[FairfieldLife] Re: Is Byron Katie's the work a form of moodmaking?

2007-07-26 Thread Rory Goff
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, TurquoiseB [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: Now let me get this straight. Someone says something, and that causes part of you to feel discomfort, reveals a particle which I hadn't noticed before :-) which you perceive as suffering. Which *it* perceives as

[FairfieldLife] Re: Is Byron Katie's the work a form of moodmaking?

2007-07-26 Thread Alex Stanley
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, matrixmonitor [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: --Right, but TALKING (or posting stuff on the internet) about Enlightenment is another story. The Neo-Advaitins are saying their story is superior to the stories of others. Buddhism has an absolute continuum of

[FairfieldLife] Re: Is Byron Katie's the work a form of moodmaking?

2007-07-26 Thread matrixmonitor
---(below - particles are mutually inclusive, the universe within a grain of sand); and aspect of HOLOGRAPHY, the concept of which seems to have originated with Zhiyi, of the Tien Tai School of Buddhism, 6- th century. The holographic concept (although not using that word) achieved a greater

[FairfieldLife] Re: Is Byron Katie's the work a form of moodmaking?

2007-07-26 Thread matrixmonitor
--Right, but TALKING (or posting stuff on the internet) about Enlightenment is another story. The Neo-Advaitins are saying their story is superior to the stories of others. Buddhism has an absolute continuum of existence, and doesn't get into such infantile games. - In

[FairfieldLife] Re: Is Byron Katie's the work a form of moodmaking?

2007-07-26 Thread Rory Goff
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, t3rinity [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: snip When I was asked the same question that you asked Jim and Rory, I have thought, what I would answer from my own very limited perspective of being only an infinitesimal particle of Rory, which I am sure I am, snip I

[FairfieldLife] Re: Is Byron Katie's the work a form of moodmaking?

2007-07-26 Thread Alex Stanley
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, TurquoiseB [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Rory Goff rorygoff@ wrote: --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, TurquoiseB no_reply@ wrote: Sure doesn't sound *anything* like moodmaking to me. :-) No doubt :-) But

[FairfieldLife] Re: Is Byron Katie's the work a form of moodmaking?

2007-07-26 Thread authfriend
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Vaj [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: On Jul 26, 2007, at 10:23 AM, authfriend wrote: And while you're at it, you might ask yourself why your fantasy that someone else thinks they're great and you're not provokes in you such a powerfully defensive reaction.

[FairfieldLife] Re: Is Byron Katie's the work a form of moodmaking?

2007-07-26 Thread authfriend
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, TurquoiseB [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: snip I can't, and have no desire to, prove anything to you about the truth or falseness of your own projected fantasies. I can only point out the *nature* of those fantasies. This latest one deconstructs to, You are

[FairfieldLife] Re: Is Byron Katie's the work a form of moodmaking?

2007-07-26 Thread TurquoiseB
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Rory Goff [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Rory Goff rorygoff@ wrote: I said, essentially a waste of time *unless* they're areas you're personally feeling particular pain and suffering in, the object being to realize

[FairfieldLife] Re: Is Byron Katie's the work a form of moodmaking?

2007-07-26 Thread t3rinity
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, new.morning [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: I think some here, perhaps Rory and Jim, have expressed something of that sort. I do know that when you are dreaming, its hard to accept that you are dreaming -- but assume you are awake. Though sometimes in the dream,

[FairfieldLife] Re: Is Byron Katie's the work a form of moodmaking?

2007-07-26 Thread TurquoiseB
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, jim_flanegin [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, TurquoiseB no_reply@ wrote: --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend jstein@ wrote: Was in a rush before; want to add a couple things: --- In

[FairfieldLife] Re: Is Byron Katie's the work a form of moodmaking?

2007-07-26 Thread Rory Goff
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, TurquoiseB [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: Just as a question, given Maharishi's descriptions of enlightenment and what it is, *why* does this particle of you still feel discomfort and suffer- ing? Isn't it free of stress and beyond such things if you're

[FairfieldLife] Re: Is Byron Katie's the work a form of moodmaking?

2007-07-26 Thread Duveyoung
Turq said to Rory: Now let me get this straight. Someone says something, and that causes part of you to feel discomfort, which you perceive as suffering. So you do the work until the discomfort goes away and you're feeling blissful, in the paradisical state of radiant Being, the way things

[FairfieldLife] Re: Is Byron Katie's the work a form of moodmaking?

2007-07-26 Thread Alex Stanley
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, TurquoiseB [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Rory Goff rorygoff@ wrote: --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Rory Goff rorygoff@ wrote: I said, essentially a waste of time *unless* they're areas you're personally

[FairfieldLife] Re: Is Byron Katie's the work a form of moodmaking?

2007-07-26 Thread Rory Goff
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Rory Goff rorygoff@ wrote: I(t) might be even more fun if you also admit that *I* am also an infinitesimal particle of You; it works both ways :-) --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, t3rinity [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: That can't be. That

[FairfieldLife] Re: Is Byron Katie's the work a form of moodmaking?

2007-07-26 Thread t3rinity
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Rory Goff [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, t3rinity no_reply@ wrote: snip When I was asked the same question that you asked Jim and Rory, I have thought, what I would answer from my own very limited perspective of being

Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Is Byron Katie's the work a form of moodmaking?

2007-07-26 Thread Vaj
On Jul 26, 2007, at 10:23 AM, authfriend wrote: And while you're at it, you might ask yourself why your fantasy that someone else thinks they're great and you're not provokes in you such a powerfully defensive reaction. And while you're at it, you might want to ask yourself why you have

[FairfieldLife] Re: Is Byron Katie's the work a form of moodmaking?

2007-07-26 Thread jim_flanegin
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, TurquoiseB [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: The bottom line of your posts, Jim, is that we have to accept you as *you see yourself*, and that's that. It's basically how Maharishi comes across as well. Not gonna happen... Except that my entire post was about

[FairfieldLife] Re: Is Byron Katie's the work a form of moodmaking?

2007-07-26 Thread Rory Goff
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Rory Goff rorygoff@ wrote: I said, essentially a waste of time *unless* they're areas you're personally feeling particular pain and suffering in, the object being to realize one's eternal liberation from bondage and suffering. If you're not

[FairfieldLife] Re: Is Byron Katie's the work a form of moodmaking?

2007-07-25 Thread t3rinity
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend jstein@ wrote: --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues curtisdeltablues@ wrote: snip I don't view the ego in the way you seem to be using it

[FairfieldLife] Re: Is Byron Katie's the work a form of moodmaking?

2007-07-25 Thread nablusoss1008
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Rory Goff [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues curtisdeltablues@ wrote: Me: I have been enjoying lurking I have been thinking something about how you write that I would like to run by you Rory. I think

[FairfieldLife] Re: Is Byron Katie's the work a form of moodmaking?

2007-07-25 Thread t3rinity
Thanks Curtis for your quick response, and especially for not taking offense in any way. That really speaks for you. --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: Thanks for taking the time to respond in detail. I think you have brought out some very good

[FairfieldLife] Re: Is Byron Katie's the work a form of moodmaking?

2007-07-25 Thread nablusoss1008
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, jim_flanegin [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, matrixmonitor matrixmonitor@ wrote: ---the people you mention - living in cages. They should practice TM regularly and buy all the CD's DVD's relating to Ramana

[FairfieldLife] Re: Is Byron Katie's the work a form of moodmaking?

2007-07-25 Thread jim_flanegin
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, new.morning [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, jim_flanegin jflanegi@ wrote: --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, sinhlnx sinhlnx@ wrote: ---Consider an apartment as a type of cage. Could a person only think the

[FairfieldLife] Re: Is Byron Katie's the work a form of moodmaking?

2007-07-25 Thread new . morning
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, jim_flanegin [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, new.morning no_reply@ wrote: --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, jim_flanegin jflanegi@ wrote: --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, sinhlnx sinhlnx@ wrote:

[FairfieldLife] Re: Is Byron Katie's the work a form of moodmaking?

2007-07-25 Thread jim_flanegin
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, nablusoss1008 [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, jim_flanegin jflanegi@ wrote: --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, matrixmonitor matrixmonitor@ wrote: ---the people you mention - living in cages. They should

Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Is Byron Katie's the work a form of moodmaking?

2007-07-25 Thread Vaj
On Jul 24, 2007, at 10:39 PM, new.morning wrote: This is a common theme in neo-advaitin realizers, the inability to present a correct View (drsti) regarding the two truths (satyadvaya). Being THE correct view, I am sure all realized ones agree on it. :-) If only.

[FairfieldLife] Re: Is Byron Katie's the work a form of moodmaking?

2007-07-25 Thread jim_flanegin
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, nablusoss1008 [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: Just one short comment to this: For me it is a wonderful refreshment to FFL, and for me personally, that you and Jim are saying what you do. Since the two of you started saying what you say this place has made a

[FairfieldLife] Re: Is Byron Katie's the work a form of moodmaking?

2007-07-25 Thread new . morning
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, jim_flanegin [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: An yet, someone also said (Saint Byron perhaps) that if you can't imagine the opposite of something -- as possibly being true, then you are stuck in in that boundary. The point of my kidding has been, Can you

[FairfieldLife] Re: Is Byron Katie's the work a form of moodmaking?

2007-07-25 Thread curtisdeltablues
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, t3rinity [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: Thanks Curtis for your quick response, and especially for not taking offense in any way. That really speaks for you. It was easy not to be offended since your post had some interesting points for me to think about. It

[FairfieldLife] Re: Is Byron Katie's the work a form of moodmaking?

2007-07-25 Thread curtisdeltablues
Rory: As I said when I first met you here, I am completely willing to be unenlightened with you in your world, if you are willing to be enlightened with me in mine -- will that do? Can we be both ordinary and special simultaneously together? I will if you will. Actually, I will even if you won't

[FairfieldLife] Re: Is Byron Katie's the work a form of moodmaking?

2007-07-25 Thread jim_flanegin
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, new.morning [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, jim_flanegin jflanegi@ wrote: An yet, someone also said (Saint Byron perhaps) that if you can't imagine the opposite of something -- as possibly being true, then you

[FairfieldLife] Re: Is Byron Katie's the work a form of moodmaking?

2007-07-25 Thread TurquoiseB
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, jim_flanegin [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, new.morning no_reply@ wrote: --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, jim_flanegin jflanegi@ wrote: An yet, someone also said (Saint Byron perhaps) that if you can't

[FairfieldLife] Re: Is Byron Katie's the work a form of moodmaking?

2007-07-25 Thread jim_flanegin
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, TurquoiseB [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: You're enlightened, and you refuse to even *think* that you might not be. Did I get that right, Jim? You are missing what I and many others have already said again and again here. Enlightenment is not experienced on the

[FairfieldLife] Re: Is Byron Katie's the work a form of moodmaking?

2007-07-25 Thread Marek Reavis
Quick comment at the bottom: ** --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: Rory: As I said when I first met you here, I am completely willing to be unenlightened with you in your world, if you are willing to be enlightened with me in mine -- will that

[FairfieldLife] Re: Is Byron Katie's the work a form of moodmaking?

2007-07-25 Thread qntmpkt
---Thanks, true, but why are you talking about it? In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, jim_flanegin [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, TurquoiseB no_reply@ wrote: You're enlightened, and you refuse to even *think* that you might not be. Did I get that right,

[FairfieldLife] Re: Is Byron Katie's the work a form of moodmaking?

2007-07-25 Thread jim_flanegin
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, jim_flanegin jflanegi@ wrote: --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, TurquoiseB no_reply@ wrote: You're enlightened, and you refuse to even *think* that you might not be.

[FairfieldLife] Re: Is Byron Katie's the work a form of moodmaking?

2007-07-25 Thread jim_flanegin
Good question— Are you not interested? Seriously, there are many seekers on the path, like the poster who asked me if I think I am or am not enlightened, who want to believe that we can achieve an enlightened state permanently, theoretically, maybe, possibly, almost, according to these

[FairfieldLife] Re: Is Byron Katie's the work a form of moodmaking?

2007-07-25 Thread authfriend
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, jim_flanegin [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, TurquoiseB no_reply@ wrote: You're enlightened, and you refuse to even *think* that you might not be. Did I get that right, Jim? You are missing what I and many others have

[FairfieldLife] Re: Is Byron Katie's the work a form of moodmaking?

2007-07-25 Thread TurquoiseB
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, jim_flanegin jflanegi@ wrote: --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, TurquoiseB no_reply@ wrote: You're enlightened, and you refuse to even *think* that you might not be.

[FairfieldLife] Re: Is Byron Katie's the work a form of moodmaking?

2007-07-25 Thread TurquoiseB
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: Was in a rush before; want to add a couple things: --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, TurquoiseB no_reply@ wrote: snip *Without a doubt*, these people's enlightenment was self-evident to them. There was no

[FairfieldLife] Re: Is Byron Katie's the work a form of moodmaking?

2007-07-25 Thread authfriend
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, TurquoiseB [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend jstein@ wrote: --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, jim_flanegin jflanegi@ wrote: --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, TurquoiseB no_reply@ wrote: You're

[FairfieldLife] Re: Is Byron Katie's the work a form of moodmaking?

2007-07-25 Thread Rory Goff
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: snip One of the paradoxes of the TM system is that anyone claiming to have reached the goal was always viewed with great suspicion when I was involved. I can imagine the rash of S-- you would have gotten for

[FairfieldLife] Re: Is Byron Katie's the work a form of moodmaking?

2007-07-25 Thread Rory Goff
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, jim_flanegin [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, TurquoiseB no_reply@ wrote: You're enlightened, and you refuse to even *think* that you might not be. Did I get that right, Jim? You are missing what I and many others have

[FairfieldLife] Re: Is Byron Katie's the work a form of moodmaking?

2007-07-25 Thread Rory Goff
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, TurquoiseB [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: He can correct me if I'm wrong, but I think that what new.morning was getting at is whether you or anyone who considers themselves enlightened are willing to do the work on your assumption that you're enlightened.

[FairfieldLife] Re: Is Byron Katie's the work a form of moodmaking?

2007-07-25 Thread jim_flanegin
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, TurquoiseB [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend jstein@ wrote: Was in a rush before; want to add a couple things: --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, TurquoiseB no_reply@ wrote: snip *Without a doubt*,

[FairfieldLife] Re: Is Byron Katie's the work a form of moodmaking?

2007-07-25 Thread Alex Stanley
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, jim_flanegin jflanegi@ wrote: --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, TurquoiseB no_reply@ wrote: --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend jstein@ wrote:

[FairfieldLife] Re: Is Byron Katie's the work a form of moodmaking?

2007-07-25 Thread new . morning
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, jim_flanegin [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, new.morning no_reply@ wrote: I don't know where to start with your plethora of rhetorical questions. They are interesting questions, IMO. But I like to play with

[FairfieldLife] Re: Is Byron Katie's the work a form of moodmaking?

2007-07-25 Thread authfriend
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, jim_flanegin [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, TurquoiseB no_reply@ wrote: --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend jstein@ wrote: Was in a rush before; want to add a couple things: --- In

[FairfieldLife] Re: Is Byron Katie's the work a form of moodmaking?

2007-07-25 Thread new . morning
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, jim_flanegin jflanegi@ wrote: --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, TurquoiseB no_reply@ wrote: You're enlightened, and you refuse to even *think* that you might not be.

[FairfieldLife] Re: Is Byron Katie's the work a form of moodmaking?

2007-07-25 Thread yifuxero
---to a certain extent, your're right, Vaj; except that there's an infinite variation in the possible Siddhis, and then one would have to judge which of them is a criterion: certainly, being able to communicate with lobsters would be on top of the list, for sure! At the very least, Siddhis

[FairfieldLife] Re: Is Byron Katie's the work a form of moodmaking?

2007-07-25 Thread jim_flanegin
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, new.morning [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, jim_flanegin jflanegi@ wrote: --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, TurquoiseB no_reply@ wrote: You're enlightened, and you refuse to even *think* that you might not be.

[FairfieldLife] Re: Is Byron Katie's the work a form of moodmaking?

2007-07-25 Thread new . morning
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, jim_flanegin [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, new.morning no_reply@ wrote: that sort. I do know that when you are dreaming, its hard to accept that you are dreaming -- but assume you are awake. Though sometimes in the

[FairfieldLife] Re: Is Byron Katie's the work a form of moodmaking?

2007-07-25 Thread new . morning
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, jim_flanegin [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: Good question— Are you not interested? Seriously, there are many seekers on the path, like the poster who asked me if I think I am or am not enlightened, I assume you man me. Or perhaps Barry. Perhaps both of us

[FairfieldLife] Re: Is Byron Katie's the work a form of moodmaking?

2007-07-25 Thread new . morning
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, TurquoiseB [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend jstein@ wrote: --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, jim_flanegin jflanegi@ wrote: --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, TurquoiseB no_reply@ wrote: You're

[FairfieldLife] Re: Is Byron Katie's the work a form of moodmaking?

2007-07-25 Thread jim_flanegin
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, new.morning [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, jim_flanegin jflanegi@ wrote: Good question— Are you not interested? Seriously, there are many seekers on the path, like the poster who asked me if I think I am or am

Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Is Byron Katie's the work a form of moodmaking?

2007-07-25 Thread Vaj
On Jul 25, 2007, at 9:09 PM, new.morning wrote: --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Vaj [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: On Jul 25, 2007, at 10:17 AM, new.morning wrote: Can you absolutely know that it's true? I hate to bring up what seems obvious to me, but there are objective ways to

[FairfieldLife] Re: Is Byron Katie's the work a form of moodmaking?

2007-07-25 Thread jim_flanegin
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, new.morning [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend jstein@ wrote: --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, jim_flanegin jflanegi@ wrote: --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, TurquoiseB no_reply@ wrote:

[FairfieldLife] Re: Is Byron Katie's the work a form of moodmaking?

2007-07-25 Thread jim_flanegin
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Rory Goff [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, jim_flanegin jflanegi@ wrote: --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, TurquoiseB no_reply@ wrote: You're enlightened, and you refuse to even *think* that you might not be.

[FairfieldLife] Re: Is Byron Katie's the work a form of moodmaking?

2007-07-25 Thread new . morning
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, TurquoiseB [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, jim_flanegin jflanegi@ wrote: --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, new.morning no_reply@ wrote: Can you imagine that you are only imagining that you are enlightened if

[FairfieldLife] Re: Is Byron Katie's the work a form of moodmaking?

2007-07-25 Thread new . morning
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Rory Goff [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, TurquoiseB no_reply@ wrote: He can correct me if I'm wrong, but I think that what new.morning was getting at is whether you or anyone who considers themselves enlightened are

[FairfieldLife] Re: Is Byron Katie's the work a form of moodmaking?

2007-07-25 Thread new . morning
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Rory Goff [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, mathatbrahman mathatbrahman@ wrote: ---Nope I disagree. The questions below are legitimate, of interest, and potentially of value; but obviously not to Neo-Advaitins who

[FairfieldLife] Re: Is Byron Katie's the work a form of moodmaking?

2007-07-25 Thread jim_flanegin
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, new.morning [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Rory Goff rorygoff@ wrote: --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, mathatbrahman mathatbrahman@ wrote: ---Nope I disagree. The questions below are legitimate, of

[FairfieldLife] Re: Is Byron Katie's the work a form of moodmaking?

2007-07-25 Thread jim_flanegin
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Vaj [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: On Jul 25, 2007, at 5:20 PM, TurquoiseB wrote: I'm just sayin' that there is a big red flag raised for me when someone believes one of their stories so completely And Jim was just sayin' that the nature of

[FairfieldLife] Re: Is Byron Katie's the work a form of moodmaking?

2007-07-25 Thread jim_flanegin
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Alex Stanley [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend jstein@ wrote: --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, jim_flanegin jflanegi@ wrote: --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, TurquoiseB no_reply@ wrote:

[FairfieldLife] Re: Is Byron Katie's the work a form of moodmaking?

2007-07-25 Thread jim_flanegin
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, new.morning [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, jim_flanegin jflanegi@ wrote: --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, new.morning no_reply@ wrote: I don't know where to start with your plethora of rhetorical

[FairfieldLife] Re: Is Byron Katie's the work a form of moodmaking?

2007-07-25 Thread authfriend
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, new.morning [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend jstein@ wrote: --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, jim_flanegin jflanegi@ wrote: --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, TurquoiseB no_reply@ wrote:

[FairfieldLife] Re: Is Byron Katie's the work a form of moodmaking?

2007-07-25 Thread new . morning
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, jim_flanegin [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, TurquoiseB no_reply@ wrote: You're enlightened, and you refuse to even *think* that you might not be. Did I get that right, Jim? You are missing what I and many others have

[FairfieldLife] Re: Is Byron Katie's the work a form of moodmaking?

2007-07-25 Thread new . morning
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Vaj [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: On Jul 25, 2007, at 10:17 AM, new.morning wrote: Can you absolutely know that it's true? I hate to bring up what seems obvious to me, but there are objective ways to test states of enlightenment which have been used

[FairfieldLife] Re: Is Byron Katie's the work a form of moodmaking?

2007-07-25 Thread new . morning
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Marek Reavis [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: Quick comment at the bottom: ** Curtis, your last comment (last sentence, immediately above) re the friendly connection represents for me, too, the best of FFL. Whenever people here are willing to presume the

[FairfieldLife] Re: Is Byron Katie's the work a form of moodmaking?

2007-07-25 Thread authfriend
Was in a rush before; want to add a couple things: --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, TurquoiseB [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: snip *Without a doubt*, these people's enlightenment was self-evident to them. There was no question in their minds that it existed. But did it? I have no idea. Do

[FairfieldLife] Re: Is Byron Katie's the work a form of moodmaking?

2007-07-25 Thread mathatbrahman
---Nope I disagree. The questions below are legitimate, of interest, and potentially of value; but obviously not to Neo-Advaitins who believe that nothing exists anyway. As for Buddhists, Sakyamuni Buddha stated that there's not enough time to investigate natural laws and also do one's

[FairfieldLife] Re: Is Byron Katie's the work a form of moodmaking?

2007-07-25 Thread Rory Goff
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, new.morning [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Rory Goff rorygoff@ wrote: --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, TurquoiseB no_reply@ wrote: He can correct me if I'm wrong, but I think that what new.morning was getting

[FairfieldLife] Re: Is Byron Katie's the work a form of moodmaking?

2007-07-25 Thread authfriend
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, new.morning [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, jim_flanegin jflanegi@ wrote: Good question— Are you not interested? Seriously, there are many seekers on the path, like the poster who asked me if I think I am or am

[FairfieldLife] Re: Is Byron Katie's the work a form of moodmaking?

2007-07-25 Thread new . morning
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Rory Goff [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, new.morning no_reply@ wrote: --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Rory Goff rorygoff@ wrote: No; much like Jim, I'd suggest these are essentially a waste of time For you or

[FairfieldLife] Re: Is Byron Katie's the work a form of moodmaking?

2007-07-25 Thread Rory Goff
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, new.morning [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Rory Goff rorygoff@ wrote: --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, new.morning no_reply@ wrote: --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Rory Goff rorygoff@ wrote:

[FairfieldLife] Re: Is Byron Katie's the work a form of moodmaking?

2007-07-25 Thread Rory Goff
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, mathatbrahman [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: ---Nope I disagree. The questions below are legitimate, of interest, and potentially of value; but obviously not to Neo-Advaitins who believe that nothing exists anyway. I said, essentially a waste of time

[FairfieldLife] Re: Is Byron Katie's the work a form of moodmaking?

2007-07-25 Thread authfriend
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, TurquoiseB [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend jstein@ wrote: Was in a rush before; want to add a couple things: --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, TurquoiseB no_reply@ wrote: snip *Without a doubt*,

Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Is Byron Katie's the work a form of moodmaking?

2007-07-25 Thread Vaj
On Jul 25, 2007, at 10:17 AM, new.morning wrote: Can you absolutely know that it's true? I hate to bring up what seems obvious to me, but there are objective ways to test states of enlightenment which have been used successfully for thousands of years. These are simple tests. If you

[FairfieldLife] Re: Is Byron Katie's the work a form of moodmaking?

2007-07-25 Thread jim_flanegin
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, TurquoiseB [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: Yet when Jim refuses to even *consider* examining his enlightenment, even if it's just theoretical and for fun, you defend him and claim that I'm accusing him of something. H. :-) Why don't we just leave it at

Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Is Byron Katie's the work a form of moodmaking?

2007-07-25 Thread Vaj
On Jul 25, 2007, at 5:20 PM, TurquoiseB wrote: I'm just sayin' that there is a big red flag raised for me when someone believes one of their stories so completely And Jim was just sayin' that the nature of enlightenment is such that it falls outside the category of stories,

[FairfieldLife] Re: Is Byron Katie's the work a form of moodmaking?

2007-07-24 Thread george_deforest
TurquoiseB wrote: I'm interested in hearing the fans of advaita (neo- or not) or Byron Katie explain to me why what seems like a contradiction to me isn't one. The desire in this case is to have no expectations of others in terms of their behavior, and to see them as other aspects of

[FairfieldLife] Re: Is Byron Katie's the work a form of moodmaking?

2007-07-24 Thread t3rinity
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Vaj [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: If you want to use paradox as a vehicle, try running through a couple hundred mahavakyas you don't already know an answer to or have discursive ideas about. Sorry Vaj, there are only 4 mahavakyas, all else are just vakyas.

[FairfieldLife] Re: Is Byron Katie's the work a form of moodmaking?

2007-07-24 Thread Rory Goff
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, TurquoiseB [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: The question is, How is doing 'the work,' Byron Katie- style, *not* fraught with addictive pain? It seems to me that what Rory describes above is very much a form of moodmaking -- starting with the assumption that one

Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Is Byron Katie's the work a form of moodmaking?

2007-07-24 Thread Vaj
On Jul 24, 2007, at 9:23 AM, t3rinity wrote: --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Vaj [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: If you want to use paradox as a vehicle, try running through a couple hundred mahavakyas you don't already know an answer to or have discursive ideas about. Sorry Vaj, there are

[FairfieldLife] Re: Is Byron Katie's the work a form of moodmaking?

2007-07-24 Thread Rory Goff
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Vaj [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: In the above example, Rory is embracing absolute POV 'criticizing is projecting our own inner pain on others' and therefore taking an extreme POV, rather than embracing the paradox: all is one and assholes still exist.

[FairfieldLife] Re: Is Byron Katie's the work a form of moodmaking?

2007-07-24 Thread Richard J. Williams
TurquoiseB wrote: The desire in this case is to have no expectations of others in terms of their behavior, and to see them as other aspects of one's Self, snip We Buddhists... We Buddhists? Do Buddhists believe in a Self? ...might have compassion for the poor, drugged- out guy, but

[FairfieldLife] Re: Is Byron Katie's the work a form of moodmaking?

2007-07-24 Thread authfriend
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Rory Goff [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, TurquoiseB no_reply@ wrote: snip Question, short form: Is Katie's the work, whether valuable or not, just another form of moodmaking? Answer, short form: No. I don't know.

[FairfieldLife] Re: Is Byron Katie's the work a form of moodmaking?

2007-07-24 Thread Rory Goff
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, TurquoiseB no_reply@ wrote: snip Question, short form: Is Katie's the work, whether valuable or not, just another form of moodmaking? Rory Goff rorygoff@ wrote: Answer, short form: No. --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, TurquoiseB no_reply@

[FairfieldLife] Re: Is Byron Katie's the work a form of moodmaking?

2007-07-24 Thread TurquoiseB
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Rory Goff rorygoff@ wrote: --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, TurquoiseB no_reply@ wrote: snip Question, short form: Is Katie's the work, whether valuable or not, just

[FairfieldLife] Re: Is Byron Katie's the work a form of moodmaking?

2007-07-24 Thread authfriend
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, TurquoiseB [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend jstein@ wrote: snip I'm chuckling, remembering when you suggested the Byron Katie approach to me some time back, and I rejected it on similar grounds to what Barry's

[FairfieldLife] Re: Is Byron Katie's the work a form of moodmaking?

2007-07-24 Thread t3rinity
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Vaj [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: On Jul 24, 2007, at 9:23 AM, t3rinity wrote: --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Vaj vajranatha@ wrote: If you want to use paradox as a vehicle, try running through a couple hundred mahavakyas you don't already

[FairfieldLife] Re: Is Byron Katie's the work a form of moodmaking?

2007-07-24 Thread curtisdeltablues
Rory: Right, you didn't offer me that marvelous image to play with -- but you *did* (in my reality anyhow) offer me your pain, which was all I really wanted. To whatever degree You and I are separate, my heartfelt thanks to You :-) Me: I have been enjoying lurking I have been thinking something

Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Is Byron Katie's the work a form of moodmaking?

2007-07-24 Thread Vaj
On Jul 24, 2007, at 12:09 PM, t3rinity wrote: I suggest to investigate terms from spiritual path within their own respective philosophies and not a hotchpotch of new age ideas. I couldn't agree more, but then of course I get called a traditionalist. sigh Not just advaita vedanta uses

[FairfieldLife] Re: Is Byron Katie's the work a form of moodmaking?

2007-07-24 Thread TurquoiseB
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: Rory: Right, you didn't offer me that marvelous image to play with -- but you *did* (in my reality anyhow) offer me your pain, which was all I really wanted. To whatever degree You and I are separate, my

[FairfieldLife] Re: Is Byron Katie's the work a form of moodmaking?

2007-07-24 Thread jim_flanegin
Are you sure you are talking about *Judy* here? because what I am hearing is you talking to yourself Barry, all the way down. Has nothing to do with Judy, except as a device for your own distraction.:-) --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, TurquoiseB [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: Your *stories*

[FairfieldLife] Re: Is Byron Katie's the work a form of moodmaking?

2007-07-24 Thread jim_flanegin
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, TurquoiseB [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues curtisdeltablues@ wrote: Rory: Right, you didn't offer me that marvelous image to play with -- but you *did* (in my reality anyhow) offer me your pain,

[FairfieldLife] Re: Is Byron Katie's the work a form of moodmaking?

2007-07-24 Thread qntmpkt
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Rory Goff [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Vaj vajranatha@ wrote: In the above example, Rory is embracing absolute POV 'criticizing is projecting our own inner pain on others' and therefore taking an extreme POV,

[FairfieldLife] Re: Is Byron Katie's the work a form of moodmaking?

2007-07-24 Thread qntmpkt
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Rory Goff [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Vaj vajranatha@ wrote: In the above example, Rory is embracing absolute POV 'criticizing is projecting our own inner pain on others' and therefore taking an extreme POV,

[FairfieldLife] Re: Is Byron Katie's the work a form of moodmaking?

2007-07-24 Thread authfriend
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, TurquoiseB [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: snip What you say about Rory's use of language as a ranking device certainly strikes a resonance with me, but now that you've brought it up, I can see it in many others as well. And yes, occasionally in myself. Rarely in

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