMO itself, 
 they 
   would have found some reason to get him gone, don't you think?
   
   BTW, you never answered my question:
   
   Why do you suppose he hasn't republished it? [Chopra's 
 autobiography]
  
  
  
  Irmeli:I got plugged into this thread by reading Barry's post,
where he was
  wondering about the vehemence towards Chopra in the discussion by 
 you
  and some others. I have no opinion about the republishing, because I
  have no background information.
 
Sparaig: I just gave it to you: its out of print and has been since
Chopra 
 left the TMO.
 
  
  Irmeli:I don't understand, why you connect an adult man's doings
and career
  choices to what his mother is doing. Are you saying that the rules 
 on
  the Purusha and MD are such, that a person cannot stay there, if his
  or her parents are found to have careers that are unsuitable to the
  present TMO dogma. For example, the parent is a politician and a
  devout adherent of democracy.
 
 Irmeli:You've misunderstood what I said. The son of Chopra's
publicist was 
 still on Perusha for years after Chopra left. During a phone 
 conversation he said you know my mom, I think... and I made the 
 connection that I was talking to Muriel Nellis's son.
 
 
  
 Irmeli: Are you in a leading position on the Purusha, or why did you 
 question
  the man about his mother's identity?
 
Sparaig: I didn't. He volunteered the information since I had done
publicity 
 work for Chopra and had had several phone conversations with the 
 guy's mom since she was Chopra's publicist after Carla Linton-Brown 
 went back to school.
 
  
  Irmeli:I found it very odd that, when Chopra left the TMO, one was not
  anymore allowed to talk about him. Earlier he was talked about 
 almost
  as much as MMY, and suddenly he or his books didn't exist anymore. 
 The
  teachers actually behaved like he had never existed. 
 
 Sparaig:That was a directive: since Chopra was no longer supporting
the TMO, 
 the TMO was no longer going to support him. Wish him well and move on.
 
 
  Irmeli:I had met this kind of behaviour earlier only in the former
Soviet
  Union, and considered that kind of denial of history to be very
  pathological.
  
 
Sparaig: But Chopra not mentioning TM or MMY in books that were
COMMISSIONED 
 by MMY isn't odd?

Irmeli: In those earlier books I have read by Chopra, he is mentioning 
MMY. Lately I have not read Chopra's books.
But considering how the TMO and MMY treated him after his departure,
it is understandable. I would have done the same.
 
  Irmeli: You didn't answer this question of mine: Could you explain
to me 
 what
  emotions I'm projecting and on whom?  Maybe you can help me find out
  some of my blind spots?
 
 Sparaig:You misread most of what I said. I understand that English
is not 
 your native language, but still, you misinterpretted everything to be 
 opposite of what I said. This certainly implies a set of prejudices 
 on your part to not only misunderstand what I said, but to 
 misunderstand it in such a way as to support what you apparently 
 believe.
 
Irmeli:
If I misunderstood you, could you kindly explain to me what you meant
by this comment of yours in msg 87746:

Irmeli: I think the vehemence is actually envy.

Sparaig:Perhaps, or perhaps you're projecting your own feelings







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[FairfieldLife] Re: Beatles angels on earth

2006-02-18 Thread Irmeli Mattsson
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, sparaig [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:


 
 I have thought for some time now that you are angry and hostile 
 towards the TMO. Perhaps I am wrong. OTOH, your perception of how the 
 TMO treats Chopra  as anger and envy seems to be projection on your 
 part since the TMO simply doesn't talk about Chopra any more than he 
 talks about them.


When Chopra left the TMO, I felt the reaction from the movement's part 
 to be disgusting. What I heard at that time was of course second hand
information, except  my witnessing the TM-teacher's odd and ridiculous
behaviour in not talking about Chopra and if talking the tone was VERY
negative.
 At that time I felt Chopra behaved admirably, by continuing to give
credit to MMY in his books and not saying a negative word about the
TMO. But it was then. I think Chopra feels nowadays the same way as I
do. I avoid to mention about my TM background, as the TMO has become
so extreme cultist and odd.
I don't remember exactly what kind of information I heard at the time
of Chopra's departure, except some dirty lawsuits initiated by the
TMO. It was a shock to me to observe how low level in moral
functioning and reasoning MMY and the TMO had regressed to.  As a
result I stopped all my involvement with the movement for many years.

Later I participated again on some weekend seminars, but I didn't feel
quite comfortable. There were too many odd, even scary features in the
movement. I tried to start a discussion on the problems I perceived on
a Finnish chat group for TM-meditators. I expected an honest
discussion, but never managed to create it. These people actually
couldn't discuss with me. They just got very defensive, and started to
throw dirty, low level insults on me, which is not too uncommon trait
in some people here at FFL either. Luckily they banned me from the group.
 I have been unusually tolerant, all my other meditating friends had
left the movement for good long ago for the same reasons I felt
uncomfortable about. I don't expect people or organizations to be
perfect, but I expect them to accept participating in a dialogue, and
accept discussion and also answering difficult questions and claims.

At that time I was angry, not anymore. I'm more just intellectually
intrigued to follow the different phases and carryings-on of a cult,
in which I have been involved in its earlier phases. I have learned a
lot, which can be of practical use elsewhere also. 
I have participated to discussions of the crisis of the Muslim world,
and the understanding gained through FFL has been really helpful.

I felt practically all the time I was involved annoyed about MMY's way
of leading his movement. But I appreciated a lot of the Vedic
philosophy he, and his co-workers, brought out. The philosophy I have
mainly felt to be fine. But not MMY's fundamentalist approach to it,
neither his way of managing the movement.

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[FairfieldLife] Re: The Value of Tradition

2006-02-17 Thread Irmeli Mattsson




Irmeli: I also feel it to be quite appropriate to create your own
combination of old traditions, by taking from different traditions,
what you feel to valuable in them. 
 
Moose: Thats fine. Just be careful in not assuming the same terms mean
the  same things across traditions. Lots of confusion and delusion
arises, when  people use such terms interoperably, IMO.

Irmeli:A lot of confusion could be avoided, if people tried in
discussions to define the key concepts they use. They often can be
understood in many ways.
In my mind I can conceive numerous definitions for enlightenment based
on what I have understood from between the lines what different people
might mean by it.
The concept I is another amorphous expression. It may not be easy to
define in an exact way, what you mean by it and what you include in
it, but certainly very useful and clarifying even for oneself. 
Without that kind of definitions the `no I' discussions are waste of
time. People argue of this topic suspecting that the other understands
and perceives the concept I in a similar way than oneself.






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[FairfieldLife] Re: Beatles angels on earth

2006-02-17 Thread Irmeli Mattsson
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, TurquoiseB [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

  In trying to think about why Chopra, who has been dissing MMY
  for years -- while getting rich on his spinoffs from TM --  
  would have a change of heart and try to make up (with lies, 
  of course, we are talking about Deepack) for his past bad 
  behavior, I'm thinking that Deepack, in some corner of his 
  dim brain, realizes that MMY is about to die, and wants to 
  make up for his disgusting behavior before Deepack also 
  shuffles off -- in Deeppack's case, to that hell reserved
  for those who insult great saints and piggyback their greed 
  and ambition on the knowledge they received from that saintly
  tradition. Good luck with that...
 
  More likely, he's aware that MMY isn't going to live all that
  much longer and he wants to establish himself as the Maharishi-
  expert that everyone in the media will come to.
 
  *
 
  Possible, but I think even somebody as cynical and stupid as 
 Chopra
  must have some pangs of conscience, although he cannot find any
  real reconciliation through that cloud of arrogance he lives in.
 
  Right on ! He has fallen pray to his own greed obviously. But what
  about the so-called independent tm-teachers, are they not doing
  exactly the same thing ?
 
 Chopra was long after my time in the TM movement. I never
 knew him, and have never even gotten a vibe on him that
 inspired me to read one of his books.
 
 So I don't really understand the *vehemence* above. I mean,
 you've got people saying that they hope that he'll go to 
 hell for essentially deciding to be his own man and put his
 energy into his own projects instead of continuing to shill 
 for Maharishi. What gives?


I have met Chopra a few times by participating in his seminars. Last
time I think it was in Stockholm in 2002. I like him a lot. I think he
is a person of great integrity and insight. I have a really good
rapport with him. 
In the late 80's my participation in the TMO was mainly because of him.

I lost my interest in the TMO, when Chopra left and I saw how the
movement treated him.

I think the vehemence is actually envy.

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[FairfieldLife] Re: Beatles angels on earth

2006-02-17 Thread Irmeli Mattsson
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Irmeli Mattsson 
 Irmeli.Mattsson@ wrote:
 snip
  I have met Chopra a few times by participating in his seminars. Last
  time I think it was in Stockholm in 2002. I like him a lot. I think
  he is a person of great integrity and insight.
 
 So you believe what he told the India Times, that the
 Beatles didn't leave MMY's ashram of their own accord
 because they thought he had been fooling around with
 a woman follower, but rather were thrown out because
 they were doing drugs?


 How could Chopra know about that? He was not in the TMO at that time.
He probably has heard about it from someone, whose word he trusts. 
And I don't base my judgement about a person on a single detail like
this. I look at general patterns in a person's  behaviour.

Irmeli






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[FairfieldLife] Re: Beatles angels on earth

2006-02-17 Thread Irmeli Mattsson
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, sparaig [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Irmeli Mattsson 
 Irmeli.Mattsson@ wrote:
 

 I have a really good
  rapport with him. 
  In the late 80's my participation in the TMO was mainly because of 
 him.
  
  I lost my interest in the TMO, when Chopra left and I saw how the
  movement treated him.
 
 How was that? He left and the movement ignored him. He rewrote his 
 books to delete virtually all mention of TM and MMY and hasn't re-
 released Return of the Rishi since he left the TMO. What other famous 
 person have you ever heard of who won't publish his previously 
 published autobiography?
 
 Why do you suppose he hasn't republished it?
 
  
  I think the vehemence is actually envy.

 
Sparaig: Perhaps, or perhaps you're projecting your own feelings.

Irmeli: Could you explain to me what emotions I'm projecting and on
whom?  Maybe you can help me find out some of my blind spots?





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[FairfieldLife] Re: Beatles angels on earth

2006-02-17 Thread Irmeli Mattsson
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Irmeli Mattsson 
 Irmeli.Mattsson@ wrote:
 
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend jstein@ wrote:
  
   --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Irmeli Mattsson 
   Irmeli.Mattsson@ wrote:
   snip
I have met Chopra a few times by participating in his seminars. 
 Last
time I think it was in Stockholm in 2002. I like him a lot. I 
 think
he is a person of great integrity and insight.
   
   So you believe what he told the India Times, that the
   Beatles didn't leave MMY's ashram of their own accord
   because they thought he had been fooling around with
   a woman follower, but rather were thrown out because
   they were doing drugs?
  
   How could Chopra know about that? He was not in the TMO at that
  time. He probably has heard about it from someone, whose word he 
  trusts.
 
 But that person is apparently untrustworthy, since
 that information is pretty clearly false.  So he
 doesn't seem to have the insight to question it.
 
  And I don't base my judgement about a person on a single detail like
  this. I look at general patterns in a person's  behaviour.
 
 When a person says something that is patently
 untrue--whether deliberately or through lack of
 judgment--I begin to wonder about the truth of
 other things they've said.

I have made myself several such mistakes. I have repeated without
thinking too much someone's words I have found somewhat trustworthy.
Maybe I find this feature in a person's character not so problematic,
because I have precisely the same tendency myself.

If I perceive somebody having been gullible or having told a lie, I
would scrutinize more accurately his other claims. I draw conclusions
only, when I see there a repeating pattern.

IrmeliI have made myself several such mistakes. I have repeated
without thinking too much someone's words I have found somewhat
trustworthy.
Maybe I find this feature in a person's character not so problematic,
because I have precisely the same tendency myself.

If I perceive somebody having been gullible or having told a lie, I
would scrutinize more accurately his other claims. I draw conclusions
only, when I see there a repeating pattern.







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[FairfieldLife] Re: The Value of Tradition

2006-02-16 Thread Irmeli Mattsson
In this post there are some important observations of the value of
tradition. My comments in between.

--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, a_non_moose_ff [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, jim_flanegin jflanegi@ wrote:
 
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, a_non_moose_ff no_reply@ 
  wrote:
  
   You seem to be beyond MMY's teachings. Do you feel you have
   transcended his insights and have (re)cognized a newer or higher
   reality? Do you feel your insights are deeper and superior to his?
  
  Question for you: Why should you, or anyone else, use MMY and what 
  he says or writes as the 'gold standard' for their spiritual 
  development? I'm serious, not just being rhetorical...
 
 Well, I think tradition is valuable in clarifying insights and
 interpretation about ones map, path(sadhana) and experiences. Over the
 years, I have found many people  getting quite confused and misled
 by simplistic understandings they have concocted themselves or
 absorbed from pseudo-teachers out side of any tradition. 
 
 Not to say the holy tradition that MMY says he represents is the
 single ultimate gold standard. But it is one internally consistent
 standard that is based on a substantial amount of tradition,
 practices, milestones, research, traditional records of experience,
 and realized beings. Other traditons may be more substantial in all
 areas, however that doesn't diminsh the value of the guideposts MMY
 has cemented into the spiritual geography.

 
Irmeli: MMY represents his interpretation of the holy tradition. The
main problem with MMY is, that he says his interpretation is the only
complete and pure one, the others are some ways flawed. This kind of
understanding in itself is enough to place him in the fundamentalist
category. It is also good to observe, that he is not respected and
recognized by many influential vedic scholars. There also seems to be
suspicions that at least some of those who recognize him, have been
bought by money.


 Traditions are like guideposts. They provide useful maps and markers.
 Maybe not always interoperable between traditions, but consistent
 and useful within a tradition. Its sort of like scientific theories
 and paradigms. One experiment (one person's experience) does not
 create or substantiate scientific knowledge or theory. It takes many
 experiments, repeated by independent researchers, under diverse
 conditions, and examining many various ranges of observations, to 
 create a sustained and accepted scientific model of how the world works.
 
 Spiritual traditions are similar. One persons experience, no matter
 how grand, does not map out the entire territory of spiritual growth.
 Nor the liklihood of this or that method on this or that aspirant. A
 spiritual tradition synthesizes the experiences of many diffferent
 types of people, under different conditions, over long periods of
 time, and creates a coherent model and standard accepted practices
 suitable for many -- not just one person. 
 
 Such spiritual tradition are not created in one generation. It is not
 ad hoc. It is not made up as one or a group of yogis progress. It
 links individual experience with the experinces, sadhanas and
 roadmaps/views of many aspirants over many generations and centuries.
 
 To disgard all traditions, to make it up as one goes along, is in my
 observations over the years, usually quite foolish and unproductive. I
 have seen a fair amount of people delude themselves over the years.

Irmeli: It is beneficial to study and follow a tradition, but in the
following lies dangerous pitfalls also. The most seductive of them for
many aspirants is starting to obey and follow a teacher or an
organization in an unquestioning fashion having intense need to
believe in the superiority of the leader and his path. A
fundamentalist teacher usually encourages and favours this kind of
behaviour. More beneficial would be if you could take from the
teaching only the part you can with good conscience accept and is in
line with your observations of reality. Blind following permits and
bypass form your common sense and sound judgement. It makes possible
to start act out your low minded impulses. Suppressed negative and
disowned emotions and thought forms are a burden to our mind. Either
you work slowly to uncover and transform those energies or you find
justifications to act them out. Unquestioningly following gives that
kind of justifications. As a fundamentalist you can make others to
feel the fear or coercion, that was too much for you. And
simultaneously feel to be in the service of a higher purpose.


 In the latter 70s, a prominent Golden Boy SIMS lecturer, Walter Belin
 (sp) and his wife, Margurite (long time int'l staffer) wrote a letter
 to MMY about a new guru they had met and were following, a South
 African businessman. MMY said, So the choice is clear, you can follow
 the ageless vedic tradition, our ancient holy tradition, or you can
 follow the Johanesberg 

[FairfieldLife] Re: The Value of Tradition

2006-02-16 Thread Irmeli Mattsson
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, a_non_moose_ff [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Irmeli Mattsson
 Irmeli.Mattsson@ wrote:
 
  In this post there are some important observations of the value of
  tradition. My comments in between.
 
  
   
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, a_non_moose_ff no_reply@ 
wrote:
  Irmeli: MMY represents his interpretation of the holy tradition. The
  main problem with MMY is, that he says his interpretation is the only
  complete and pure one, the others are some ways flawed. This kind of
  understanding in itself is enough to place him in the fundamentalist
  category. It is also good to observe, that he is not respected and
  recognized by many influential vedic scholars. There also seems to be
  suspicions that at least some of those who recognize him, have been
  bought by money.
 
 
Moose: Reasonable points. They don't seem to contradict what I said,
Not to
 say the holy tradition that MMY says he represents is the
 single ultimate gold standard.
 
   
  Moose: Traditions are like guideposts. They provide useful maps
and markers.
   Maybe not always interoperable between traditions, but consistent
   and useful within a tradition. Its sort of like scientific theories
   and paradigms. One experiment (one person's experience) does not
   create or substantiate scientific knowledge or theory. It takes many
   experiments, repeated by independent researchers, under diverse
   conditions, and examining many various ranges of observations, to 
   create a sustained and accepted scientific model of how the world
 works.
   
   Spiritual traditions are similar. One persons experience, no matter
   how grand, does not map out the entire territory of spiritual
growth.
   Nor the liklihood of this or that method on this or that aspirant. A
   spiritual tradition synthesizes the experiences of many diffferent
   types of people, under different conditions, over long periods of
   time, and creates a coherent model and standard accepted practices
   suitable for many -- not just one person. 
   
   Such spiritual tradition are not created in one generation. It
is not
   ad hoc. It is not made up as one or a group of yogis progress. It
   links individual experience with the experinces, sadhanas and
   roadmaps/views of many aspirants over many generations and
centuries.
   
   To disgard all traditions, to make it up as one goes along, is in my
   observations over the years, usually quite foolish and
unproductive. I
   have seen a fair amount of people delude themselves over the years.
 
 
  Irmeli: It is beneficial to study and follow a tradition, but in the
  following lies dangerous pitfalls also. The most seductive of them for
  many aspirants is starting to obey and follow a teacher or an
  organization in an unquestioning fashion having intense need to
  believe in the superiority of the leader and his path. A
  fundamentalist teacher usually encourages and favours this kind of
  behaviour. More beneficial would be if you could take from the
  teaching only the part you can with good conscience accept and is in
  line with your observations of reality. Blind following permits and
  bypass form your common sense and sound judgement. It makes possible
  to start act out your low minded impulses. Suppressed negative and
  disowned emotions and thought forms are a burden to our mind. Either
  you work slowly to uncover and transform those energies or you find
  justifications to act them out. Unquestioningly following gives that
  kind of justifications. As a fundamentalist you can make others to
  feel the fear or coercion, that was too much for you. And
  simultaneously feel to be in the service of a higher purpose.
 
 
 
 Moose:Reasonable points. They don't seem to contradict what I said.
 
  
  
  Moose: In the latter 70s, a prominent Golden Boy SIMS lecturer,
Walter Belin
   (sp) and his wife, Margurite (long time int'l staffer) wrote a
letter
   to MMY about a new guru they had met and were following, a South
   African businessman. MMY said, So the choice is clear, you can
follow
   the ageless vedic tradition, our ancient holy tradition, or you can
   follow the Johanesberg (sp) tradition. He laughed as did
everyone for
   about five minutes.
  
  
  Irmeli: The situation could also be seen as a choice between a
  fundamentalist teacher unrecognised by important representatives of
  the tradition he represents and a more pragmatic teacher, who was
  better capable of integrating his teaching to modern reality, even if
  having less knowledge of vedic tradition.
  
 
 Moose:Ok. We can create any number of nice hypotheticals.
 
   
   Not to say a person of great purity and insight doesn't come along
   occasionally and total knowledge just unfolds within them with
no help
   from tradition. But this is a soul beyond most, beyond the
path and
   needs of a young SB Saraswati, Yogananda, etc. Usually its an
   avatar, like

[FairfieldLife] Re: Dalai Lama: Meditation as Therapy

2006-02-13 Thread Irmeli Mattsson
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, wayback71 [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, coshlnx coshlnx@ wrote:
 
  --- 
  
  --- 
   http://www.snowlionpub.com/pages/N73_1.php
  
  Another article: Science at the Crossroads by the Dalai Lama
  http://www.dalailama.com/page.8.htm 
  
  
  --- End forwarded message ---
 
 This article is such a pleasure to read.  In fact, it seems as if
the Dalai Lama is picking up 
 where MMY left off back in the 70's.  This is the kind of reasoned,
no-hype, generous 
 discussion that I had thought the TMO would be leading to.  MMY and
all the hype must be 
 doing something, but I would think that this style of conversation
and research influences 
 so many more people.  Such different approaches to essentially the
same stuff.



I also enjoyed reading the article, as I have enjoyed many other texts
by the Dalai Lama.
In him I perceive a person with clarity of reason and compassion of
heart  and with capacity  of integrating to a whole the modern
scientific evolving world and ancient wisdom. He is ready to question
ancient texts, if modern  scientific empirical evidence shows
otherwise. He has been capable of  changing his position in the for
him important issue of liberating Tibet from the occupation by China
and accepts it now. He is humble and wise. 

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[FairfieldLife] Re: Can the enlightened make mistakes?

2006-02-06 Thread Irmeli Mattsson
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Alex Stanley
[EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Peter drpetersutphen@ wrote:
 
  
  
  --- jim_flanegin jflanegi@ wrote:
  
  
   
   Where my mind stops is when I hear about people
   making 'mistakes'. 
   What IS a mistake, anyway? I personally couldn't
   tell ya...
  
  Exactly. What is a mistake? It's simply a term used to
  indicate something we don't like. 
  
 Last summer I looked back on how my life had unfolded, and I was
 thankful that for all the emotional pain I endured, the choices I made
 were the only reason I was happy, healthy, and still alive. Later on,
 the thought occurred to me that this was merely a value judgment and
 that it could have been just as perfect had I died. That's when I
 ditched all the mental masturbation about free will. Things happen
 exactly as they should. Why? Because that's the way they happened. 
 
 Alex


When something  falls  from  one's hand to the floor, we perceive the
occurrence as mistake. If not we wouldn't even pick the thing up.

From a bigger perspective everything may be perfect as it is, but
perceiving something as a mistake or error may activate changes in our
behavioural patterns.

My husband perceives me as somewhat careless. I myself usually don't
see any problem with it. As long as I'm satisfied with my behaviour,
there are very little chances for changes. But my husband may get even
more irritated and then at some point I get frustrated about his
irritation and perceive it as a mistake. And maybe at some point I may
try to take his position and look at my patterns and see that I could
pay a little more attention to some details I have felt to be
unimportant. And only then there is some chances of becoming less
sloppy. This is just a simple example how perceiving something as a
mistake can lead to changes.

Perceiving everything as perfect in daily life I feel to be a kind of
mood making. Feeling frustrated about one's mistakes at best gives
energy for a new start. I usually swear silently in my mind, when I
perceive a mistake, and it helps to transform the frustration to
renewed activity.

Irmeli





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[FairfieldLife] Re: Intention revisited

2006-01-26 Thread Irmeli Mattsson
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Patrick Gillam [EMAIL PROTECTED]
wrote:

 --- Vaj wrote:
 
  It proved to me that if the underlying and deepest motivation was
not  
  pure, the result would ultimately reflect this. Therefore it was  
  always important to check your own motivation. It forms the basis  
  of all action in the relative.
 
 Is there a way to retire an originating intention and start 
 anew? Short of killing the entire entity that arose from the 
 originating intention, that is.
 
 I wonder about this when I see flawed organizations that 
 get their flaws from some aspect of the originating 
 intention. Rhode Island, for instance.


Seeing and understanding your underlying motive having defects in it,
is in itself already a new start. This new insight starts slowly to
put in motion a slightly different kind of action, with results that
reflect the new understanding and insecurity about the less than pure
motive. 
In many cases this first step may mean starting to put more attention
on hiding your motives. In the long run however that structure will
dissolve the part of the construction that was built on faulty premises.

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[FairfieldLife] Begging money and charity

2006-01-24 Thread Irmeli Mattsson
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, TurquoiseB [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:


 The thing that's fascinating to me is the trickle-
 down craziness involved with this. It's not just a 
 case of some lazy fucks realizing that there is an
 easy way to avoid working, and that it's called 
 begging. That's just one side of the phenomenon and
 of the conditioning.
 
 The other side of the conditioning is seen in the
 *sponsors*, the people who have been taught that 
 there is some *benefit* to themselves that accrues
 when they pay so that these guys and gals never have 
 to work.  It's a remarkably symbiotic relationship; 
 one side of the equation couldn't exist without 
 the other. 
 
 I know that a lot of people here and in spiritual
 trips in general just assume that this is all a given,
 and that it's always worked this way -- people who
 have chosen a full-time spiritual career being 
 supported by those who have money and have chosen
 a more householder path.  I'm challenging the very
 *idea* because I really believe that it's a *bad*
 idea, and that most of the problems that one can
 find in *any* spiritual tradition spring from this
 assumption, and from this practice. Historically,
 the spiritual traditions in which the monks or 
 clergy pay their own way in life, and are *not*
 supported by the rank and file members of the
 organization, seem to me to be much cleaner and
 spiritually healthier.
 
 Just *think* about it for a moment -- it's one of
 the biggest scams in human history. In almost every
 era and in every tradition, all that you had to do
 to avoid getting a job like everybody else was to
 claim to be spiritual and get other people to pay
 so that you could be spiritual full time.  I'm 
 open to the possibility that many of these full-time
 teachers might have done a few nice things for the
 world, but when you look at it objectively, it's
 really quite amazing that no one really challenges
 the status quo of this whole scene and questions
 it.  The meme of the rank-and-file rabble paying
 for the lives of the spiritual elite is that 
 taken for granted, that ingrained in the collective
 consciousness.



This is healthy questioning.

The kind of giving where you buy yourself a good conscience and a
better feeling of yourself by the giving, makes me feel quite
uncomfortable. It could be healthy to ask oneself: why do I need to
buy myself a good conscience? 

A lot of developmental aid has been given to the developing countries,
but how much has it really helped those people? Look at Africa? Could
it be worse without the aid and interfering in the lives of those
people by westerners in the name of charity.

I am all for support for the poor and weak. Unfortunately this support
often comes in a form that makes it possible for people to continue
with the attitudes and lifestyle that has made them poor and weak.
Basically the same applies for spiritual people. 

The idea of people in spiritual organizations living luxurious lives
through actively collecting support money feels disgusting. Even more
disgusting feels the present trend in many organizations to collect
money to charity purposes and then actually use at least part of that
money to empire building for your organization and your own luxurious
life.

Mother Theresa is often seen as an epitome of selfless giving. But was
she really? She also powerfully preached against birth control. In
other words she actively contributed to the situation that a lot of
children are born to unbearable life-conditions. And then she created
herself a halo by bringing a little bit relief to a few of those
unfortunate beings.
I have heard that Indian government doesn't like the work of her
organization, because it attracts poor people to the big cities, which
increases the problems of the slums. These people would be better off
in their villages.

We send food aid to people in hunger. And what is the result? These
people breed like rabbits. The number of people living in unbearable
conditions multiplies. And no incentive appears for them to change
their values and attitudes and lifestyle, that has lead to their
present  problems.

Of course I feel also bad about the idea of not helping those people.
But open and honest evaluation of the situation may help in developing
better means to help. And it may help in discriminating between the
help organizations.

I myself believe at the moment that the best way to help developing
countries is, when governments  give money to those governments in
developing countries that do good work. And the private help
organizations should at least try to co-operate with the governments
of the developing countries.

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[FairfieldLife] Commentaries on the shiva sutras (was Quantum Consciousness )

2006-01-23 Thread Irmeli Mattsson
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com,
tomandcindytraynoratfairfieldlis
[EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 Tom T:
 From the shiva sutras third awakening
 
 24. When a yogi, after developing awareness of God Consciousness,
 transcends the state of Turiya, he enters into Transcendental God
 Consciousness.
 
 25. Such a yogi becomes one with Shiva.
 
 26. For him the austerity is nothing else than the normal routine of
 physical life.
 
 27. And for such a yogi the daily routine talk becomes the recitation
 of real mantra.
 
 28. Such a yogi gives as alms to humanity his own knowledge of the Self.
 
 29. The yogi, who commands the entire wheel of cognitive and active
 organs, is the only means of attaining knowledge of Transcendental God
 Consciousness.
 
 30. For him the whole universe is the totality of his own energies.
 
 31. Living in this world of ignorance or remaining in the
 Transcendental God Consciousness is the totality of one's own energies
 of consciousness.
 
 32. Such a yogi, though apparently engrossed in the daily routine of
 life, is in no way separated from God Consciousness.
 
 33. Because such a yogi perceives the states of pain and pleasure only
 superficially, they, in no case, affect his state of
 Supreme-Being-Consciousness.
 
 34. Hence he is liberated from the states of pain and pleasure and is
 uniquely established in his own nature.
 
 35. On the contrary, the one who feels the absence of God
 Consciousness in the states of pain and pleasure, is an individual
 soul and a victim of recurring births and deaths.
 
 36. The one who stands aloof from differentiatedness becomes the
 creator and destroyer of the entire universe.
 
 37. The energy of creating and destroying the whole universe comes
 within the experience of such a yogi just as an ordinary soul
 possesses the power to create and destroy during his dreaming state.
 
 38. The state of Turiya God Consciousness, that comes into experience
 in the beginning and at the end of the other three states (waking,
 dreaming, and deep sleep), should be infused and transmitted into
 these three states by firmly establishing one's own awareness during
 these intervals - beginning and end thereof.
 
 39. And by developing such a process, a yogi must transmit the God
 Consciousness not only into the three states of individuality but into
 the entire universe.
 
 40. By the slight appearance of individual desire, one is carried far
 away from the state of God Consciousness.
 
 41. By firmly establishing one's own Self in the state of Turiya, all
 desires disappear and individuality is lost into universality.
 
 42. Such a yogi is liberated in life and as his body still exists, his
 is called bhuta-kanchuki - having his physical body as a mere covering
 just like an ordinary blanket. Hence he is supreme and one with the
 universal Self.
 
 43. After remaining in this state of universal Transcendental God
 Consciousness, the functions of inhalation and exhalation
 automatically take place with the object that this whole universe of
 action and cognition is united in God Consciousness.
 
 44. When one contemplates on the center of Universal Consciousness,
 what else remains there to be sought in the practice of prana, apana,
 and sushumna?
 
 45. When a Shiva-yogi is completely established in God Consciousness,
 he experiences this state spontaneously within and without or both.
 The End..


There are a few serious defects in perception and understanding of
higher states of consciousness and human evolving in points 35 and 36
in these sutras.

According to # 35 becoming an individual soul means falling away from
the grace of God Consciousness.

Development in modern societies has been going towards greater
individuation and towards relying on own judgement and discrimination
. The modern welfare is based on this shift.

Not becoming an individual soul has meant unquestioningly following
the group and its traditions and following an absolute ruler. It has
meant also the soothing experience of symbiosis and lack of
responsibility of one's actions. Democracy isn't an option without
individual souls.

According to # 36  the one , who stays away from differentiatedness
becomes the creator and destroyer of the entire universe.

The creator of this point has clearly had a condition that we in
modern times with our new discriminative capacity call megalomaniac.

The evolving nature goes toward greater differentiatedness in spite of
some groupsouls trying to resist this natural law that is the driving
force of the manifest phenomenal world.

Retranslation #36 to be more according the laws of nature would sound
maybe something like this: The one who stays aloof from
differetiatedness becomes a preserving force preventing too fast
differentiation, and if this force becomes too strong it can destroy
the world the person or group has influence over. Also the force of
differentiation, if it becomes too strong can destroy the world. The
key here is the balance 

[FairfieldLife] Re: FW: [nhnenews] Paula Zahn Now: 'Sex For Salvation?'

2006-01-23 Thread Irmeli Mattsson
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Peter [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 
 
 --- Irmeli Mattsson [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:
 
  There is a little booklet written by a Finnish
  clergyman Raimo Mäkelä.
  He has been working for the Finnish Established
  Church. The title of
  the book would be in English something like : The
  healthy mind as a
  mask. It was published in 2001.
  
  There he describes  a certain personality type,
  which he calls the
  psychopath, or the narsissistic personality. His
  view is, apparently
  through his own difficult experiences, that people
  with this disorder
  abound inside the Churches, and also in important
  positions there. 
  
  He sees the only way to avoid abuse and damage done
  by these people to
  be to learn to recognize those people, and not
  letting them get in
  leading positions. And if they have gotten in those
  positions and you
  recognize having one as your boss, it would be
  better to leave.
  
  He has written the concise booklet in order to
  improve people's
  discrimination in this respect. Many people have
  told the book was for
  them a real eye-opener. Almost everyone of us has
  experienced at some
  point serious frustration, or felt having been used,
  by people with
  those characteristics.
  
  These people most probably continue to exist, and
  they have very
  strong cravings for being seen as superior and for
  power. Because this
  condition is very common, I personally am suspicious
  of every person,
  who has created him/herself a situation, where
  he/she is seen as a
  superior being, whose actions are beyond our
  capacity of judgement.
  I'm also very suspicious of everyone, who has
  created himself a
  saintly image.
  
  In Finnish the word for saint is pyhimys. It is
  very close to the
  Finnish word ylimys, wich means aristrocrat. The
  word ylimys is
  derived from the adjective ylimielinen, which
  describes someone who
  considers himself to be superior to others and so he
  doesn't respect
  the others.
  
  Irmeli
 
 The old addage by Nietzsche, Power corrupts and
 absolute power corrupts absolutely. I wonder how many
 of those who abuse their power by using others to
 gratify their own desires start out that way? Perhaps
 the temptation is so great and the resistance so low 
 by the object' that it is near impossible to resist.
 
 

This is most certainly part of the truth. But it doesn't explain why
the abusers often resort to very tricky manipulations and lies in
order to get what they want? In spite of their positions the abuse is
usually not easily done with open cards. It is not just a candy you
can take almost by mistake, when your attention is somewhere else.
Lot's of planning, hiding and lies are needed. And these people also
nowadays risk their careers, which makes them feel wanting to shout:
Damn Democracy.

Irmeli

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[FairfieldLife] Re: FW: [nhnenews] Paula Zahn Now: 'Sex For Salvation?'

2006-01-23 Thread Irmeli Mattsson
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, TurquoiseB [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Irmeli Mattsson 
 [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Peter [EMAIL PROTECTED] 
 wrote:
  
   The old addage by Nietzsche, Power corrupts and
   absolute power corrupts absolutely. I wonder how many
   of those who abuse their power by using others to
   gratify their own desires start out that way? Perhaps
   the temptation is so great and the resistance so low 
   by the object' that it is near impossible to resist.
  
  
  Irmeli:This is most certainly part of the truth. But it doesn't 
  explain why the abusers often resort to very tricky 
  manipulations and lies in order to get what they want? 
 
 Barry:You haven't specified any examples of what you consider
 tricky manipulations.  Please do so.

Irmeli:This thread started with an aricle Sex for Salvation, where
the bishop promised salvation for the woman if she had sex with him.
He also told her that the rules against adultery are for ordinary
people only, he, and she with him, will be above those rules. I cannot
believe that the bishop had ever done any serious self-examination or
introspection on these claims. He was using these claims to get want
he wanted to justify himself his actions.
 
 Irmeli: In spite of their positions the abuse is
  usually not easily done with open cards. 
 
Barry: In a spiritual context, I'm going to have to disagree 
 with you. In almost every case I've ever seen of abuse 
 of power by someone in a position of authority in a 
 spiritual context, they really didn't have to work
 very hard to deceive anyone. The victims were lining
 up right and left, ready and willing to be fleeced,
 because their own desires were being pandered to.
 
 For example, if you delve into cases of a spiritual 
 teacher sleeping with a student, in almost *every* 
 case what you'll find -- in addition to a teacher who 
 couldn't keep his dick in his pants -- is a student 
 who felt flattered at being seduced or actively par-
 ticipated in the seduction because it makes her feel 
 more special.  The teacher may be telling the
 student a few lies to get into her pants, but the 
 student in most cases *wants* to hear those lies. It's
 a cooperative effort, a symbiosis of mutual deception.
 

Irmeli:With open cards I mean not trying to hide the relationship from
others. With open cards I understand also the bishop not trying to act
a role of a pious guide and a loyal husband, when he is not.
But I'm with you with the understanding that the woman is a co-creator
of the situation. I just expect the leader and teacher to behave in a
more responsible way than the student. If the other way around, the
woman should be in the leading position.

  Irmeli:It is not just a candy you can take almost by mistake, 
  when your attention is somewhere else. Lot's of planning, 
  hiding and lies are needed. 
 
Barry: Again, I disagree completely. I think this is just an
 attempt to make the teachers the bad guys and the 
 students the poor, innocent victims. I would suggest
 that in many if not most cases the victim was per-
 fectly happy to be lied to as long as they felt more
 special than people outside the group or than other
 students within the group.  It's just human nature,
 and teachers merely take advantage of it.


Irmeli:I agree fully with this. The main problem here is that the
teacher pretends himself to be capable of acting from a higher moral
level. His getting to his high position has probably become possible
through this pretending and lying.
This pretension must have become an established habit much before he
got to the position of a bishop. It is not just that power corrupts.
Also corrupted people often get into important positions using
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[FairfieldLife] Re: FW: [nhnenews] Paula Zahn Now: 'Sex For Salvation?'

2006-01-23 Thread Irmeli Mattsson
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, TurquoiseB [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Irmeli Mattsson 
 [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, TurquoiseB [EMAIL PROTECTED] 
 wrote:
  
   I would suggest
   that in many if not most cases the victim was per-
   fectly happy to be lied to as long as they felt more
   special than people outside the group or than other
   students within the group.  It's just human nature,
   and teachers merely take advantage of it.
  
  I agree fully with this. The main problem here is that the
  teacher pretends himself to be capable of acting from a higher 
  moral level. 
 
 If this happens, I think we're agreed that it's not
 a good thing. It wouldn't be a good thing if the 
 reacher really *was* enlightened.
 
  His getting to his high position has probably become possible
  through this pretending and lying. This pretension must have 
  become an established habit much before he got to the position 
  of a bishop. It is not just that power corrupts.
  Also corrupted people often get into important positions using
  corruption and lies as they climb ladders
 
 Barry:I'm not convinced of this. I've seen a lot of people
 lose it once they *got* to a position in which a lot
 of people were focusing their attention on them. I
 tend to think more occultly, and believe that this
 focus is what took them out. In many cases the 
 students were *expecting* the teachers to act like
 little gods, and the teachers themselves were not
 strong enough to resist the role that was being
 projected onto them by the students, so they went
 along with it. Once they start down that path, it's
 very difficult to turn around.


Irmeli: I agree with this. The corruption may be more often happening
this way.
People's expectations are probably the biggest villain here. The other 
is the leader's attachment to his position and need to keep it by all
means. The good news is that nowadays the corrupted means are starting
to fail the leaders more and more often.





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[FairfieldLife] Re: FW: [nhnenews] Paula Zahn Now: 'Sex For Salvation?'

2006-01-22 Thread Irmeli Mattsson
There is a little booklet written by a Finnish clergyman Raimo Mäkelä.
He has been working for the Finnish Established Church. The title of
the book would be in English something like : The healthy mind as a
mask. It was published in 2001.

There he describes  a certain personality type, which he calls the
psychopath, or the narsissistic personality. His view is, apparently
through his own difficult experiences, that people with this disorder
abound inside the Churches, and also in important positions there. 

He sees the only way to avoid abuse and damage done by these people to
be to learn to recognize those people, and not letting them get in
leading positions. And if they have gotten in those positions and you
recognize having one as your boss, it would be better to leave.

He has written the concise booklet in order to improve people's
discrimination in this respect. Many people have told the book was for
them a real eye-opener. Almost everyone of us has experienced at some
point serious frustration, or felt having been used, by people with
those characteristics.

These people most probably continue to exist, and they have very
strong cravings for being seen as superior and for power. Because this
condition is very common, I personally am suspicious of every person,
who has created him/herself a situation, where he/she is seen as a
superior being, whose actions are beyond our capacity of judgement.
I'm also very suspicious of everyone, who has created himself a
saintly image.

In Finnish the word for saint is pyhimys. It is very close to the
Finnish word ylimys, wich means aristrocrat. The word ylimys is
derived from the adjective ylimielinen, which describes someone who
considers himself to be superior to others and so he doesn't respect
the others.

Irmeli



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wrote:

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 SEX FOR SALVATION?
 Paul Zahn Now, on CNN, USA
 January 19, 2006 
 
 http://cnnstudentnews.cnn.com/TRANSCRIPTS/0601/19/pzn.01.html
 
 ZAHN: I want to warn you now that you may not want the kids in the
room for
 this next story. It deals with some disturbing allegations of sex,
trust and
 betrayal. The central figures in the story, a major church in a big
city,
 its respected leader, and a young woman who turned there for spiritual
 comfort after a crisis.
 
 Here is David Mattingly with tonight's Eye Opener.
 
 (BEGIN VIDEOTAPE) 
 
 MONA BREWER, FORMER CHAPEL HILL HARVESTER CHURCH MEMBER: And she
died when
 she was 18 in a car accident suddenly. And I really had a real
experience
 with God at that time.
 
 DAVID MATTINGLY, CNN CORRESPONDENT (voice-over): Twenty years ago
and just a
 teenager, a young Mona Brewer was reeling from the death of her
sister and
 turned to God. She found comfort in the welcoming arms of the Chapel
Hill
 Harvester Church near Atlanta http://www.col.tv/. At the time, it
was one
 of the nation's growing charismatic mega- churches, with thousands of
 members led by the influential Bishop Earl Paulk.
 
 BISHOP EARL PAULK, CHAPEL HILL HARVESTER CHURCH: I want you to
praise God
 with us today. 
 
 BREWER: He had a -- a fresh word from God every time he came to the
pulpit,
 which was several times a week. And it was amazing, you know, that
God spoke
 to him such -- on such a frequency. And we were taught that spiritual
 authority was -- your level of spiritual authority was according to, you
 know, your revelation from God, or the things that God revealed to a
person.
 And he was -- we were taught he was a prophet and an apostle in the
church.
 
 MATTINGLY: Mona says she came to view Paulk, a married father and
 grandfather, as a holy messenger of the lord selected by God to
speak for
 the almighty. And, over time, Bishop Paulk's church became her life.
Mona
 became a teacher in the church school, a soloist in the church
choir. And,
 at age 27, she even married an associate church pastor, a union
blessed by
 Paulk himself, a man she believed so close to God that his words
could never
 be questioned. 
 
 BREWER: There were signs on the walls at the church. They didn't put
 scriptures on the wall. They put his sayings, his quotations. And one of
 them was, The kingdom of God is built in trust. And we were taught
that we
 were to trust our spiritual authority, and we were taught not to
question
 it. 
 
 MATTINGLY: And so it went for years, Mona says, until, one day,
Paulk asked
 for a meeting with her. It was a request that left her both elated and
 curious. 
 
 BREWER: I was just overwhelmed, because that was such a great
opportunity.
 Nobody got to do that. I mean, he was awesome. I mean, everybody
wanted to
 talk to him. And he just invited me to his office to talk to him for
a few
 minutes. And that was really incredible.
 
 (MUSIC)
 
 MATTINGLY: She says this man she respected so much, it turns out,
had been
 moved by her 

[FairfieldLife] Re: The great lie of Quantum Physics and Consciousness

2006-01-22 Thread Irmeli Mattsson
I have experienced many odd coincidences, that could be also explained
as just coincidences. I however think I have too many of them and many
of those really don't feel like a coincidences, even if some I see as
such.

For a few years ago I was participating a vedic recitation weekend
course by the TMO in Estonia in Tallinn. When I was walking on
Saturday morning from my hotel to the course place, I realized I don't
have a notebook and on TM courses you don't have those available for
the course participants. About five minutes later I saw in front of my
feet on the pavement a notebook, picked it up and saw that it was
unused and clean, and took it.

Years ago, when my sons where 2 and 3 years old, and we lived in an
apartment, a thought appeared that it would be good for the boys to
spend the summer in the countryside. However at that time we had not
enough money to hire a summer cottage. And so I dropped the idea. A
week after that my husband's  colleague at work asked him if he wants
to hire a very cheap, but nice cottage, which he did. My husband did
not know of my thoughts about a summer place. And we spent there many
summers. It was the only time someone has offered us a summer cottage
and the only occasion, we where in need of one. 

What the physical reality mechanism behind these occurrences is I
don't know.

Irmeli

--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Ingegerd
[EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 A common story told to us on TM-courses - was about the meditator 
 that wished for an apple and suddenly the apple was in his hand. I 
 have never experienced such a thing, but I think from my mind it is 
 possible from the consciousness to create material things. Deepak 
 Chopra has explained it in a rational way. Everything starts with a 
 vibration who creates a sound which creates a form.
 Ingegerd
 
 
 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, shempmcgurk 
 [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:
 
  I always thought that the connection that the TMO made to quantum 
  physics was always just a cute little analogy and nothing more.  
  Never took it seriously and I always hoped no one else would 
 either.
  
  Beyond being an analogy and using the platform of quantum 
 mechanics 
  to serve as an illustration for how consicousness works, I never 
 saw 
  an actual connection between the working of the mind and 
  consciousness and physics.
  
  
  
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Vaj [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:
  
   File Under: TMO lies and marketing ploys; Boomeritis Hinduism; 
  Pseudo- 
   advaita
   
   Answers from biologist and physicist Ken Wilber.
   
   http://www.tinyurl.com/cmay6
   
   The first question has to do directly with the relation of 
 modern  
   quantum physics and spirituality. In effect, does physics prove 
  God,  
   does the Tao find proof in quantum realities?
   
   Answer: Categorically not. I don't know more confusion in the 
  last  
   thirty years than has come from quantum physics
   
   Ken goes on to outline the three major confusions that have 
  dominated  
   the popular (mis)understanding of the relationship of physics 
 and  
   mysticism.
   
   #1: Your consciousness does not create electrons. Unlike 
  Newtonian  
   physics, which can predict the location of large objects moving 
  at  
   slow speeds, quantum physics only offers a probability wave in 
  which  
   a given particle, like an electron, should show up. But here's 
  the  
   funny thing: it is only at the moment that one makes the 
  measurement  
   that the electron actually does show up. Certain writers and  
   theorists have thus suggested that human intentionality 
 actually  
   creates reality on a quantum level. The most popular version of 
  this  
   idea can be found in the movie What the Bleep Do We Know?!, in 
  which  
   we qwaff reality into existence.
   
   Ken suggests this is both bad physics and bad mysticism. As for 
  the  
   former, in his book, Quantum Questions, Ken compiled the 
 original  
   writings of the 13 most important founders of modern quantum 
 and  
   relativistic physics, to explore their understanding of the  
   relationship of physics and mysticism. Without exception, each 
 one 
  of  
   them believed that modern physics does NOT prove spiritual 
  realities  
   in any fashion. And yet each of them was a mystic, not because 
 of  
   physics, but in spite of it. By pushing to the outer limits of 
  their  
   discipline, a feat which requires true genius, they found 
  themselves  
   face to face with those realities that physics categorically 
  could  
   not explain.
   
   Likewise, none of those founders of modern physics believed that 
  the  
   act of consciousness was responsible for creating particles at 
  the  
   quantum level. David Bohm did not believe that, Schroedinger did 
  not  
   believe that, Heisenberg did not believe that. That belief 
  requires  
   the enormous self-infatuation and narcissism, or boomeritis, 
 of 
  the  
   

[FairfieldLife] Re: The great lie of Quantum Physics and Consciousness

2006-01-22 Thread Irmeli Mattsson

--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Ingegerd
[EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 I have had the same experience many times - and without thinking 
 what it is, I have used it as a technique for many years. If I 
 really want something seriously, a job, need for money, whatever, I 
 wish and forget - and the wishes is fullfilled in some way or 
 another. I do not know the mechanisms, but it works.
 One of the strangest things that happened to me, was a winter day, 
 when I walked in the city, and I realized that a yogi was walking 
 with me, barefooted and without much cloths. He was very powerfull, 
 and filled me with a lot of energy. Then he disappeared. When I came 
 home, I found the letter from the TMOs lawyer threathen to sue me. 
 If I should describe the Yogi. he looked like Tat Wala Baba - maybe 
 Hanuman. I do not know.
 Ingegerd

I have had also similar experiences of feeling somebody's presence
very near me. Earlier I could also sometimes see their physical form
as a light body. 

I have become a grandmother a few months ago. My son and his wife kept
the boy's name secret before the christening. I had not a clue, what
his name will be. The day before the christening my mother called me
in the morning and told me that she had seen a very vivid dream, that
felt totally real. In the dream the boy had already a name and she
told me what it was. The dream felt so real that my mother was quite
certain it will be his name.
The next day in the church, when I heard that the name my mother
mentioned actually was given to the boy, I first felt stunned and then
thrilled.
Many people present tried to explain this as a coincidence or a good
guess.
I later calculated  the likelihood of guessing right and it was not
very big.

I think that these kind of occurrences are much more common that the
likelihood of coincidences would permit.

Irmeli

 
 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Irmeli Mattsson 
 [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:
 
  I have experienced many odd coincidences, that could be also 
 explained
  as just coincidences. I however think I have too many of them and 
 many
  of those really don't feel like a coincidences, even if some I see 
 as
  such.
  
  For a few years ago I was participating a vedic recitation weekend
  course by the TMO in Estonia in Tallinn. When I was walking on
  Saturday morning from my hotel to the course place, I realized I 
 don't
  have a notebook and on TM courses you don't have those available 
 for
  the course participants. About five minutes later I saw in front 
 of my
  feet on the pavement a notebook, picked it up and saw that it was
  unused and clean, and took it.
  
  Years ago, when my sons where 2 and 3 years old, and we lived in an
  apartment, a thought appeared that it would be good for the boys to
  spend the summer in the countryside. However at that time we had 
 not
  enough money to hire a summer cottage. And so I dropped the idea. A
  week after that my husband's  colleague at work asked him if he 
 wants
  to hire a very cheap, but nice cottage, which he did. My husband 
 did
  not know of my thoughts about a summer place. And we spent there 
 many
  summers. It was the only time someone has offered us a summer 
 cottage
  and the only occasion, we where in need of one. 
  
  What the physical reality mechanism behind these occurrences is I
  don't know.
  
  Irmeli
  
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Ingegerd
  [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:
  
   A common story told to us on TM-courses - was about the 
 meditator 
   that wished for an apple and suddenly the apple was in his hand. 
 I 
   have never experienced such a thing, but I think from my mind it 
 is 
   possible from the consciousness to create material things. 
 Deepak 
   Chopra has explained it in a rational way. Everything starts 
 with a 
   vibration who creates a sound which creates a form.
   Ingegerd
   
   
   --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, shempmcgurk 
   [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:
   
I always thought that the connection that the TMO made to 
 quantum 
physics was always just a cute little analogy and nothing 
 more.  
Never took it seriously and I always hoped no one else would 
   either.

Beyond being an analogy and using the platform of quantum 
   mechanics 
to serve as an illustration for how consicousness works, I 
 never 
   saw 
an actual connection between the working of the mind and 
consciousness and physics.



--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Vaj [EMAIL PROTECTED] 
 wrote:

 File Under: TMO lies and marketing ploys; Boomeritis 
 Hinduism; 
Pseudo- 
 advaita
 
 Answers from biologist and physicist Ken Wilber.
 
 http://www.tinyurl.com/cmay6
 
 The first question has to do directly with the relation of 
   modern  
 quantum physics and spirituality. In effect, does physics 
 prove 
God,  
 does the Tao find proof in quantum realities?
 
 Answer: Categorically

[FairfieldLife] Re: the false guru test

2005-12-22 Thread Irmeli Mattsson
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Peter [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 I just realized that this whole discussion of a
 false guru is nonsense. Of what purpose are all
 these criteria? Are these to be used to select a guru?
 No, not as they are written. They are simply an
 attempt by a mind to position itself in relationship
 to a narrative it likes regarding gurus. They have an
 ideal guru in mind and compare and judge every flesh
 and blood guru to this one. It's really nonsense and
 no practical function. Just mind fluff (very sticky
 indeed!). The only way to see if a guru is of value is
 to involve yourself in their teaching for an honest
 amount of time. If it works for you, great, if it
 doesn't, move on. Buddha didn't disparage the teachers
 he studied with and found inadequate to his
 enlightenment. He just moved on. These teachers had a
 value for other people, not for him. MMY has had great
 value for many people. Many people still gain value
 from him. Many have moved on. It is what it is. To
 lock yourself into a conceptual model of a perfect
 guru is just silliness. Like wishing for the perfect
 mate or mother or father. A sign of psychological
 immaturity, isn't it?
 


This discussion is not nonsense. It can be crucially important
information to some people in their spiritual navigation. Few people
select their guru based solely on these criteria. A strong pull
towards a certain person is probably the most important criteria. 

The understanding that the teacher may not be perfect or even honest,
 while he is capable of transmitting the infinite value, maybe very
useful. When you are aware of this fact, I think it becomes possible
to receive from the guru just the infinite value and not adopting the
other stuff or adopting it selectively. You may also become capable of
resisting getting bound by the guru or resisting expectations of
donating money etc. Having this kind of understanding makes it also
easier to leave the guru, when you have learned, what you needed.

The gurus with less evolved personalities are manipulative and try
often to control the devotees and require them to make promises of
loyalty to them and `their techniques'. When you have clarity about
these features, you are not anymore so easily intimidated by the guru
with the consequences of leaving him or criticising him. If a guru
makes such threats he is really a very low level person, whom it would
be better to leave behind.

When I started more seriously doing physical workout, I  chose a gym
where the athletes exercised. I enjoyed very much their presence and
tuned into their way of using their body and muscles. I was not
interested in adopting their world view or attitudes and that didn't
happen either. But most probably doing workout in that kind of company
was quite helpful to me. At least I consider myself to be a sort of
athlete too nowadays.

I personally consider a guru to be false if there is no personal
contact with him. One should be capable of discussing one's issues and
doubts personally with the guru on regular basis. If there is no such
contact there is no real guru/devotee relationship. In that situation
the so called `guru' is primarily an object of idealization. And then
his function is more to fill up your inner emptiness and to strengthen
the defences against perception of the internal denial of certain
aspects of one's personality.
 
Irmeli





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[FairfieldLife] Re: Observing Guru Dev's Birthday

2005-12-22 Thread Irmeli Mattsson
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, lupidus108 [EMAIL PROTECTED]
wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Peter [EMAIL PROTECTED] 
 wrote:
 
  Welcome back Lups! Where you been, boyo?
 
 Just been throughly fed up at all the garbage in here that's all :-)
  


I'm just curious: have you ever got fed up by your own carbage?

I have got fed up by your carbage. Especially when you have sent me
private slander e-mails.

Irmeli







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[FairfieldLife] Keeping Things Quiet (was Re: Hurdy Gurdy Man revealed)

2005-12-06 Thread Irmeli Mattsson
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, sparaig [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, bluecabbagerose 
 [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:
 
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, sparaig [EMAIL PROTECTED] 
 wrote:
  
   --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Rick Archer 
   [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:
   
on 12/5/05 1:14 PM, TurquoiseB at [EMAIL PROTECTED] 
 wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Rick Archer
 [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:
 on 12/3/05 11:42 PM, sparaig at [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:
 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Rick Archer
 [EMAIL PROTECTED]:
 on 12/3/05 3:25 PM, sparaig at [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:
 
 Actually, they're quite private, even secretive. 
 Maharishi
 isn't people.
 
 But WHY do they talk about it with YOU?
 
 They've talked about it with other people. They're just not
 running to the
 newspapers or setting up a web site.
 
 Patiently: but why are they talking about it at all?
 
 Put yourself in their shoes and ask yourself that question.
 Don't the have a right to? Are they under some moral
 obligation to remain silent all their lives?
 
 That question, Why are they talking about it at all?
 says a lot about a very prevalent trend/teaching in the
 TM movement that I don't think is positive.
 
 Don't focus on the negative.  Don't talk about those
 unpleasant things.  Ever hear those phrases?

In the case of the TMO, it's like the professor in the Wizard 
 of 
  Oz 
   saying
Don't pay any attention to the man behind the curtain. 
 There's 
   something
to hide.
   
   
   Still haven't answered my question...
  
  I thought Rick answered it perfectly in another post. Why NOT talk 
  about it? It is a painful life experience a number of women have 
  experienced. Why should they keep quiet about it? Why continue to 
  protect the perpetrator by remaining silent? Being able to talk 
 about 
  a painful experience, especially after having kept it secret for 
 many 
  years, is a very common way to begin the healing process. Ever hear 
  of the term, Get something off my chest? There are a few lines I 
  often repeat to myself when I think of the dear friends I 
  have unloaded on over the years:
  
  Joys when extended will always increase,
  And griefs when divided are hushed into peace.
  
  Talking about painful experiences is an incredibly great way to 
 heal 
  them.
 
 
 
 IS it an incredibly great way to heal? Actually, I don't know the 
 timelines for when the events took place (allegedly) or when they 
 allegedly told people about them, but Rick said something 
 about months later in at least some of the cases.



It is a great way to heal. Especially for you it could do miracles.
Just start exposing us your little secrets and maybe one day you could
enjoy life without Prozac!

Irmeli





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[FairfieldLife] Keeping Things Quiet (was Re: Hurdy Gurdy Man revealed)

2005-12-06 Thread Irmeli Mattsson
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, sparaig [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Irmeli Mattsson 
 [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:
 
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, sparaig [EMAIL PROTECTED] 
 wrote:
  
   --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, bluecabbagerose 
   [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:
   
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, sparaig [EMAIL PROTECTED] 
   wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Rick Archer 
 [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:
 
  on 12/5/05 1:14 PM, TurquoiseB at [EMAIL PROTECTED] 
   wrote:
  
   --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Rick Archer
   [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:
   on 12/3/05 11:42 PM, sparaig at [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:
   --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Rick Archer
   [EMAIL PROTECTED]:
   on 12/3/05 3:25 PM, sparaig at [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:
   
   Actually, they're quite private, even secretive. 
   Maharishi
   isn't people.
   
   But WHY do they talk about it with YOU?
   
   They've talked about it with other people. They're 
 just not
   running to the
   newspapers or setting up a web site.
   
   Patiently: but why are they talking about it at all?
   
   Put yourself in their shoes and ask yourself that 
 question.
   Don't the have a right to? Are they under some moral
   obligation to remain silent all their lives?
   
   That question, Why are they talking about it at all?
   says a lot about a very prevalent trend/teaching in the
   TM movement that I don't think is positive.
   
   Don't focus on the negative.  Don't talk about those
   unpleasant things.  Ever hear those phrases?
  
  In the case of the TMO, it's like the professor in the 
 Wizard 
   of 
Oz 
 saying
  Don't pay any attention to the man behind the curtain. 
   There's 
 something
  to hide.
 
 
 Still haven't answered my question...

I thought Rick answered it perfectly in another post. Why NOT 
 talk 
about it? It is a painful life experience a number of women 
 have 
experienced. Why should they keep quiet about it? Why continue 
 to 
protect the perpetrator by remaining silent? Being able to talk 
   about 
a painful experience, especially after having kept it secret 
 for 
   many 
years, is a very common way to begin the healing process. Ever 
 hear 
of the term, Get something off my chest? There are a few 
 lines I 
often repeat to myself when I think of the dear friends I 
have unloaded on over the years:

Joys when extended will always increase,
And griefs when divided are hushed into peace.

Talking about painful experiences is an incredibly great way to 
   heal 
them.
   
   
   
   IS it an incredibly great way to heal? Actually, I don't know the 
   timelines for when the events took place (allegedly) or when they 
   allegedly told people about them, but Rick said something 
   about months later in at least some of the cases.
  
  
  
  It is a great way to heal. Especially for you it could do miracles.
  Just start exposing us your little secrets and maybe one day you 
 could
  enjoy life without Prozac!
  
  Irmeli
 
 
 What, like I should talk about the drunken woman I date-raped when I 
 was about 22? THere's durned little about my past I haven't faced at 
 one time or another, as far as I can tell.



You have other secrets also. Something that is happening at the
present day and also something concerning your writing and you are
hiding those things from us. Anyway you had a very good start.
Congratulations. Just go on with your revelations!

Irmeli






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[FairfieldLife] Keeping Things Quiet (was Re: Hurdy Gurdy Man revealed)

2005-12-06 Thread Irmeli Mattsson
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, sparaig [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 Yer just a plain nut. Its quite obvious that you have some kind of 
 anger and pain that can only be appeased by mocking other people's 
 pain and guilt under the guise of requesting inner revelations.


I think my husband would agree with you!

Irmeli





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[FairfieldLife] Re: Hurdy Gurdy Man revealed

2005-12-04 Thread Irmeli Mattsson
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Peter [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 
 
 --- Irmeli Mattsson [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:
 
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Peter
  [EMAIL PROTECTED] 
  wrote:
  
   I think the point here is that one's credilbility
  lies
   not in some sort of objective criteria we can all
   agree upon. These allegations of sexual advances
   and/or acts by MMY are believed by some and denied
  by
   others. A lot of it has to do with our own concept
  of
   what and who MMY is to us. Frankly, I see the
  sexual
   allegations as true because of my own
   belief/experience in the credibility of the
  accusers.
   I still also find MMY to be an amazing man/guru
  who
   has been the catalyst for profound changes in my
   consciousness. Why he's poking around in the
  bushes of
   CP's is beyond me!
   
  
 Irmeli: Dr Pete I find really intriguing your understanding
  about MMY and 
  enlightenment. 
  You have explained many times how in enlightenment
  there is no `I'. 
  And you have explained  many times how you consider
  MMY to be an 
  enlightened blazing Self, although he is also
  narcissistic and goofy 
  in the personality department.
  
  When you say MMY to be an amazing man/guru, do you
  mean the 
  narcissistic personality department?  You couldn't
  refer to the `I'  
  or self department, if there is no `I'? Or could
  you?
  
  In a state of localized  conceptual and intellectual
  confusion I'm 
  waiting for your answer.  
  
  

 
 Peter:I wouldn't want to leave you localized in conceptual
 and intellectual confusion! MMY has a localized value
 and an unbounded value to his being as everyone else
 does. MMY's personality is just that, a personality
 influenced/created by his unique and shared cultural
 experiences. It has its narcissitic traits as both you
 and I have talked about. But then there is an infinite
 value which is completely awake to itself. In most
 others this infinite value is only partially awake to
 itself. For what ever reason (dharma, karma, frequent
 high colonics), in MMY's presence, this infinite value
 completely dominates. Any finite value of the
 personality is experienced as false and insignificant
 in this context of infinity. The finite value has a
 dream-like falsenes to it: it's only a thought in this
 huge infinity. I have the same experience with SSRS.
 The only authentic difference between MMY and SSRS is
 the personality. SSRS is sweet as MMY has called
 him. He's a really nice guy. Very down to earth, open
 and friendly. But the infinite value in both of them
 is experienced in exactly the same way. There is no
 difference between the two. This infinity eats any
 boundary, any difference (it's poison, meditators
 should watch out for it!). So for me MMY is both this
 personality and infinity. Did that help?
 

Thank you for your thought out response. Your account makes sense to
me. Have you seen this strong infinite value in some other persons
than MMY and SSRS? 
I remember you having said that you don't perceive it in Ammachi. I
did perceive that value rather strongly present in her. Are there
possibly still some other persons, in whom you have sensed that kind
of strong presence? 
A few years ago I saw an interview in TV. The young man interviewed
there immediately captivated my attention, while I didn't know what
the program was about. The man had a strong and innocent radiance in
his face. He had deep blue eyes with strong cosmic infinity in his
look and light curly  hair coming to the shoulders. The first 
impression was: there is something angel like in that man. I started
to listen to the interview. I found the man was a murderer, who had
just been released from prison. He was there telling, how he was now a
totally changed man. I was first impressed. But after listenening to
his story a little bit longer, I realized that it all had happened too
easily. The story the man was telling was most probably not true. More
likely the young man was a full blown psychopath. So this mixture of
the infinite value together with different kinds of personalities is
really an enigma and can confuse people thoroughly. At least it is
good to remember that the presence of the infinite value in a person
doesn't make him a better person in relation to others, but he in
spite of that may be capable of transmitting that value to others.

The thing that has caused a lot of confusion in me with your
expressions is because you apparently mean by no `I' actually the
infinite value strongly present in a person. I again understand `I' to
be the subject, the integrating property of sensations, emotions and
thoughts to a whole with a continuity in a person. When this function
fails people become severely insane, and when it is weak the person
needs continuous confirmation of one's value and `I' from outside,
which often means narcissism.

When I look back at my own development the `I' has become clearly
stronger: that is the integrating

[FairfieldLife] Re: Gotcha Games

2005-12-04 Thread Irmeli Mattsson
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, anonymousff [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Peter [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:
 
  --- anonymousff [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:
  
  
   
   I suspect Judy's high minded, passive agressive
   response will be 
   Well, if you don't care about lying and distortions
   on this list, and
   life in general,  well, well, I feel sorry for you.
   
   No, we don't care about what you interpret endlessly
   as lying and
   distortions. We have a brian, we can make our own
   assessments.
  
  Ha! You said brian! instead of brain. Gotcha!!! Ha
  Ha Ha!
  
 
 No, Brian is the name of the main voice inside my head. Of course
 there is also Fred, Omar, Jean-Luc, Astrid, Ramur and Closters. 
 
 What are the names of your voices.



John is the most compassionate and loving voice and who is practically
all the time present. Probaly John is composed of many different
entities. I just perceive him as one.Then there is About. He only
announces his approval by saying 'about' in a matter of fact fashion.
Then there were earlier also female 'Good Lord' voices that were very
hypocritical. The other voices are more secretive of their names or I
don't just accept any nimes. They are just anonyms even if there are
anons with many different qualities and personalities.Sometimes I can
witness 2 or 3 of them having a dialogue in my mind. No wonder I
rarely listen to radio or watch TV. All the voices speak English,
which has clearly improved my English skills. They are also quite
creative, and eagerly suggest different responses, when I write for
example at FFL. My job is just to choose between the different
suggestions. Quite handy.

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[FairfieldLife] Re: Hurdy Gurdy Man revealed

2005-12-03 Thread Irmeli Mattsson
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Peter [EMAIL PROTECTED] 
wrote:

 I think the point here is that one's credilbility lies
 not in some sort of objective criteria we can all
 agree upon. These allegations of sexual advances
 and/or acts by MMY are believed by some and denied by
 others. A lot of it has to do with our own concept of
 what and who MMY is to us. Frankly, I see the sexual
 allegations as true because of my own
 belief/experience in the credibility of the accusers.
 I still also find MMY to be an amazing man/guru who
 has been the catalyst for profound changes in my
 consciousness. Why he's poking around in the bushes of
 CP's is beyond me!
 

Dr Pete I find really intriguing your understanding about MMY and 
enlightenment. 
You have explained many times how in enlightenment there is no `I'. 
And you have explained  many times how you consider MMY to be an 
enlightened blazing Self, although he is also narcissistic and goofy 
in the personality department.

When you say MMY to be an amazing man/guru, do you mean the 
narcissistic personality department?  You couldn't refer to the `I'  
or self department, if there is no `I'? Or could you?

In a state of localized  conceptual and intellectual confusion I'm 
waiting for your answer.  


Irmeli






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[FairfieldLife] Re: Are the Pundits coming?

2005-11-29 Thread Irmeli Mattsson
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, sparaig [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 Given that you're all a bunch of enlightened guys, you all shure give 
 the appearance of having an unhealthy worship (attachment) to linear 
 thinking...



And you seem to justify yourself cynical, crooked and tricky thinking
by calling it `enlightened' nonlinear thinking. `Ends justify means'
seem also to belong to your toolkit as an high performer.

Irmeli





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